Life Goes On - A Note of OPTIMISM - Page 3

simply beautiful post.......
i completely agree with u.......
loved it to the core.....

@NIrvithri-
Very Well Said,

I totally agree with you, they shld just give MN a happy ending, if nothing else,and then proceed on with whatever nonsense track they have in mind. I wouldnt care less..

res god how did i miss this 😲

sry ppl.... i knew i had work...but 2day it was more than what i expeected...it's over now but i can't read n reply 2nyt....
will do that 2morow

k, i know there is no need to say this but i'm posting this to say one more thing

by saying life goes on n one should move on, i didn't mean that mayank-ria pairing....though for fun sake i might have said it once or so.... i'm totally against pairing with ria....infact any other gal in the near future
but as the time passes i want him to move bcoz what happened has happened n we can't go back n change it
the other gal may b rati in new avatar or any other...or something

i'm hell tired as of now....i'll make it a point that i'll reply to u all, bcoz never did i reply to all whenever i made a topic


@wind - dont know ur name..sry, but wanted to reply u now itself
i dont know if i have aimed for big in making this topic...but my sole reason was atleast one person may get what i wanted to say which is above happy ending
it's not that u r not understanding what i'm saying.... it's jus that ur being reluctant to whatever i say as i am not MN fan or bcoz i am an SG fan
everyone of us here know that we can take a horse to river, we can't make it drink the water UNLESS if it wants to
anyway dont bother, wait for sajan to get this track, let us both enjoy it together

i have almost stopped saying anything in the forum....But I will...

Moving on..as I know is not about forgetting someone but about getting yourself to attach to other people or things and not crying continuously....

few months ago my grandpa died at a very mature age. It was almost expected but my grandma is still in depression...

if we could get our grandpa to live a few more years we would have tried...we tried and faught till his last breath....For Nupur its almost like that...we can bring back the character if we try hard enough....People want her back, they see a light at the end of the tunnel....then why would people "move on" ?

As for mayank's character? I dont care enough.. Call me selfish but i havent switched on the T.V even once after i read the article of Nupur's death...I dont care if he moves on...if his fans have moved on...I guess they have, I see comments on Arjun's blog telling all Rati/Nupur fans to bugg off cause Arjun
Is having a chance of a life time to show his talent....

See Kavya i will talk for myself only...I never wanted ArTi to continue in this show for long..I would have gladly accepted if they both left by end of season 1... even now i put rati's decission to come back above my need to see MN together....cause i have truly stopped caring for what happens in MJHT....But i guess i cant make everyone care less.....to forget....cause emotions especially HOPE/FAITH/LOVE is a strange thing....defies logic....

I just wish people didnt turn against one another in the forum for nupur's death...otherwise the rest is fine with me...

I am sleepy...Hope i made sense

Rinky

yaar ur talking bout life....that means real life
im nt talking bout that
mjht is nthng close to real life ........logic nai ....kuch nai
phir y talk of it......im talking of mn characters nt fairytail-ish though but still in real rarely possible....the things that happened to them isnt really possible.......or even if it is its like one in 100 milllion.....nearly nt possible on mother earth.....(things slightly similar happen though)

so y move on.....coz it happens on earth........every day in real life all of us hv some wish of ours dying n most of us moving on.....i personally dnt want to c it......roz toh dekhti hu......i wanna c atleast something that i cant c......agar i hv to c day to day things.....i hv other stuff on tv.....y dnt i c it??
i used to c mjht for mayur......n mayur for being cute adorable n always being happy n +ve bout everything....if they fought their fight was fun....even their romance was cute n funny......but ideally romantic mostly......

so i dnt want mayu to move on.....coz he is my fav guy he cant forget his ideal lover.....nupur has to come back....coz she is my fav heroine she cant die leaving her lover alone.....coz i like them their story has to b happy ol thru out :)

so i want her back to complete the illogical love story......which is nt real n nt fairytail-ish....

also i cant take sad endings.....i read books a lot.....if they dnt hv a +ve endings i tend to make one in my mind .....lol

so if cvs dnt finish my favourite story.....i will mentally......till nupur is back.....acc to me mayur r romancing in usa :)

N till i c a slight chance of getting wat i want ill keep on it......
y want my fav character to always hv happy endings.......be it any fav character movie, serial, books........

coz we hv a lot of sad endings in real life as it is.....ya many of us hv happy endings too.....but i hv rarely been in those many n even my close ones never belonged to that category.......

Btw if there is a guy in real life like mayank n if he moves on his wish....i can totally want my fav characters to do certain things acc to my wish.......wat i wanna say when u talk of real life ur right ppl move on......sadly mayur r nt real.....they r characters so anything is possible.....
also i knw ppl in real life who loved their parteners itna ki they never moved on........

I want to c mayur happy ....... forever......
My pov totally
sry if i dont make sense

u kno kavsie..havent heard either of the two stories..but they are truely touching .. each has its own thing to learn from ..

u kno, for me, right/wrong..moral/immoral.. are all for ME to decide..the society might have made certain rules, but whether or not I feel like obeying them, is something that I wud decide on my own..doesnt mean I wud go on rebelling every rule that ther exists, cuz if it makes sense to me..then I wud follow them .. if at the end of that act, I can face myself in forn of the mirror widout being ashamed ...then I know that for me, I have done the right thing..n I wud be proud of myself for that ..

n ofcourse in this journey of mine..dont I fail? yes I do..lots many times...but I tell myself to get up on my own..cuz of my own mistakes..my own wrong decisions..n then I feel, "oh mayb had I listened to the society, I wudnt hav gone thru this...I wud hav avoided it.." but had I avoided it, I wud still be at the same place wher I was before I made that mistake..having made tht mistake n falling down n then rising on my own is the biggest learning in life .. n I guess thats whats called experience ..

I do not think I hav experienced much in my 22 yrs of life.. infact nothing at all .. n if tomo somebody asks me what I wud hav dun if this happens n tht happens..I wud go on by my past experiences..going by the hope-ish, positive person that I m..that I wud say that I wud do this n do that .. n when that time actually comes, whether or not I wud do it, I cant really say NOW! but definitely, I WOULD make an effort towards it, since I have once thought abt a way for this ..

to be honest *touchwood a thousand million countless times* I have never seen close deaths in my life, to kno how it feels when someone close to u has died..so I cannot really predict how I wud react then .. esp if its someone realllyy close to me ..

u kno its this quote that I love..its my prayer that I always sing to God..whenever I m losing faith in myself..n I realise that all I need to look is within me..because all the answers lie within me ..

Dear God,
Give me..
the strength .. to accept the things I cant change
the courage .. to change the things I can..
and the wisdom .. to know the difference!

ther are some things in life u really cannot change..some things that are meant to happen to u..that are FATE..that u jus hav to accept no matter what .. n how u take them, is something that u learn only wit time ..

I know and have experienced quite a few things like that..n death is definitely one of them .. I kno ppl here on the forum asked me thousands of times, what I wud hav done if gunjan had died .. n I had an answer for them jus for the initial two days..I cried a lot, almost till I lost myself..n then became extremely numb..I wud still watch on the show for sam .. because I adore him a lot..wud I hav been happy to see him wit another girl? initially I wudnt have .. I wud have been depressed, hurt, angry, irritated..NOBODY can take chashmish from his life..but then, wud I have accepted later on? and then I thought to myself..since I cud relate the best wit gunjan..what wud I want? tomo, if I die..wud I want my best friend/my lover to move on in life? or wud I want him to remain lonely? definitely I wudnt.. because I lost on in life..I wudnt want him to lose out on HIS life .. I wud want him to see..moving on in his life .. experiencing love..feeling love, because him feeling love...wud not take him away..wud prob jus make his soul even closer to mine, since he is feeling love .. he may not really remain "mine" so to say .. but then, he wud be living happily..a smile on his face .. thats all I wud ever want, probably ..

after restrospecting soo much..after thinking so much .. its THEN tht I actualyl prepared myself to see..that sam wud be... n shud b wit another girl..if it ever happens so!

this is jus my POV abt sajan/gunjan..my eyes ..

because for me...if I m watching a show/characters so close to my heart .. so much so tht at certain points of time they cease to exist as a fiction to me..then what applies to me, in my life, applies to them too .. n because life isnt a bed of roses always, because it doesnt always have a happy ending .. I wud see this as jus a way of life ..

n jus as the sam in the show wud need to move on..I wud need to move on from MJHT/SaJan ..

but if I wud jus look around n see..that life is still beautiful.. that gunjan dying doesnt take her away from me..but she remains in my heart..an eternal person n someone soo close to me ..

this is all the emotional aspect of course ..

seeing things from a technical POV..then it makes it all the more easier for me, to accept the death of a character per say..if I cud jus convince myself, that its gunjan who's dead..NOT sanaya..sanaya is still joking around, laughing..being at her jolly best...m sure she wud hav left wit her radiant smile..n prob joked around abt how the sauce tasted weird when applied to her face or something! n thus giving me tons of reasons to laugh as well ..

I do not care abt the politics that took place off screen.. because for me, I m nowhere in picture ther to judge the creatives or anybody else responsible for the decision..also, each incident has several perspectives for me, n since I wasnt actually present ther, its difficult for me to fathom the exact 'victim' n 'culprit'..

for me, its their show, their actors, their characters..they wud do what they want..when we as viewers, watched their show BECAUSE they started it in the first place..had they not started MJHT, I wudnt hav had these pleasant memories at all.. I wud thank them for giving me my two yrs of joy..n move on ..

phew! I guess that was a long one .. but it deffo made me think a lot .. thanks soo much for this post kavsie..finally I got everything out .. 🤗

signing off..wit this song..which is one of my absolute favs ..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mwnoNVOj1Fs

another turning point..a fork stuck in the road..
time grabs u by the wrist..directs u where to go..
so make the best of this test..n dont ask why..
its not a question..but a lesson learnt in time..

its something unpredictable..but in the end is right..
I hope u had the time of your life..

so take the photographs n still frames in ur mind..
hang it on a shelf..in good health n good times...
tattoos n memories n dead skin on trial..
for what its worth..it was worth all the while..

its something unpredictable..but in the end is right..
I hope u had the time of your life..


I guess it all ultimately boils down to one thing for me..that cherish ur life..however it is, every moment..every memory, every pain, every sorrow..every happiness..because thats yours..n thats the only thing nobody can snatch from u..because everything else, cud b taken away from u..but once u hav these things then u wudnt need anything else from life..because u wud hav all the answers to everything ..

@sona,jia, meens, ashu, aahana - this thread is waiting for ur take....i wont leave any of u frm escaping.... will never mind either a positive or negative response regardless of any context

mayadika - thank u

@nirvriti - welcome to the forum

@divya, debo, tanvi,nirvriti,meeno, madavi, if any others whom i missed out by chance - i dont know where to start actually...i'm happy that i'm able to reply u all in a single post 🤣 ...k, that's wasn't really a joke...i'm really abt that

cmng to the topic - there are few points, which are clear to me, few points which are a bit confusing as i know how the things are in this forum frm season 1 n i know what u all wanted (at times even me) in MJHT n MN track

some confusions -
frm long back to not so long back, when there were threads for suggestions for CVs of MJHT..... we all know how many time we asked them to show some REALITY....many a times mocked the CVs for calling MN as happy go couple n by this name giving them only n only jovial tracks, treating them as comedy actors...etc etc.... this was an open fact in the open forum............ n frm wht u have said today, i see a totally reverse picture.....saying that this is not real life n this is a fictional show n we want only happy ending....k never mind this

like some of u said that, we watch the shows to de-stress ourselves n get some relief frm the outside world reality factors, that's they want this to be happy.... in that we watch a show only as a show....n how many of us really think so?...do we treat them only as fictional characters ?.... if yes, then we will never have problem with a death of character in a fictional show, n at the most we will have it's effect for 1 day or 1 week, if we watch it religiously
incase of a no...it contradicts ur replies....if u have treated them as more than a mere fictional characters, who are close to reality.....then accidents n deaths in accidents are most scary part of reality these days.....even the word 'accident' gives me a shiver these days having lost one of my own classmate in this vacation in a car accident n the worst part being, a car n 2 lorries........

cmng to the point - happy ending, which was my main reason to post this topic.... i have a question....is it only a happy ending that we all want? in that case, why will we watch the entire show....their journeys frm ' who are u?' to 'u r everything to me' ....isn't the journey important?
it isn't any lab experiment in which final result is the only imp

i know there is saying in hindi which goes like "if the end is fine, then everything is fine" or something of sort.... if we truly belive this, we all would have ended up watching ekta shows bcoz inspite of the leads journeys as wife/husband of some good no. of ppl, they end up dying or living together or marrying in the last episode n the story.....we all chose MJHT over that inspite of some superficial tracks (not to forget that we asked for some reality n sense at that time) bcoz of it's journey.....


well, one more thing i want to make it clear is.... i swear i have no intentions against ur mission of bringing rati back.... i'll b happy too.... if it's good, i'll watch or else i'll jus ignore (the track/scene) for which i have got used to

@all -
something off to this particular post.... at the end of the day, it's our life, it's we who decide we should b happy or not n live accordingly.....we can never give a chance to others for hurting others....re-live the moments cherished or re-live the unwanted memories...any day it's our choice


@diya, rinky n maddy - will reply to u 2morow....my time up
n madso, ur post is long....u knmow my laziness n u post such a long one!!! u always do this to me

OK...brief pause 😆 hmmmmmm..I read your post..and I was sure about what I wanted to write..then I read the responses...and now I am not even sure what I should pen..at the risk of being out of context vis a vis the purpose of the post..I would try to make a response on both counts..in real life vs fiction... (special mention to TV as now its considered a different and more impact causing medium by some people)..so there goes my disclaimer.. 😆

well death is not something that one can overlook..but in reality life just doesn't let you sit at the same place..being in the past forever.. that's Life...although you may not completely ever recover from the trauma..but different things in life give you the courage to make peace with what happened.. sometimes it your loved ones.. yer family..siblings..spouses.. children.. sometimes spiritual awakening helps.. to make you come to terms with yourself bereft of the beautiful presence of the person who was maybe a daily routine for you...

now coming to fiction.. I know its hurts a lot when you don't expect a sudden end like that..when all has been happy n positive till then.. n by no means do I even suggest MJHT here..coz this show never came close to inspiring me in any way..I am talking of one of my 2 fave movies..called LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL...its an extremely positive and optimistic take on life..through a Jewish protagonist who is imprisoned in the concentration camp during world war 2..with his son.. he is able to save his son from the concentration..and makes him live through it..by making this whole ordeal a game..that THEY need to win..by camouflage..its amazing the amount of positivity a man can exude in the wake of such circumstances..you are literally smiling and laughing through it..till the sudden tragic end..in a milisec there is a lump coz the impact is so huge that its not worth a tear..although the movie ends on a major high note of optimism..showing LIFE AS A GIFT...I have had long hrs thinking about the necessity of the end and then extensive debates with few insightful friends on this..and I always felt there was no other way..the moral could come across..this powerful..coz the we tend to take life for granted.. and crib about small things..not realizing how fortunate we are..ok i m digressing so thats that..

Coming to TV.. I dont have much to talk of coz I havent seen too many shows.. esp Hindi shows..but one of my very dear characters..Capt Rajveer from LRL met with a tragic end..it took a while for me to come to terms with the sudden end of such an inspiring mentor and guide.. but that was the story teller's vision of how long the character could go.. and even the actor thought so..I tend to romanticize pain..but things like these just give that character the IMMROTALITY.. I tend to move on rather easily..coz I am one of those.. who just carry the beauty along.. Talking of MJHT.. my stand is quite clear...I am watching it as long as Sanaya is in it..I genuinely hoped and wished she was the one to die..and leave the show..coz just like Sanaya I also see a shelf life to a character..beyond which there is no appeal and novelty value.. But now that she is here..and the track has got a rather interesting dimension..I am hooked...and enjoying it..more so coz of my friends.. who are happy and we have amazing time talking of unusual stuff pertaining to the track and the characters/actors.. 😆