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Posted: 15 years ago
#71
Okay, I bet you guys are all going to throw chappels at me but just want to clear my POV. Answer the following questions in your head.
How many of you have a brother or sister?
If yes, then have you ever gotten into a fight with them?
Okay, I have an older sister and younger brother. I've gotten into fights with them. Although they're not as serious as Gunur's but we still fight. More questions...
Would you get angry if you saw your younger brother/sister kissing someone whom you do not know?
How would you react to it?
If I saw my younger brother I would be ready to get so angry at him that it wasn't going to be good. So I think that's how Nupur feels. She knows Samrat but she also knows that he's a big flirt. So I think that Nupur is being protective that's all. However, Gunjan knows Samrat is not like that who is going to do something bad to Gunjan. So she tries to defend herself and Samrat in this. She doesn't realize that Nupur is only doing this to protect her. So both are at fault in this.
Do you like chocolate cake?
Sorry guys, trying to lighten up your mood here. 😆 Nothing else.
How would you feel if your dad/mom hated you and favored your other sibling more?
Would you be mad at your parents or the "better" sibling?
But what if you did something wrong that made your parents become so much hatred in you?
I would feel bad and morever angry at my dad/mom. But if I did something wrong then I know that the "better" sibling had nothing to do with this. This is where Nupur is at fault. Gunjan really doesn't have anything to do with this. It isn't her fault that Nupur loved Mayank. Well the love part, that just happens.
Other than defending Nupur, Gunjan doesn't have a choice to do anything. She's stuck in the middle.
So I think Nupur is mainly at fault for this but Gunjan just a little because she could've defended Nupur during this whole thing.
So I kind of like this track (you can start throw the tomatoes now) cause it shows that not every relationship is perfect. Even though Gunur's relationship is weaking at the moment, but at the end of this track, it's going to be stronger. I don't like the fighting but think about it, we always see these love tracks, so I think this track was trying to show something fresh, nothing more. I was actually waiting for a track like this. Nupur's only like this because she cares about her sister and she doesn't want anything wrong to happen to her. Same with Gunjan, but she's just getting annoyed by Nupur's overprotectiveness.
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Posted: 15 years ago
#72
I understand nupur's reaction based on what is taking place in her life currently w/ her father and her insecurities and thus not being able to think coherently and reacted in such a manner!! But when saying that nupur's behavior is justified is still beyond me!!

And I guess I have given whole explanation why I don't think it is justified on the previous page!! Lazy to repeat myself again! 😛
I sympathize with her for what is happening around her and now i understand her...but still the truth is whatever she did...it was WRONG! And I think you all should agree here...coz she should have trusted samrat...she should have and even gunji!! She should have trusted their love!!
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Posted: 15 years ago
#73

Originally posted by: -YaRa-Forever-

I understand nupur's reaction based on what is taking place in her life currently w/ her father and her insecurities and thus not being able to think coherently and reacted in such a manner!! But when saying that nupur's behavior is justified is still beyond me!!

And I guess I have given whole explanation why I don't think it is justified on the previous page!! Lazy to repeat myself again! 😛
I sympathize with her for what is happening around her and now i understand her...but still the truth is whatever she did...it was WRONG! And I think you all should agree here...coz she should have trusted samrat...she should have and even gunji!! She should have trusted their love!!

totally agree with you....i can see that nupur is hurt but that does not mean she should tell gunjan to break up with samrat..that he is not good for her...that he is using her.....there is absolutely no excuse for that....did she forget what it feels like when your family asks you to choose between them and your love....why would she want to do the same thing to gunjan...i dont know how that can ever be called being protective...and if nupur is right then bauji is also right in what he did and if bauji is wrong then nupur is also wrong....does nupur not know how much gunjan loves samrat...why is she putting gunjan in a position where she has to defend samrat against her own sister....and what gunjan is doing is right..gunjan has been in love with samrat even before nupur fell for mayank..she has loved him forever...and now finally she has some happiness in her life.....so how can nupur expect gunjan to just give him up cuz she says so.....no matter how much you love your family, giving up your love without a fight just cuz your older sister is under some wierd misconception can never be right..so now the only option gunjan has is to stand against nupur and stay out of her way (like the promo is showing)....
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Posted: 15 years ago
#74
after todays episode, im totally on nupurs side...shes upset about gunjan being a hypocrite....which she totally is.....gunjan keeps reminding nupur about how she hurt bauji by marrying mayank...but what the heck is she doing?

gunjan choosing to have whatever level of intimacy with samrat is her personal choice.....but to make your own sister feel bad for something that you are similarly doing is soooo wrong....nupur has every right to be upset about this

yes, theres a little bit of jealousy there too from nupurs side but its totally justified....gunjan tries to keep the "perfect daughter" image even when she gets really intimate with samrat

she always mentions bauji in front of nupur even when she knows what bauji and nupurs relationship is like now....shes not a small kid that she cant understand when to say what....i totally did not expect this from gunjan.....she in fact is the one being rude by always mentioning nupur-mayanks wedding as a way to cover up her own acts.....ughhhh so irritating......becuz gunjan was never like this.....i hate the dramatic change in her.....naina
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Posted: 15 years ago
#75
and just for the record.....mayank and nupur were ready to sacrifice their love for baujis sake....bauji himself gave his "acceptance" and then they got married.....so i dont think they can be wrong....gunjan saw that and still shes bad-mouthing nupur???
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Posted: 15 years ago
#76
i can actually understand where nupur is comming from in many ways
firstly i mean yeah she must feel bad that she got married to mayank n got disowned and here her sister is going to farm houses with her boyfriend and stuff. i mean, its human nature.
and as someone who has an older sister...i mean if i caught my sister and a bedroom with her boyfriend wearing...well no pants for one thing and a shirt thingy that belongs to her boyfriend...than i wudnt wait to hear an explanation i'd beat the crap out of the guy no matter how much i liked it as a friend. dats jus how is it. i love sajan but gunjans character is going thru a change which is fine...but what nupur said and did as a sister in THAT situation isnt wrong either. i mean the girl wasnt wearing any pants for the love of god..i would drag my sister out of there lol.
and that whole thing must have been sooo awkward for poor old mayank haha
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Posted: 15 years ago
#77

Originally posted by: -Mystery-

Alright, I've held myself enough but I think this track is going to last for awhile so here are my thoughts on this issue:

First off, I find this track highly unrealistic (even in terms of the fictional show) not because siblings never fight or this is impossible, but because just to keep going with this track, GunUr characters are completely subsided.

Nupur seems to be upset about three things:

  1. Gunjan supporting Bauji than her (which is not true but it is according to what she heard Gunjan say).
  2. Gunjan being Bauji's 'good daughter.'
  3. SaJan public display of affection.

I guess #1 is a legit misunderstanding. Gunjan was just presenting Bauji's side and never said that Nupur was wrong but so much has been happening in Nupur's life that she never expected to not see her sister on her side. While on one hand Nupur's being a bit unfair in asking Gunjan to chose between her father and her sister, Gunjan's being unfair in not letting Nupur know straightforward that she does think that Nupur is right and is always there in her decisions.

#2 is a totally absurd reason for me. Nupur was never, ever selfish. She can never be insecure about Gunjan being Bauji's favorite! I mean how can she? The girl who always loved her sister the most, the girl who supported her the most, the girl who hid her tears so many times just so that her sister won't be sad, the girl who hid her pain around SaJan confession just so that shouldn't lesson Gunjan's happiness, how can that girl ever be jealous of Gunjan? How can she ever be insecure in that manner? I just find that inconsistency highly unbearable.

#3 is legit too. Nupur has seen SaJan romancing before too but she never had a problem with it. But then Samrat kissed her in front of the entire college!!! How should she easily let it go? And then asked for a kiss from Gunjan during the game. Bauji was so upset knowing about MayUr relationship and the picture where MayUr were only holding hands created such a chaos, what would happen when he got to know that SaJan actually kissed infront of the entire college??!!!

Yes, MayUr have hugged in front of the college and the world before. During the confession and the second confession, but that was not planned. It just happened with the flow of emotions. I'm not defending Nupur. I do think that's a bit immature indirectly taunting her sister. She should be more open about it and let Gunjan know that perhaps this whole PDA shouldn't be happening and explain her reasons.

I also think amidst this Gunjan's character has been changed a lot. After Samrat kissed her in front of the entire college, I was expecting her to give him a lesson on not doing that again. She's the shy girl, how can she be happy on her boyfriend kissing her like that? Then again I had thought she would refuse the kiss in the game, but she happily kissed him. That's not the Gunjan I know.

So, who's to blame on this issue? The situation, misunderstandings, and the inconsistency in the two characters and their relationship I LOVED since the beginning.

Sorry, didn't realize it got so long.

-Mahi



Hi Mahi,

I really loved your points
Situation is making Nupur to change but Gunjan is changing drastically
for what reason no idea
Even though the post is long but makes sense
I always love senseble post irrespective of the length 😛
😛
Thanks
@runa
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Posted: 15 years ago
#78

Originally posted by: gina87


totally agree with you....i can see that nupur is hurt but that does not mean she should tell gunjan to break up with samrat..that he is not good for her...that he is using her.....there is absolutely no excuse for that....did she forget what it feels like when your family asks you to choose between them and your love....why would she want to do the same thing to gunjan...i dont know how that can ever be called being protective...and if nupur is right then bauji is also right in what he did and if bauji is wrong then nupur is also wrong....doesnupur not know how much gunjan loves samrat...why is she putting gunjan in a position where she has to defend samrat against her own sister....and what gunjan is doing is right..gunjan has been in love with samrat even before nupur fell for mayank..she has loved him forever...and now finally she has some happiness in her life.....so how can nupur expect gunjan to just give him up cuz she says so.....no matter how much you love your family, giving up your love without a fight just cuz your older sister is under some wierd misconception can never be right..so now the only option gunjan has is to stand against nupur andstay out of her way (like the promo is showing)....


TOTALLY AGREE GINA.. 👏
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: sumonetolub

after todays episode, im totally on nupurs side...shes upset about gunjan being a hypocrite....which she totally is.....gunjan keeps reminding nupur about how she hurt bauji by marrying mayank...but what the heck is she doing?

gunjan choosing to have whatever level of intimacy with samrat is her personal choice.....but to make your own sister feel bad for something that you are similarly doing is soooo wrong....nupur has every right to be upset about this

yes, theres a little bit of jealousy there too from nupurs side but its totally justified....gunjan tries to keep the "perfect daughter" image even when she gets really intimate with samrat

she always mentions bauji in front of nupur even when she knows what bauji and nupurs relationship is like now....shes not a small kid that she cant understand when to say what....i totally did not expect this from gunjan.....she in fact is the one being rude by always mentioning nupur-mayanks wedding as a way to cover up her own acts.....ughhhh so irritating......becuz gunjan was never like this.....i hate the dramatic change in her.....naina

well said ................................
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I only hav one thing to say -

this track is HIGHYLY HIGHLY unrealistic as the so called Adhaani track that is taking place in the show now ( sorry adhaani fans, but I do not even see an inclination of LOVE..or anything remotely close to tht ) ...

GuNur has been one of the most priceless relationships in MJHT ... at par wit SaJan for me .... but it has been destroyed to no extent now... and I dont hav the heart to even defend for gunjan's actions...or nupur's ones... because honestly, the CVs hav been messing up wit their scenes deliberately, jus so that they wil CREATE this rift b/w the two sisters .... for example, they hav shown SaJan's PDA jus..jus and JUS for nupur to see and get over protective abt her sister ... the hav shown gunjan supporting bauji and not telling nupur directly tht she is also right, JUS to get gunjan on nupru's nerves...and this IS NOT the GuNur I kno ...

THIS is the GuNur I kno and loved...and adored ....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5HoogUWriC0

or this ...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KPVIkG8Ve08

^^ for non -SaJan fans, the actual GuNur scene starts from 2:43 ..

so MUCH trust...so much faith...so much understanding ... they kno each other thru and thru ... they hide their sorrow jus so tht the other wil b happy ....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xi677jmtTEU

CUT to what they hav become ...acc to the new promo -

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uNsJB3p6Sas

^^^ this is NOT GuNur...I refuse to believ they are ... hence I m NOT gonna take any statements abt who is right/who is wrong ... I jus kno tht this track is NOT something tht I m gonna watch...or even feel ...

hence I hav prob NO right to comment who is wrong / right ... coz for me its alll the CVs fault .. THEY are wrong...and nobody else ...

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