Sia is not a mature character - Page 2

I agree that she was mad with raghav ,She should have conveyed her concern .Even after marriage also ,she could have told him what she was up to & asked for his support ,marriage is based on trust & communication ,which both sia and raghav are not doing propely.
The best couple is gajender & sunehri even though they are evil..they understand & trust each other very much

Originally posted by: 123kamal

I agree that she was mad with raghav ,She should have conveyed her concern .Even after marriage also ,she could have told him what she was up to & asked for his support ,marriage is based on trust & communication ,which both sia and raghav are not doing propely.
The best couple is gajender & sunehri even though they are evil..they understand & trust each other very much

i agree that marriage is about trust and communication and also please note the respect u give the partner.raghav till now never believed sia on the vrath issue so how will she support him through this she will only think he is doing all this for his mother's sake.he should have spoken to her like an educated man.jogi taking a decison without asking santosh is understandable but raghav that is the heights of insensitivity.okay after marriage u belong to u're spouse in every sense of word and u cannot promise what is not yours without consulting u're partner.gfaji is much better here as her tells his wife evrything and asks her advise too sometimes

Originally posted by: sumali

It is really shocking , how can Raghav say yes to ammajis indecent proposal without even consulting his wife. and did u guys notice he didnt look at his wife , was giving shocked looks only at jogi and his mom. disgusting, he too is a MCP just like jogi. what happened to all the promises he gave to Sia on their marriage night.

thumjari aankhon se nikhala yeh akhri aansu hai, aaj ke badh mai tumhen kabhi rone nahi doonga, thumhare liye yeh ghar parivaar bi chod doonga.

Bullshit! how can a wife love him in spite of all this. Siya should leave him and this godforsaken haveli with dignity and find a better life

👏 You have written exactly what I wanted to write. He didn't even look at her once. Where did all the love go? Even if she had made a mistake earlier, he never tried to talk about it. Not once did he go to find out where she was and how she was doing. Itna bara ego hai!

Yes Sia deserves a much better life than this.

@ sumali - raghav has always made big big hollow promises to sia, not only after marriage, even when she came back from the hospital usne kitna bada bada pheka tha "main tumhari tarah achcha insaan banna chahtu hu", etc etc and what happened after that.........he was literally torturing sia mentally during that sonali track when he was forcing her to accept her love for him.............at the end of the day he has ammaji's blood in him, so he always has that trace of cruelty and insensitivity in him, its just that by virtue of staying away from the haveli cause of his education, he is just li'll upmarket than others, like he doesnt beat up his wife like that namard jogi.......actually raghav has a long way to go before he comes out of ammaji's shadow and becomes a genuinely "achcha insaan"..........

Originally posted by: poetic

👏 You have written exactly what I wanted to write. He didn't even look at her once. Where did all the love go? Even if she had made a mistake earlier, he never tried to talk about it. Not once did he go to find out where she was and how she was doing. Itna bara ego hai!

Yes Sia deserves a much better life than this.

that dialogue i still remember. see they have seriously destroyed the respect that raghav as character has among the audience even though some wil sympathize with him .god knows how they are going to redeem him after all this un forgivable mess

Originally posted by: babysweety

@ sumali - raghav has always made big big hollow promises to sia, not only after marriage, even when she came back from the hospital usne kitna bada bada pheka tha "main tumhari tarah achcha insaan banna chahtu hu", etc etc and what happened after that.........he was literally torturing sia mentally during that sonali track when he was forcing her to accept her love for him.............at the end of the day he has ammaji's blood in him, so he always has that trace of cruelty and insensitivity in him, its just that by virtue of staying away from the haveli cause of his education, he is just li'll upmarket than others, like he doesnt beat up his wife like that namard jogi.......actually raghav has a long way to go before he comes out of ammaji's shadow and becomes a genuinely "achcha insaan"..........

sweety superb and well written.said every word i was about to write.he is actually adamant like his mom and goes to any level to get what he want just that he is polished because of his education

Hey, guys....good discussion...this is my first post on this forum...after having watched the show from the beginning to where it is today all in the last two months, I think both Raghav & Sia are immature. Raghav feels a filial obligation to his mother ESPECIALLY when Sia says something against Ammaji. This is the same man who asked Sia to help him become a better person, to share "thodi acchayi, thoda dil, thoda pyaar" with him when he brought her home from the hospital. This is the same man who wiped Sia's tears on the day of their wedding & promised her she would never cry. This is the same man who assured Sia that he knew his mother was scheming something when Sia was slogging day & night the 2nd day after the wedding...where is that Raghav now? Why has he become irrational when it comes to his own wife, the one he fought so hard to wed?

Sia is immature in that she feels she has the right to blame or point a finger at Raghav whenever she feels like it (solely because of the past betrayal). As a result, her character is extremely reactionary. She does not put much thought into what maybe going on in Raghav's mind; as a college educated, married person, it is very hard for me to understand EDUCATED Sia's outbursts at Raghav. For example, in today's epi, she could have sat down with him & calmly asked him what he was thinking?...Has she forgotten this is the same man whose plan helped Santosh escape? That it was his idea in the first place. Has she forgotten the assurances Raghav made to Santosh right in front of her? Has she forgotten that SHE is his wife?...Going off on a tirade (which is how she seemingly approaches all non-romantic conversations with Raghav) only increases the hostility...this is extremely frustrating to watch. Ultimately, there is no real trust between RaSia or understanding/explanation of what goes into a relationship; Ammaji is the smart one; her character is well tuned to the complexity of RaSia's relationship & she will do whatever it takes to propel these two apart...

I watch Laado for the acting...I think the team is stupendous...I have sort of detached myself from the storyline because the CVs are inconsistent not only with RaSia, but also with the storyline in general. Having said this, I am extremely curious to see how this track ends...what lies will be told & by whom...Raghav & Santosh having a relationship is impossible...it goes against our societal norms & I think hell would break loose in some parts of India if this were actually shown or acknowledged. An unnecessary cliffhanger, but an interesting one nonetheless...

me completely agree with you....................... !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have observed that Raghav is more mature than Sia but his problem is he hardly expresses his thoughts and ideas and keeps them in his mind till the last minute. He always wants the others to take the first step and keeps waiting and when he feels its too late he steps in.

Originally posted by: sang_hari

sweety superb and well written.said every word i was about to write.he is actually adamant like his mom and goes to any level to get what he want just that he is polished because of his education

yes, now we can also recite the same dialogues sia told him long ago,

Humne us raghav ko chaha tha jho apni maa ki kilaff jaake siya ke mangh mein sindhoor bhara tha

Humne us raghav ko chaha tha jho sabke samne apni patni ko uska adhikar diya

Jis raghav ko humne chaha tha, woh kuch aur hi tha,

Aaj jo hamare samne hai, woh sangwan kandhan ka ankja kari beta, apni maa ka laadla😭