Is Being Real Hard ? & Teens Marrying in MJHT - Page 2

Aahana I don't know if I agree or disagree with your points cuz I guess there are two ways of looking at it and your pov is also correct...but on the other I can also understand what CVs are trying to show..what I mean wanting to get married to the guy you love does necessarily mean that you have to start your family right away..you don't have to give up your dreams of a career just cuz you are married...gunjan and nupur come from a small town , traditional society which does not allow them to have a boyfriend and things like that...if they love someone they have to get married to them....but that does have to mean that they leave their college and stop studying....I actually really like this mesg cuz I have noticed that in india when the girls get married they think that all that is imp now and they should forget about their education...another thing they are showing that I love is that you can get thru even the hardest situations if you have good friends to support and help you...that's why I think the mayank situation is believable...cuz on his own it would have been impossible...so basically I really like it, that they are trying to show that marriage isn the end of the world, kinda like the shows we have here in united states that have a similar concept'

p.s. I didn know india had a legal age for getting married'that is so interesting!

Oh and you know one thing that scared the heck out of me when I read your post was the AS marriage track'.gosh are they going to have a AS track!!😲😲...gosh I hope not!!😵

Originally posted by: princessyashika

I so so so agree with u aahana..and kudos to u for posting this.I wanted to say all this since this mayur n sajan marriage track has been in the limelite.Its not that in this age a girl doesnt wish for a future commitment but marraige at 19 is a concept that doesnt go well down my throat.its all so lovey dovey 2 watch.....but what all the cvs r trying to preach thru this show i.e. "the reality n problems in a relationship" wud have been undertandable if these characters were atlaest shown as pursuing their PGs..that is in their early twenties(23-24 yrs of age).but i fail to undersatnd how can gunur's family even think to marry their daughters at a tender age of 18 n 19.If i am not wrong two years ago gunjan n nupur wud have in their schools...and how can their bui n bauji even think to marry them when they have just began their life as mature ppl.I was shocked to see suhani being so happy and even sam supporting her...gosg acc. to mjht she too is just almost of the same age as sam n gunjan.(cant say she 17 kyunki otherwise use school mein hona chahiye tha....😆)
Guys pls dont take me wrong i know that gunur as characters r mature enough to realise their duties even if they marry but arent their other issues to be shown??????and if this was d only thing what cvs wanted to show they must have atleast shown all these characters in their twenties.

Originally posted by: NidheyaCole

And MN seem to have a perfect marriage as of now, hope it goes that way!!

Originally posted by: kavya.b

atm, i have nothing 2 say but for agreeing with u on most of the points u have mentioned

they have lost their mind n so am i

Originally posted by: shruti.nil

you know it may sound VERY weird......but i know a girl who ran away and got married-and is now pregnanat with her first child-and guess what?shes only 19-i feel they cud have handeled the show better,they were many more collge based issues.......but after all its fiction-everything here is mirch masala mar ke!

Originally posted by: gina87

Aahana I don't know if I agree or disagree with your points cuz I guess there are two ways of looking at it and your pov is also correct...but on the other I can also understand what CVs are trying to show..what I mean wanting to get married to the guy you love does necessarily mean that you have to start your family right away..you don't have to give up your dreams of a career just cuz you are married...gunjan and nupur come from a small town , traditional society which does not allow them to have a boyfriend and things like that...if they love someone they have to get married to them....but that does have to mean that they leave their college and stop studying....I actually really like this mesg cuz I have noticed that in india when the girls get married they think that all that is imp now and they should forget about their education...another thing they are showing that I love is that you can get thru even the hardest situations if you have good friends to support and help you...that's why I think the mayank situation is believable...cuz on his own it would have been impossible...so basically I really like it, that they are trying to show that marriage isn the end of the world, kinda like the shows we have here in united states that have a similar concept'

p.s. I didn know india had a legal age for getting married'that is so interesting!

Oh and you know one thing that scared the heck out of me when I read your post was the AS marriage track'.gosh are they going to have a AS track!!😲😲...gosh I hope not!!😵