When bauji heard about Mayank from Bui, he decided to meet Mayank, but unfortuntely destiny didn't side with MN and what Bauji saw was a first Mayank trying to convince his daughter to elope with him and then trying to deceive them all by putting on the Adhiraj's sherwani, when we know that Mayank was just trying to reasure Nupur that they will deal with this together.
Nupur is now doing the same thing with Gunjan. She believed what she saw and she reacted towards the same way towards Samrat the way Bauji reacted towards Mayank. Like she thinks she is protecting her litlle sister, Bauji was trying to prortect his daughter.
The only difference is, that Bauji never knew and met Mayank, but Nupur knows and have always approved of Samrat. Also bauji didn't follow MN, he trusted his daughter's judgement enough to decided to meet Mayank, but he came upon them when, Nupur climbed down to meet Mayank, whereas Nupur didn't trust Gunjan and decided to follow her to SaJan's date.
If you think Nupur is right in protecting her sister, then Bauji was also right in protecting his daughter by marrying her off to another guy, but if you think Bauji was wrong, then what Nupur is doing right now is wrong too !!! Both of them jumped to conclusions, and made the wrong move and decisions. Bauji should have trusted Nupur's judgment that she will never chose a wrong for herself and Nupur should have trusted Gunjan that she will never do anything that would shame her family and she should have trusted Samrat that he would never do anything to hurt Gunjan, Samrat and Gunjan respected and stood up for Mayur's love. Its very sad to see that Nupur didnt trust either SaJan or their love.
I think this is what the CV's are leading upto !! They are trying to make Nupur realize that what Bauji did was out of love for her, like what she did was out of her love for Gunjan.
This post was not intended to bash any character, it is just my POV. Healthy debate is more then welcome, but kindly refrain from bashing, or comparing any characters.
PS : I'm away on a business trip and have a flight to catch to another destination in an hour, so I won't be able to reply to your comments. Sorry about that. Also if this topic leads to any fights or bashing, then I request my fellow DT members to close this topic.
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Naveen