Does true love ever exist??

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shivani9

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Posted: 14 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: Suvi7884
I know I havent😛...and I am not fond of writing or reading long posts unless they are FFs, either😛😆 The base of a relationship cannot start off as love, I told you na, I dont believe in love at first sight, so for me, its just NOT possible...the base/foundation can be friendship, hatred whatever and then soon it can beome true love..no? What do you mean by true love?
And as for Devki not loving IMV's family, she does, but when you love more than one person, and they both want the same thing, she has to compromise in some way/...a lot of women have to juggle between their maayka and sasural, but that doesn tmean they love each family any less

darling ur confused, I 'm not referring to love at first sight in this topic😛. reg true love I am no expert but where ppl r not kind of forced to love each other based on compromised cirumstances, reg Devki loving IMVs family, I repeat I dont beleive it and my belief is based on facts than imaginations, if she loved IMVs family she wud not b foolish not to think abt the consequences of her own decisions and so far there was not a single moment to my knowledge wherein she pondered abt the consequenses, if u think cooking a food item is love, then I am sure there may cooks and servants in tht family who love IMVs family more than Devki...no worries if u cannot understand my pov reg her love towards his family

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Chinchinchoo

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Posted: 14 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: ladybird9
darling ur confused, I 'm not referring to love at first sight in this topic😛I know u aren't talking exactly about that...but you said na, that love that is based on ----- ( I dont remember exactly😳😆) so Im saying that love can't always be based on something like that, but eventually grow on that, like attraction based on someone's voice that grows into love...but love which is completely based on someone's personality is extremely hard to find...because the first thing anyone sees in someone else is looks and behaviour😳 (meri mummy ne kaha) see Im blabbing na..😆 read whichever parts you think is concerned with your topic😃. reg true love I am no expert but where ppl r not kind of forced to love each other based on compromised cirumstances, reg Devki loving IMVs family, I repeat I dont beleive it and my belief is based on facts than imaginations, if she loved IMVs family she wud not b foolish not to think abt the consequences of her own decisions and so far there was not a single moment to my knowledge wherein she pondered abt the consequenses, if u think cooking a food item is love, then I am sure there may cooks and servants in tht family who love IMVs family more than Devki...no worries if u cannot understand my pov reg her love towards his familyhmm but itna zyaada nuksaan hoyega? so now business is based on family relationships?😕 Sorry, abhi mein bachi hoon, and I dont know much about business😳 Why does she have to be a good daughter in law by working in the family business?

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shivani9

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Posted: 14 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: Suvi7884

Ignored 1st para as i found it not relevant as u didnt even remember wht it was all abt n u have been very modest in telling me earlier tht sometimes udont even know y u write😛😆
FYI i am not connected to business even remotely in my dreams, i was just speaking plain common sense😳
BTW when did I say she have to be a good daughter in law, I was only saying she doesnt love IMVs family😛 based on her decisions which dont seem to make any sense.

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Chinchinchoo

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Posted: 14 years ago

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good daughter in law ...loving family samething.😆..but till now Devki hasnt been in a situation in which she could support the family on a personal level..has she..? and agar woh BB ka business chod de to Baaa naraaz hojayei na😛

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shivani9

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Posted: 14 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: Suvi7884
good daughter in law ...loving family samething.😆..but till now Devki hasnt been in a situation in which she could support the family on a personal level..has she..? and agar woh BB ka business chod de to Baaa naraaz hojayei na😛

achaaa😛 i didnt know tht😆😆 Baa kon hai is she a business graduate as well kyaa😉😆😆
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Chinchinchoo

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Posted: 14 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: ladybird9

achaaa😛 i didnt know tht😆😆 Baa kon hai is she a business graduate as well kyaa😉😆😆
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Pata nahi..maybe she was one in her pichla janam😆 whats ur name btw?😳

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shivani9

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Posted: 14 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: Suvi7884
Pata nahi..maybe she was one in her pichla janam😆 whats ur name btw?😳

I am Shivani😊 no worries anyways...I can very clearly see its remotely related to the relevance of the topic😆😆😆 ..

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Chinchinchoo

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Posted: 14 years ago

#28

Don't worry..I'll shut up now

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shivani9

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Posted: 14 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: Suvi7884
Don't worry..I'll shut up now

Awww 🤗wht am i supposed 2 say now🤔 hmmmn whts ur name n wht do u do..😃 btw this is a better thing to talk abt than the topic😃

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Mehek25

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Posted: 14 years ago

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Hi all. I am kind of new to this forum. I mean I watch every episode of the show and I love this show. But today I suddenly decided to visit this forum. Ur topic caught my attention and I read further. The question was so simply put and all the answers were so well given that I decided to take the plunge and put in my two cents worth also...so here I go...

Love is a great sentiment but one that cannot be defined. Many claim that there is a thing called 'Love at first sight'. it sounds good to hear and read about. But such a kind of love is only the Mills and Boon type ...or our TV serial type. In reality love is a sentiment that has to be nurtured..as then only can it grow stronger. The best way to nurture love is thru understanding ur partner, accepting him/her with both his/her good and bad points and standing by ur partner thru good times and bad. Remember these are the vows every couple takes at the time of marriage. Whatever be the religion these vows are the same.

Trust, understanding and friendship are the main pillars of a successful relationship. When these exist in a relationship I think we can call it true love. But for these to develop takes time...even years...so love is an emotion that grows with time and then only can we call it true love...

Sorry for the extra long post...will try not to make it so long next time...but this is a topic on which we can write volumes...