SaNu Friendship destroyed! MOD Note pg. 8 - Page 4

@ all..this has nothing to do with Pehlibaar sequence.....none of it....

@mads- u liked today's segment right mads? many people thought it was plain sleezy....and u know there arent any topics about that in the forum......u know na why....

and please dont forget nupur hasnt said this to samrat yet....she said this to her husband...see the epi and then comment.....

truth is acceptable as long as people can accept another person's POV as well...sincew when has that happened in ths forum?many of us choose not to comment on certain topics beacuse we care about the propriety or we are downright told that we dont understand a character....

and now when those charactrrss which we supposedly understand gets debated...we have the right to comment...hmm....

look at my post correctly....i never made one single allusion to samrat.....cos from day one I didnt really like him.....but i respect others' POV and kep that to myself...

please carry on what you are doing and saying but your comment is really very insensitive...i liked anu and diya's better.....they stuck to the topic yet didnt vent....

P.S- go to the forum and look around...you will have many more topics praising MN too....cant really write all that here again.....lolz

GN and bye

Originally posted by: aj_observer

Anu, I haven't seen the epi....On the list of relationships butchered this is the other one....

having said that...Nupur is vulnerable...the whole love marriage fiasco has put her at a delicate end....she is seing her sister walking the same path...concern number one..

as much open minded she is....she did realize the propriety borders were being crossed in public....not the question of just love and respect....she also remembers Sammy 's flirting nature....she saw the dress and she assumed it was the gift....she is a fierce character..she will say what is on her mind....she won't hold back...and Sam knows this.....when it comes to Gunjan Nupur is highly protective....whether she should be or not is not the question ...she just is...human equation......

She is neither OTT..or being invasive...she is being who she is and was.....she is talking to her husband....not to Sam or Gunjan....although never understood yesterday's GUNUR convo...where it is leading to....then again both were right yesterday...from their POV.....this is the same sister who shredded Sheena...she will do it again if she sees or thinks Gunjan is in trouble....even from sammy.......what can I say...Mommy by nature...she governed Gunjan from very young..hard for her to let go all of a sudden..she will in time.....

It is not again whether it is right or wrong....it is what it is...we often react in a situation based on gut and past experinces never on future predictions.....

This is just my POV...I am not trying to hurt or bash....human relationships and equations often times are more complicated...

Okay, my LAST reply here ...
bold@ That was her first mistake ... when samrat said he would show her the gift, couldn't she wait for him to show it to her instead of going to look for it herself?

red @ Doesn't she know by now that Samrat is equally protective of Gunjan - he broke his relationship with Sheena in public because he couldn't stand to see Gunjan humiliated!!! Does she honestly think he would ever do anything to hurt gunjan???

But then, if she could misjudge her own boyfriend (when Mayank left Morena without a word) guess asking her not to misjudge Samrat is asking for too much! Doesn't make it right though!!!

AJ, Who is talking about pehli baar ???

Well diya she wanted to see the gift and ask sam for it but he didn't show it himself at that time and she couldn't wait so here we go. We didn' say that she doesn't commit mistakes, we all do, don't we and so did she.

Originally posted by: mads

I jus wanna say ONE thing ... I know this might lead to fights or what not on this frum but I dont care coz I cannot get anybody bashing MY fav characters ... and that not jus includes the members in this forum but also onscreen characters .. for the latter, I kno its the CVs fault...but its an open forum and I m allowed to express my views -

after ALLLLLL that nupur-mayank hav gone thru in the barn ... when they werent EVEN married ... I DONT think she has the right to judge what is right and what is wrong...if THATS right for her..then why not for her sister? isnt her sister also in love ... and gunjan has been in love since ages...even before she herself has been ...and she has fnally found happiness wit her best friend...who ALSO used to b nupur's best buddy ... she was the one that has told gunjan what a gem of a person samrat is! and now, she contradicts her own self?

and honestly, after ALLLL that samrat has been doing for nupur and mayank ever since the adhiraj fiasco began...right from postponing his first date wit his soulmate ... jus to solve THEIR problems ...to supporting them thru and thru during their tough times...standing up against her bauji ( without any care of HIS iamge in front of him...and what prospects it might hav for his and gunjan's future ) ... lending them his farmhouse... this is the way she chose to thank him?

I NEVER really commented on nupur or mayank before...but the precap left me fuming ...

I m NOT sorry for whatever I wrote above because its something I honestly believ in ...and I kno its gonna lead to fights on this forum...but for once, I dont care ...

@Anu...Mads...mentioned it...not me...check earlier posts...

I talked abt pehli baar .. and yes, I did that wrt nupur's assumption AND her dialogue in the last epi ... "agar samrat gunjan ko public mein kiss kar sakta hain..toh akele mein na jaane kya kya karega" yes..it was in reference to this dialogue ... and THERE I felt she had no right to say this...when akele mein even she has done a LOT of things ... which were right for her ...

secondly, I m not listing thr list of "favours" from samrat...coz yes, friendship mein thats not even considered...but the most MOST imp thing in friendship is trust and respect ... and yes, samrat has been trusting ans respecting nupur soo much ever since day one ... heck, he thought of SHOWIG the gift first to nupur...and considers it as the "nupur quality test" even though he knows his chashmish thru and thru .. and knows what she wil and wil NOT like ... that jus shows how MUCH her opinion matters to him and how much he respects her not only as gunjan's elder sister...but also as his friend ... he stil very much considers her his friend ... but can I see the same trust and respect reciprocating from nupur's side?

@ rinky : I m sorry if my comment hurt u in any way..u wil understand m sure that I jus defended my fav characters ...u prob wud hav done the same, tho not here .. coz it wil lead to fights and u are right, I shudnt hav done it here too! and yes, I can understand tht u dont like samrat..never liked him, u wil b surprised to kno that even I used to dislike him in the beginning ...but I once liked nupur...even ADORED her ... and the fact that she has changed SO much...and this isnt recent I kno...but her friendship wit samrat had been one saving grace of her character, but today they destroyed it totally...and to such an extent that I dont think I wil ever ever ever end up respecting her now ...

Originally posted by: loving_bird

hi mads do u really think u didn't commented on mayank- nupur before .............just need 2 reconfirm

bcoz i had seen many posts of urs before ........so i'm quite confuse over this😕

dont b confused ... I hv answers to all ur confusions ... I have commented on mayank and nupur before ... but NOT in a way that I did today .. and that m sure u wil understand the diff ...

Originally posted by: loving_bird

hi mads do u really think u didn't commented on mayank- nupur before .............just need 2 reconfirm

bcoz i had seen many posts of urs before ........so i'm quite confuse over this😕

Sorry Tannvi...but does this actually have an impact on the topic discussion? I dont think so...so why not give your own view instead of commenting on irrelevant things...