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Tan ko man ki shakti dena..
man vijay karey...
doosro ke jay se pehle.. khud ko jai karey...
A prayer song we sung in school.. as a kid I never dwelled on it so much as I do in day to day life now.. whoever conceived it.. couldnt have seen life better..
its ALL IN THE MIND..
our grief.. our sorrow.. our conundrums.. all are just in our minds..
so is our madness.. the resistance.. the defiance..
All of these are things one needs to control.. if any of these emotions start overbearing your mind.. you are possessed and potentially dead..
All such apart. .there is KEEDA.. (insect😆) I remember bachchans.. duniya mein do tarah ke keeday hotey hain line.. but here i WILL talk of one such keeda..
the ideology keeda..
Baa has the most amount of this keeda.. that BLINDS her from the welfare of her own family.. so much so that.. her pampering Sabina's heart and intentions.. and misusing her rights as a matriarch has in some ways brought this tornado.. today in another bid to uncover her crusade for Sabina and against IMVs diabolism.. she capsized the VD domesticity.. into more pieces than the Titanic tore into.. and on the other side she delivers line like only a mother can bear a daughter's tears.. you are right baa.. Devki did treat you as one.. but you did not treat her as the daughter..
moving on..
Justice ka keeda
Master defo had more charm to win my chuckles.. during his phone convo with IMV.. her chiding baa for being imbecile about this.. for not helping in keeping this storm away.. and wondering who can stop it.. only to think of IMV😆 (ironical eh).. but he goes to his son.. only to ride on the justice ka keeda.. justice for Sabina.. for VV ki khushi.. and these r the very ppl who are crusaders for the institution of marriage..😕.. I loved IMVs nonchalant practical stance.. giving Master a mirror.. you wanna do JUSTICE.. go ahead.. but in your bid to do justice for an outsider like Sabina.. do consider what can bring fairness to D.. stop being so BLIND...👏
and if you thought I was gonna make a point.. its NOW.. so while in some these keedas jump all the time.. in the others.. the mind can win over tht pest.. in times of need..
Some people in general are solution seekers.. coz they have the STRENGTH of their own mind.. to focus on the problem and see what they are to do.. to rid of themselves and others of it..
Devki: the girl went to the matriarch in hopes of some support.. for some help and well she got it.. in the form of truth.. that either she needed to know straight off.. or not NOW.. but well at least she knows now tht she is IN IT ALONE... with no hopes of help from anyone..
Saathi na caravan hain.. ye TERA imtihaan hain..
yes she proclaimed she wasnt capable of such love tht S had.. coz she was just a normal girl.. not a JOAN OF ARC.. so whats her chances anyways.. who cares for normalcy in the wake of sensationalism..
Yu hi chala chal dil ke saharey..
In spite of the hurricane in her life. .she cldnt help but be ingrained in her daily duties.. worrying for the man she loved.. cared for in her own space.. while he stumbled in.. in his own world of fiction.. and romance.. with big words.. only one of which was BANG ON..
ishq mein main ANJAANA ban gaya..
absolutely right.. I surely dont recognize the man in your body.. and sure as hell dont like him.. if nothing D got a taste of what her mom's life cld have been with an alcoholic..
karti hain manzil tujhko ishaarey
while her husband lay in his sleep.. professing love for another woman.. she cried only to find her mind's voice.. and a solution out of this.. for herself and for him.. coz but of course she is the HINDRANCE according to her- to set him free from this farcical relationship..
the fb of samjhaute jan bojh ban jaye to nibhana mushkil hota hain...
and yes this compromise is a burden for her... so she walks up to write her destiny.. away from the man she loves.. for both of their welfare.. before she declares the truth to the entire family... she holds on to her mind for strength..
dekh kahi koi rok nahi le tujhko pukar ke
the only man conspicuous by his absence while D reveals her POA.. is the very man.. she perhaps has the strongest karmic connection with.. coz much like her.. he is
Apno mein main begana
for all the evil workings of his mind.. he is rather sorted in his affections.. he knows who he needs to channelize his emotions and welfare towards.. his OWN FAMILY.. which includes the GIRL he chose for his son.. wisely. .EMOTIONALLY.. coz she happens to be the daughter of the very woman he loved.. loved coz she was the ONLY ONE who saw him for who he was.. and did not JUDGE him.. even recently after knowing what he is capable of.. she only had affections for him in return.. sadly even his parents.. dont see him beyond his evil ways.. lesser talked about the children, the better.. perhaps the only woman who gives him benefit is his wife.. coz he is the only one she can fall back on and will in this situations..
and the other woman.. or girl who sees through and beyond other's perception is his muse.. his bahu.. his CPs and hence HIS daughter.. in the immense respect she has for her pappaji.. someone who has gotten IMV to look out for her interests.. for her well-being unconsciously.. I loved how he proclaimed VD wedding wasnt a mountain of sorrows.. and he will look out for his son and this girl as opposed to the khushi of Sabina who although is a nice girl.. he cldnt care less coz he feels nothing for her.. now tht called PRIORITIZATION.. i WISH even one more person in tht household had it..
talking of which objectivity.. is obviously just as rare.. for ppl like Baa who can't fathom that Sabina the martyr mother cld have been in an undignified profession by will vs majboori.. comparing Dali to Sabina's mom was defo out there.. and VV has no credit in accepting D.. coz much b4.. .IMV accepted D..
in the current scenario obv the 2 ppl who are guided by their mind's voice.. will have a solid discussion and reconcile like businessmen on the global profit.. and their duty towards it.. and if the so called earthquake does mess the domesticity I only wish V wld take at least Baa with him to his wedded bliss.. where Sabina lovers can LIVE in peace.. in the LIFE that starts and ends with her.. while I can dream away about the better things that await for D.. in the form of her guru.. and her scratching their karmic connection wrt his past.. and CPs presence in their life.. changing their course etc..
in summary.. all for MIND over messy MATTER..
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