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Senny thumbnail
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Posted: 14 years ago
Thanks for the idea Sonali, next time I am feeling like that or whacko, I might as well discuss what Samrat and Gunjan have been up to, That might be really good and now pun intended!
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Posted: 14 years ago
Sona, I have a better idea ... wil stop expecting logic and sense in mjht ... and will just wait till the S2 SG return .. oh wait, their story has already been killed by the DDD ... so no need for any badam milk any more 😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
good topic pari...
you do have a point...its a little unbelievable that the Nupur-we know since the past few years is behaving like this.....i might have expected Gunjan to behave like that...
but again i agree with others too,domestic violence or in fact violence of any sort does tend to weaken someone emotionally and mentally....as some people have already mentioned..ive seen many strong willed women break down under something like domestic violence....and letr on burst as a volcano(i hope this happens)
i doubt what made the Cvs do such a track-cos its tricky,there arent justifications for many situations...
as in why didnt Nupur try to contact her family,why didnt she tell the police etc....or for that matter how was dhruv let scot free from a juvinile home,or why isnt her in the mental assylum..etc etc
i mean if i was in her place i would have gone and told the police about this guy,and to top it she doesnt even love him...so i see no reason why she kept on staying with him.....
im in two thoughts!the dil and the dimag.....😛
damn!i hate being confused!
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Posted: 14 years ago
Pari!!! Awesome post..... 🤗
After all that you all have said, I can just say I agree with you, and it's obviously a very silly situation. Why would she not contact the police when she was alone with MSG, why would she not try to tell them the truth. ROFL. That is beyond me. And yeah, this does point to being weak, cause one would obviously have faith on their family before giving in to a psycho's demands.
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Posted: 14 years ago
Hey Ishita,

I agree and the strong woman she is, she might have just done that. But Nupur has her own weaknesses, she is human and she has always been shown to be strong from outside but very delicate from inside, this was what even Mayank pointed out when Nupur broke down after she heard from Gunjan that Samrat doesn't love her but Sheena. Nupur gets emotional and she just doesn't think from her mind when it comes to Mayank and Gunjan especially and so her heart must have guided her to stay away as she felt MSG would always be under a constant threat.

Cvs after all have tried hard to do sth different and I would appreciate them for doing it, ofcourse all their tracks come with their loopholes, the whole SG track is messed up and it has been, the repair now doesn't make sense to me and it won't ahead as well. Gunjan had been wrong in blaming him from the word go as she is now a pyschologist and must be able to understand better but was she ever able to, no she wasn't and up till now I have not seen her saying Sorry for being so mean to Samrat.

Nupur has been shown to do things not in her nature and so is Gunjan, she was never mean but shown to be. I don't mind her being mean and i remember even saying at that time, Gunjan was not thinking from her mind but from her heart, her loss and if Gunjan can think from her heart and do wrong things then why not Nupur!

Nupur always intended the better for the three, even if she did a mistake, she meant no harm. Whether Nupur was really wrong or not and right that may or may not be shown!
Edited by Senny - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago

Pariiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

I have an answer to your Question something like this > Yes and No.

YES b'coz of the following reason.

Nupur is a human with some basic human emotions. She too loves her family and husband as much as any other Women would do. And Dhruv is not just an obsessive Lover but a Psychotic Obsessive Lover. I call him Psychotic too b'coz his actions prove that. Within minute's he gets normal and thn WILD. Nupur though has stayed in front of him for years now without having any contacts with the Gang but he still cannot or has'nt developed that belief that she has left her Old life. So even now when he sees Mayank around Nupur he feels that they are still in touch and this forces him to take wrong steps against Mayank and he did that with that Shot Circuit. And this is one Reason which forces Nupur to not just live a fake life but also stay away from the Gang. As she takes a step towards them and Dhruv would get them 4 steps more close to Death.

Also let me take you to the History of MJHT. Nupur is and was a strong confident girl and was never afraid of anything. But let us not forget she had her set of Fears too. And her Biggest Fear was Lonliness. And we had seen that many times in MJHT.

Instance 1. Ahmedabad Trip – While in jungle Mayank had played a prank with her while she was deeply engrossed in listening to music. When she did'nt find Mayank around she was afraid. So much that this female started crying and when she saw him she Hugged him, irrespective of the fact that at that time Mayank and her never shared any sort of relationship, not even were they Friends and she claimed that she would never take any help from Mayank. All done, she still was afraid. But minutes later she hid her fear and told Mayank that she was just pretending to get scared. Though Mayank got to know that she was really scared not seeing him.

Instace 2. The Goons who entered while she was with Mr. Chiru Jee. She was afraid at that time too.

And if I remember, Mayank knows this well and had also said in one of the Epi's. That though Nupur pretends to be all strong and confident but he does know that from within she's very soft, as he had already seen that "Handle With Care" ka Tag on her.

Instance 3. Track before the Zindagi Song – Which was the time she actually accepted that "Yes she Fears to be Alone".

Yaar howmuch ever strong a human is, he or she has their Set of Fear which they have to deal with, with or without the support of others. Right now Nupur is dealing with her Fears without the support of her loved one's. But to what extend would she deal it none of us can really comment.

Now my Reasonings for NO

No b'coz had I been in Nupur's place tho By God …I would have poisoned Dhruv and preferred going to Jail rather than living that Painful Life.

Y'day the time he removed that belt I had my DECISION made this fellow has no right to live in this World. And this so reminded me of the incident that took place 3 months back in B'blore where a husband killed his wife as he had doubts that she had an affair. Also later the reports stated that she had also been physically tortured by her husband.

Don't say that such things don't happen as even now we read of things like Husband killing Wife or Boyfriend killing his Girlfried and then committing suicide as she refused to go by his terms.

Sunne mein ajeeb lagta hai but these are facts of Life.

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Posted: 14 years ago
Very well said Preeti. Thats what even I was trying to point out that Nupur is just human, though she is certainly a very strong person but has her share of weaknesses and gets vulnerable at times so she does. I like all your examples.

Her behaviour, well it is not so clear that why didn't she try any other way out or even yesterday, she didn't get angry on Dhruv, she might be shown getting angry on him today I guess. Its like burning a flame in her if she sees MSG in trouble and she would do anything and everything to protect MSG, irrespective of what she does is right or wrong. She thinks straight from her heart and just about MSG and their safety!

In the end, i would say as i did earlier, the Cvs have tried sth different and a pat on their back for not going with the cliched ideas at least of amnesia and stuff. At least it got so many people room for argument and discussion!
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Posted: 14 years ago
I agree with Senny. Nupur is still he strong woman and will continue to be. But there are times when one tends to break down. Nupur is always under constant threats by Dhruv of him killing her family off.
Okay lets take it this way- During the political track, Nupur had the support of Mayank, Gunjan, Samrat and rest of the gang. She was not alone then. And even then, when JD threatened/ blackmailed her, she did as asked by JD. But then, she knew MSG were there to support her, she even talked to Gunjan over the phone until the goons caught hold of her and then, she had been given instructions by Gunjan to reach the place where JD's press conference was going on. And she did so.
But now, there is only one way. Either listen to Dhruv, or see your family getting killed off. A family which doesn't know that you are one of the members of the family. Now she knows her support system is at danger and she had to do as asked by Dhruv, and there is nothing she can do. Some people say she should've told them the truth 'cause it is MSG who ultimately will come to her rescue.. but that's what we think and WE know. Nupur doesn't. And the track hasn't even come to end end, it just nearing it. Mayank, Samrat and Gunjan were unaware of what she has gone through, but now they have some idea. And of course, it will be Gunjan who will tell the duo about Dhruv. But that time, Dhruv will try to attack Nupur and the trio. And that's when Nupur will stand for herself 'cause she will know that she still has the support of her family, her strength. What Dhruv had done was a straight attack to Nupu'r emotional and physical strength. Don't jump onto conclusions yet. There is more to it.

Things have changed now.

PS, you are free to quote me. I am always ready for a healthy argument. And yeah, I am a Nupur supporter.. or a basher 😃
Edited by Ayesha.Ization - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago

Originally posted by: -Preeti-

Pariiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

I have an answer to your Question something like this > Yes and No.

YES b'coz of the following reason.

Nupur is a human with some basic human emotions. She too loves her family and husband as much as any other Women would do. And Dhruv is not just an obsessive Lover but a Psychotic Obsessive Lover. I call him Psychotic too b'coz his actions prove that. Within minute's he gets normal and thn WILD. Nupur though has stayed in front of him for years now without having any contacts with the Gang but he still cannot or has'nt developed that belief that she has left her Old life. So even now when he sees Mayank around Nupur he feels that they are still in touch and this forces him to take wrong steps against Mayank and he did that with that Shot Circuit. And this is one Reason which forces Nupur to not just live a fake life but also stay away from the Gang. As she takes a step towards them and Dhruv would get them 4 steps more close to Death.

Also let me take you to the History of MJHT. Nupur is and was a strong confident girl and was never afraid of anything. But let us not forget she had her set of Fears too. And her Biggest Fear was Lonliness. And we had seen that many times in MJHT.

Instance 1. Ahmedabad Trip ' While in jungle Mayank had played a prank with her while she was deeply engrossed in listening to music. When she did'nt find Mayank around she was afraid. So much that this female started crying and when she saw him she Hugged him, irrespective of the fact that at that time Mayank and her never shared any sort of relationship, not even were they Friends and she claimed that she would never take any help from Mayank. All done, she still was afraid. But minutes later she hid her fear and told Mayank that she was just pretending to get scared. Though Mayank got to know that she was really scared not seeing him.

Instace 2. The Goons who entered while she was with Mr. Chiru Jee. She was afraid at that time too.

And if I remember, Mayank knows this well and had also said in one of the Epi's. That though Nupur pretends to be all strong and confident but he does know that from within she's very soft, as he had already seen that "Handle With Care" ka Tag on her.

Instance 3. Track before the Zindagi Song ' Which was the time she actually accepted that "Yes she Fears to be Alone".

Yaar howmuch ever strong a human is, he or she has their Set of Fear which they have to deal with, with or without the support of others. Right now Nupur is dealing with her Fears without the support of her loved one's. But to what extend would she deal it none of us can really comment.

Now my Reasonings for NO

No b'coz had I been in Nupur's place tho By God 'I would have poisoned Dhruv and preferred going to Jail rather than living that Painful Life.

Y'day the time he removed that belt I had my DECISION made this fellow has no right to live in this World. And this so reminded me of the incident that took place 3 months back in B'blore where a husband killed his wife as he had doubts that she had an affair. Also later the reports stated that she had also been physically tortured by her husband.

Don't say that such things don't happen as even now we read of things like Husband killing Wife or Boyfriend killing his Girlfried and then committing suicide as she refused to go by his terms.

Sunne mein ajeeb lagta hai but these are facts of Life.



No one could have described it this beautifully as u have done Preeti........⭐️👏👏
I wanna give you a tight hug .........🤗

Bold, that what which explains all............. What Nupur's character is. She IS strong, no doubt but way more vulnerable. as Mayank said "handle with care.

i hope everyone have got their answers.......... 😉
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Posted: 14 years ago
Oh my, i m so proud to be a Nupur fan........................ kuch to baat hai na is lady mein, that today all are only talking abt her................

Now coming to Nupur Bhushan Sharma...............yes she was the strongest character in MJHT.................. and still is..............

Nupur, who stood up for her sister during political track, wasnt afraid to take on goons to save her sister, wasnt scared of anything in life........ was also the one who got scared when Mayank left her in jungle..........

and that only makes her more human.................... she is no God......... and thus like a normal human being feels all those emotions...........

Her giving in to Dhruv and agreeing to his whims is what maybe any other person would have done, had they been in her shoes........

She was all alone..................physically weak............. far away from her family...........no1 to call for her support...........
So when this brute threatened her of killing her family, she had no option but to give in.............. if it had been only her life at stake, she wouldnt have cared........... but she will never put Mayank and Gunjan's life in danger............
So she bore all torture for 3 yrs................... only for safe living of her loved ones............

and no ordinary person can do................. to be infront of ur loved ones and not acknowledge them, takes a lot of strength........ and thats what Nupur Bhushan Sharma is all abt............

Coming to why she didnt tell them, or of she didnt trust Mayank to save her........................ well, it was either telling Mayank and risking his life or keeping quiet and letting him be safe............

Whats the guarantee that Dhruv wouldnt have run away from police or havent done smething grave to either Mayank or Gunjan..............
Why will she put their life in danger.................

And i m shocked that ppl here being woman mocked at suffering of another lady.............i would suggest them to be true to themselves and think how many times they have stood up for things like eve-teasing.................or any other injustice to themselves.........


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