How Valid are Addu's Reasons for Hating Mohan

Since the Addu-Mohan confrontation was aired yesterday, I am sure almost all the viewers must be trying to figure out the validity of the reasons Addu/ CVs put forth in the episode.
I would not be honest if I say that I found them valid as I was watching the show. In fact the first thought that crossed my mind was...how stupid can they get...what crappy excuses that Addu is giving to cover his bad behaviour!!!!

This thought actually bugged me a lot. I saw the episode once again early this mornig and then I actually read between the lines and analysed this reasons from a child's frame of mind...

Friends I am not making excuses for the CVs Cause I love this show (which I definitely do) but because I love analysing people's behaviour... particularly children who grow up to be adults...
After great consideration I came upon the following facts which I would like to share with u all:

1. Addu's age when all this upheaval in his life happened...Addu was a child when he lost his father and since then he had been the centre of everyone's love and affection..but mostly his mum and sister Nanhi...then suddenly Mohan comes on the scene...

2 For all intents and purposes Mohan was a grown man but at that stage he was also an immature and bindas person...he was impulsive in most of his decisions, dedicated to his job, and awfully good at it too...but he had no respect for relationships except his bonding with his mum...He too had a bad relationship with his father...and may be because of that he was the flamboyant person they showed...

It was only as he came in contact with Nanhi and Megha that his outlook towards life, people and relationships changed...

4. His initial interaction with Nanhi and Addu/ Piddi was also totally different... he openly showed his love and attachment to Nanhi but was always annoyed with or annoying Addu...and he did not cushion his words or his actions when he was interacting with the boy...Addu remembered all this and kept it all in his mind and heart...which became the root cause of his hatred for MB...

5. Then Meghan got married and Mohan tried to become a good father to Addu...but failed miserably...here again he (Mohan) made another mistake...he tried to solve the problems on his own... he should have taken megha into his confidence over Addu's actions and together they could have handled that child...

6. At this stage we should not forget Renu's contribution to the whole fiasco...wasn't it she who had first sown the seeds of the stepfather word in little Addu's mind...how can we forget she encouraged him to run away once?

So when we think back to all the events I am sure we can see Addu's point of view a bit more clearly...the onus is now on Mohan (and of course on the CVs) as to how he changes Addu's thinking process and makes him accept him...this time not as a dad but at least as a friend and well-wisher...

If at all anyone's behaviour towards Mohan should be questioned it must be Nanhi's...she was totally wrong in throwing stepfather word at him so cruelly and also so frequently...she should at least have had more trust in him...after all it was her bonding with her spiderman that came first...even way before her mum fell for him...

Sorry for the long post and also for boring u guys on a Saturday morning...

Please comment and share your views also...

Have a great weekend and like me keep wondering what that Addu will now do to carry out his threat of destroying MB...and whether or how far he will succeed...But I have faith in Nanhi's spiderman... he will definitely set things right once again...

mujhe addu ki ek baath bahut dil ko lagi mujhe puri line yad nahi somewhat na jaane kya kya dekha,zinda raha...
Par isme mohan ki bhi koi galati nai hai na,addu ki soch galat hai
Mohan toh usko kya sahi hai samjha raha tha par uska hatred itna hai ki samajhhna nai chahta :(

Hey its not boring at all...actually dese points resurfaced in my mind too...
In yest epi as much i was annoyed by addu's reasons for hating mohan...i couldnt help but think him as d same 8yrs old boy who was separated from his family...
His mind is still stuck 12yrs back only..
Wen he was kidnapped he held no. Of grudges against mohan...
He thought n still thinks dat he deliberately snatched his mum n sis frm him...he just couldnt accept him as a family member let alone a father..
No one at dat time corrected him...not even megha..n mohan didnt tell her about addu's problem n decided to solve all by himself..
It was den all d problem started wen megha believed in addu's words against mohan..n did not correct him...
At d time wen addu was kidnapped he had a tiff wi mohan..so maybe he even thought dat it was mohan who orchastrated his kidnapping wen after many days mohan did not come to take him...
So dese grudges of childhood remained in his heart till his adulthood...
How could we expect him to change ...wen he had no one around him for d last 12yrs to make him understand d diff between rite n wrong..
He grew up in d midst of goons n criminals...who must have also brainwashed him about his stepdad n his family...
For us its lame coz we have ppl around us who make us understand wats rite n wrong..but addu didnt..
So if we see frm addu's pov its easy for us to understand his plight..
Wat he must have gone through in dese yrs is unimaginable..
He is hiding his vulnerability wid d help of his hatred..
He doesnt need to be punished...he can be only redeemed by love n care which he has not got in all dese yrs...
N dats wat i feel mohan is going to do...coz he saiddat if u want to punish me take revenge den do it..n even wen addu said dat he will destroy him mohan was just smiling as if he wont stop addu dis time but yes would protect his family of course...he is ready to take any hatred punishment revenge anything dat comes frm addu...
N it will be intresting to see how addu will cope up wid mohan's unwillingness to fight...

the post isn't boring at all😆
i wanted addu to change i knw he has seen a lot in a small age but after that in my view he should have been more mature

Do Mohan and Megha look like the parents of a 20 year old something? The other day, while Navika was leaving, Mohan looked like her older brother lol. Also, Addu looks older than his "mother". To top it all off, Beera looks older than everyone!

Hahahaha Sudhir Sharma has not made any sense this season. He's definitely grasping at straws.

Don't waste your time by analyzing in so much depth. It's useless lol.

I wld like to see how they proceed further on this before concluding on the justification of what they are doing