A Braver Stronger Gunjan !! Tu Jahaan - VM - PG 8 - Page 3

Originally posted by: xaviara

Tonight's episode gave me lots of insight to the upcoming SaJan track !!! I was really very upset to realize last night that the new entry would be stalking Gunjan !! When Gunjan spoke about her insecurities, I was overjoyed and excited about the upcoming SaJan track, I was looking forward to Sam getting rid of her insecurities by talking to her, reassuring her, emphasising her importance in his life, never in my wildest dreams I imagined that they ould come up with a stalker to prove that Gunjan is desireable !! This is most definitely not what Gunjan meant or wanted when she voiced her insecurities alound !!! I really feel like banging my head against the wall !! But what held me back from doing so ??? Tonite's epi had a saving grace !! In two scenes !! First when Gunjan said 'Di handled the situation, I didn't' and secondly in MN scene when Mayank explained that if it has been Gunjan alone, she would have dealt with the situation and that she is not as weak as she looks' !!! That's when it suddenly occured to me that we are actually getting a SaJan track which will be centerred on GunJan !!!

Gunjan has lead a very sheltered life, and her shy and introvert nature didnt help her much !!! With Sam's help she has gained confidence in herself, and have learned to speak up for herself, but she has still has yet to stand up for herself !! Whenever she was faced with a situation, Nupur was always there to protect her, even when Sheena came to their house and blasted Gunjan, she never stood up for herself and stayed quiet, although we know she did that for Sam's happiness, but Gunjan needs to experience tough situations and have to learn to handle any sort of situation and she can't do that with everyone protecting her all the time !! I just hope and pray now that they dont show Gunjan as weak and helpless by the end of this track, with Sam the knight in shining armour !! I know most of you want to see sam's protective and possesive side, I do too, but certainly not at the expense of seeing Gunjan as a damsel in distress !! If they have come up with such a fily track that they better justify this by showing everyone how string Gunjan is and can handle any situation which comes upon her !!! That is the only hope I have from this track !!!

Originally posted by: DiyaS

am posting part of something I had written a few months ago ... *searching* ...

" Her strength comes from the love she has got from her sister and father, but her timidity comes from the fact that she is the baby of the house and has never been allowed to grow up and face any difficult situation on her own. Till a whirlwind called Samrat blows into her life and forces her into them.

Gunjan needs the fun, the laughter, the teasing of Samrat to bring her out of her shell - he is as protective about her as Nupur, but the difference is he doesn't want to keep her cocooned. He helps her go out and face the world, he recognizes her fears and by recognizing them, shows her they're nothing to be ashamed of."

This is what I wrote about the talent parade ... that Samrat understands her fears but he doesn't want to shelter her all the time ... the way he forced her on stage to sing, he will push her to confront her fears, face them, and see them melt away ... while standing behind her to make sure that he is there for her in case anything does happen ...

It's like teaching a child to ride a bike ... you have to let them take a few tumbles and falls to make them learn, and every parent does that, but stands there to make sure the falls don't hurt too much ... Gunjan has been over-protected all her life, I have felt that ever since I started looking at her character closely ... she hasn't been given the chance to grow up and face things on her own.

so IF (always a big IF) ... it's dealt with well, this might be a good track ... fingers crossed!!!

Originally posted by: DiyaS

am posting part of something I had written a few months ago ... *searching* ...

" Her strength comes from the love she has got from her sister and father, but her timidity comes from the fact that she is the baby of the house and has never been allowed to grow up and face any difficult situation on her own. Till a whirlwind called Samrat blows into her life and forces her into them.

Gunjan needs the fun, the laughter, the teasing of Samrat to bring her out of her shell - he is as protective about her as Nupur, but the difference is he doesn't want to keep her cocooned. He helps her go out and face the world, he recognizes her fears and by recognizing them, shows her they're nothing to be ashamed of."

This is what I wrote about the talent parade ... that Samrat understands her fears but he doesn't want to shelter her all the time ... the way he forced her on stage to sing, he will push her to confront her fears, face them, and see them melt away ... while standing behind her to make sure that he is there for her in case anything does happen ...

It's like teaching a child to ride a bike ... you have to let them take a few tumbles and falls to make them learn, and every parent does that, but stands there to make sure the falls don't hurt too much ... Gunjan has been over-protected all her life, I have felt that ever since I started looking at her character closely ... she hasn't been given the chance to grow up and face things on her own.

so IF (always a big IF) ... it's dealt with well, this might be a good track ... fingers crossed!!!

Originally posted by: mads

aaaaaaaah naveen I had written such a LONG reply to ur post but it got locked 😭

anyways now m too lazy to repeat everything here ...

so jus wanna add some points tht made me a bit hopeful and thats the way sam said "its high time chashmish...tum is baat ko bhool jao" never once did he potray his concern as 'who the hell missed wit my GF' .. and 'dont worry...main tumhe kuch nahin hone doonga..tumhe koi nahi chuega..' n stuff like tht...instead he tells her to GET OVER IT ... and tht sort of hints towards what the track might b like...m loving the start of it ..

and even when sam is trying to console her he is all joking and he goes "hone ko toh kuch bhi ho sakta tha...agar hum nahin milte toh? lekin hum mil gaye na?" 😆

even for tht matter when dia consoles gunjan ( and diya, I was reminded of the dia in ur fic 😳 ) its like "forget it gunjan its such a small thing" n all ... I mean, this is what they are trying to potray ki a small towner and how does she adjust in a big city coz honestly such eve teasing takes plc its quite common and v girls can do nothing but ignore such losers 🤢 ... and I guess thats what dia tells her too...

honestly when the guy was attacking her I was like "nooo dont ouch her she is sooo innocent..soo pure..soo delicate" and then it struck me, man ... this girl really really NEEDS to face the world ... like u said naveen, in addition to being overly protected, she is extremely shy and reserved..i mean she think 10000 times before even making an eye contact wit a new person 😆

and who better than sam to bring out this quality best in her ?? I hope its something like the TP ... where he helps her fight wit her fears ... if it goes as v hav predicted it na...then it'l b one hell of a BEAUTIFUL track...and wil giv yet another another dimension to SaJan ☺️☺️

Originally posted by: xaviara

awwwwww mads !!! its ok !! and yeah I closed that post myself because repeated topics are not allowed and I didnt check to see that aahaana had already posted a topic !!! 😳 and I am in love with ur reply as usual !!!! you dont sound lazy to me at all !!!! 😛

I swear its spooky how we think alike !!! I mean we should have been 'why didnt sam take it seriously' but nooooooooo we are happy that Sam didn't fuss over her like any typical girl !!! He knows she is from a small town, and she is shy and introvert, but he also knows she is made of strong stuff and have it in her to deal with anything !!! Had he fussed over her, he would have made her more scared, and he didnt want that !!! I would love to see him supporting her through this, but I love him for not treating her as a helpless female !!

Btw I totally winced when that creep was touching her !!! 😡 She is really so innocent !!! But like u said, she needs to face the real world and understand how cruel it is and learn how to live in this world and society which is filled with creeps and perv like this guy !!!