Life ka ek hi funda-positive raho jii[UPDATE] - Page 3

@mads completely agree with you hone she is not hating him but she is hating the fact that bcz of him her di left him she also knows the truth it was mistake and ya in all fbs she only remembers that she warned him but bcz of his one mistake she lost her di

ya she thinks that may be with her warning that accident might be prevented but it wasn't she is in pain and grief of losing her di and sam as she bothers the fact that only with sam's mistake mayank is suffered losing her wife and sam also knows that may be right now she is not in condition to let him forgive but she will def bcz she also knows that it was destiny who lead this happen , sam knows gun very well that she will not listen him but she will listen to witty and calm person like s.s.c bcz it was the quality which lead her to fall for samrat ya now he is s.s.c but his essence is same

here he gives her advice with demo as yesterday he gave advice with lunch today with chai -pakoda and tomorrow with treasure hunt and only and only he can make her happy and bring back her smile

Originally posted by: mads

oh n btw .. AWESOME topic ashi .. 😳 the title itself is making me smile ..

cuz its soo true .. why crib n cry abt the incidences tht happ in our life?? even tho they may b something tht v didnt like .. its always better to acknowledge tht they did happen to us .. instead of cribbing over what didnt happen ..

u kno right now I wanna quote gunji's line here itself..on rose day, she is upset cuz she thinks sam is gonna tell her tht he loves her too n when he doesnt she is upset abt it..n n when she is at home n is crying n sam calls her up ..

her dialogue is soo beautiful ther "kabhi kabhi aisa lagta hain..ko jo humne chaha hain..voh kyun nahin hua .. par aisa sochne mein hum voh sab bhool jaate hain..jo humare paas hain .. zondagi mein jo humare paas hain..voh sabse jyaada kimti hota hain.. jo nahi ho paaya .. usse bhi jyaada .."

n this is sorta my funda of life too .. n till date whenever I get upset..I jus hav to rem this one dialogue.. it gets a smile on my face ..

n this is what SSC is all abt too .. look around n see what life has for u .. rather than cribbing n crying over what life took away from u..

owwwwww thanks a tone mads for ur lovely reply and meaning full take on gun's condition 😳 👏 ya dear we always cry for what we don't get but in it we forget what we got in our life , as we have to decide from half glass is this half filled or not and that's life ,and thanks for gunji's that dialogue so true we never cared for what we got but only crying why we don't get what we want ,and that's why s.s.c making her realize this funda of life with his superb talks, demos and jocks you know sometimes simple ppl can give so meaningful advice for life and when we realize that we think that 's so simple yar and we bothered for nothing 😉

Originally posted by: aarthi.ramani

aashi wonderful ... oki really in lazy mood .. so will again CCP 😆😆😆

They say when one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.... its our attitude towards life ... It will make or break a person.

We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude... and Samrat did exactly that... he was looking at the closed doors which brought all the negative attitude to end his life and just lead a life in guilt and pain... but then just when he sees her pain and grief his attitude changes ..giving a new meaning to his life a goal to bring the smile back which was lost due to him.... and this attitude makes him move earth and heaven to bring her to the place which she never wanted to be.. as a escape route to runway from her past and memories which she still holds on to..

Yes aahana this track is not just about getting her back its again teaching her that life is never fair 'and the only way is to accept it and try to move ahead with them. No life is so hard that you can't make it easier by the way you take it. If you don't like something change it; if you can't change it, change the way you think about it. Attitude is that makes a big difference. And she says the same thing but in way diffrently --- that there is nothing so easy but that it becomes difficult when you do it reluctantly... thru the frictional story he tells her that moving ahead does not means to forget the past and crying because it's over, but Smile because it happened; to hold on to it and accepting them all, letting them guide u whenever it can."

I am loving the season2 for its maturity ... its realistic dealing towards action and reactions to circumstances, loss, pain, guilt and moving ahead in life... but more than anything else the attitude to deal with it.... giving in a way solutions to the probls in our everyday life... its again the attribute and attitude to take it or reject it..😉😛

aarthi, loved your post ... am just going to add one of my favourite quotes ...

@ aashi and mads ... I know what you are trying to say guys but I am still a bit confused....I mean first thing is that only a very, very strong reason or cause can keep Gunjan away from Samrat and that too for this long....so if that reason is that she blames him for being negligent and taking away her di from her that can only mean she hates him because how can you not hate a person who you hold responsible for your sister's ( who was almost like your mother) death....but then I can see that she doesn hate him....I mean whatever she is saying to Mayank is totally different from what she is actually doing...if she holds him responsible for her losing her sister then why is she okay with being so close to his memories...

On one side she doesn want to ever see him again...but on the other she is praising and becoming friends with a guy who in her own words reminds her of Samrat.....that means that Samrat's image is still intact in her heart and soul as a good guy, a good soul....so then why is she staying away from him?....and this becomes even more imp if there is a baby involved.....because Gunjan is not the type of girl to keep her baby away from his father just because she blames him...it just doesn make any sense to me...

you know since this season 2 started, they have kept Gunjan as a mystery character....I mean they are not showing anything about her...I don't know if there is a suspense here...something more to the story or my overactive imagination is at work again😕🤣

love ur post dear

I have edited on page 1 jii FINALLY!!..😆

oye sardarji...ki kar ditta..tussi... ik ik episode nu rocking kar ditta...twadde humour naal 😆 👍🏼 ok Now I can clearly say...SSC has won my heart...if there is a man I could completely adore in this show since the begining it has to be SSC.. 😆 whether its his take on life..or his funda on cutting chai..so true..cutting chai ki tarah hi hum log adhi aduri zindagi jeetey hain...how many of us laugh whole heartedly..how many of us live whole heartedly..whether its pain of the past or worries of the present or concerns for the future...in this we miss the little moments of life...where we can live our whole life..in that one moment...
reminds me of one of my favourite songs...this has to go to the ever adorable..Sardarji...paaji I will miss you once you are gone...but I am gonna enjoy each moment we see of you...

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-UuiHucK0ds&feature=related[/YOUTUBE]

P.S. Note the lines...

EK baar waqt se lamha gira kahin...
wahaan dastaan mili lamhan kahin nahin...
thoda hassan ke thoda sa rulake...
pal ye bhi jaane wala hain....

moral of the story...LIVE each MOMENT..coz it lasts only that long 😉

Originally posted by: gina87

<font size="3" face="Calibri">@ aashi and mads... I know what you are trying to say guys but I am still a bit confused....I mean first thing is that only a very, very strong reason or cause can keep Gunjan away from Samrat and that too for this long....so if that reason is that she blames him for being negligent and taking away her di from her that can only mean she hates him because how can you not hate a person who you hold responsible for your sister's ( who was almost like your mother) death....but then I can see that she doesn hate him....I mean whatever she is saying to Mayank is totally different from what she is actually doing...if she holds him responsible for her losing her sister then why is she okay with being so close to his memories...</font>

<font size="3" face="Calibri">On one side she doesn want to ever see him again...but on the other she is praising and becoming friends with a guy who in her own words reminds her of Samrat.....that means that Samrat's image is still intact in her heart and soul as a good guy, a good soul....so then why is she staying away from him?....and this becomes even more imp if there is a baby involved.....because Gunjan is not the type of girl to keep her baby away from his father just because she blames him...it just doesn make any sense to me...</font>

<font size="3" face="Calibri">you know since this season 2 started, they have kept Gunjan as a mystery character....I mean they are not showing anything about her...I don't know if there is a suspense here...something more to the story or my overactive imagination is at work again😕🤣

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p.s. sorry aashi for going completely off topic!

Gina...Gunjan's take has been the most complex b'coz of the less stated and the more implied...let me try to put in to words my understanding...For Gunjan that fateful night..she did not just lose her sister/mother...she lost the guy she loved...from then on whenever she thought of him or reminisced the past with him..it was always marred with the accident..hence she could not bear to look in to him..for the pain it brought her...she could not do it to herself or the love she felt for him..hence she presumed..not only the guy she loved died...the girl who sincerely loved him also did..coz ever since..she could not separate her feelings for the man from the pain of loss and his involvement..

having said that..for 3 yrs she was stuck in one phase.. her only social interaction with few kids and people she counselled..and Mayank...the thing she shared with him...Nupur and their common loss..she could not get out of that phase even if she wanted..after 3 years she got a chance to come to the same college which was filled with memories of the past...and also she met some new people like rohan.. who brought a breath of fresh air..which momentarily made her think of sam without consciously relating that accident.. once she was in excel..SSC made her open up her mind..towards life.. his mannerisms do remind her of the man she loved...still does...but for once she is willing to separate those memories from the accident..if you think about it..she has not even remembered nupur with a smile in those 3 yrs...without shedding a tear.. thinkin of what happened later.. she is slowly building up the courage to accept life for what it is..and once she is there..she can begin to make peace with destiny and may be see the changes in sam..and try to move forward..


now about the baby..I am not even sure that would happen..and even if it does... Its easy for someone to say.. and judge her..that how can she keep the child away..but if she truly believed that the guy who fathered her baby is no more..and the person who lives with the same identity cant be trusted with another life..why would she.. also does gettin the child back to the father make things better between them..would she want to live her life with a guy she cant completely love just for the sake of the child...that is not fair for either of the 3.. the parents or the child..well i digress..but its another huge aspect.. that I guess we could discuss later..reminds me of rishta.com..and rohan's POV...tht was amazing

Originally posted by: sonali.19281

oye sardarji...ki kar ditta..tussi... ik ik episode nu rocking kar ditta...twadde humour naal 😆 👍🏼 ok Now I can clearly say...SSC has won my heart...if there is a man I could completely adore in this show since the begining it has to be SSC.. 😆 whether its his take on life..or his funda on cutting chai..so true..cutting chai ki tarah hi hum log adhi aduri zindagi jeetey hain...how many of us laugh whole heartedly..how many of us live whole heartedly..whether its pain of the past or worries of the present or concerns for the future...in this we miss the little moments of life...where we can live our whole life..in that one moment...
reminds me of one of my favourite songs...this has to go to the ever adorable..Sardarji...paaji I will miss you once you are gone...but I am gonna enjoy each moment we see of you...

[YOUTUBE]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-UuiHucK0ds&feature=related[/YOUTUBE]

P.S. Note the lines...

EK baar waqt se lamha gira kahin...
wahaan dastaan mili lamhan kahin nahin...
thoda hassan ke thoda sa rulake...
pal ye bhi jaane wala hain....

moral of the story...LIVE each MOMENT..coz it lasts only that long 😉

Sonali Hi 5 sweety i cant agree more on that bold part ...So true each funda he has is so simple yet so simple... that in between the past and future we forget to live the present ..... the past is gone and we cannot change it, future has no control.. Sonali u know i simply adore this SSC yaar for his fundas on life ....