Whose side are you on? (SaJan) - Page 4

Originally posted by: gina87

okay I will explain....first of all there is no transformation....Sam has always been like this and I think that maybe a part of him will always be like this...but its not really the way he is acting but the reason behind it that is more important....Gunjan, Nupur, Mayank and the rest are all very confident by themselves because they grew up in a home where someone loved them and helped them become the people they have turned out to be....

On the other hand Sam has grown up in a lonely home all by himself with no one to love him....not even his own parents...it would have been a bit different if his parents had died because then he would at least think that they loved him but they are both alive....but they chose to leave their little boy by himself all his life.....he grew up into the amazing person he is right now without anyone's guidance or help and with absolutely no love from anyone.....So, when he found Gunjan, the one person in the world who truly loves him, he became scared of losing her....its this fear that is driving him right now....Sam has always had everything in his life except love so he values that over everything else....for him nothing is more imp than being with Gunjan and thats why he is acting the way he is....

I can see where Gunjan is coming from but I also want to see her try to understand where Sam is coming from....Sam is not doing this because of an ego probelm or whatever.....he is doing this out of a real fear of losing her which is hurting him day and night...