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Posted: 15 years ago
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@mads
i know i know its gr8 to see gunjan with nupur...but my frnd thats the issue with gunjan's character na..why cant her character be caring towards all those she loves at the same time...earlier she was only sam sam sam...and no nupur and now....not thinking abt sam..and pls guys suhani isn't selfish...remmeber she said so much in her letter abt gunjan...said that sam shudn,t punish gunjan for her mistake...then how is suhaan selfish???
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: princessyashika

@mads
i know i know its gr8 to see gunjan with nupur...but my frnd thats the issue with gunjan's character na..why cant her character be caring towards all those she loves at the same time...earlier she was only sam sam sam...and no nupur and now....not thinking abt sam..and pls guys suhani isn't selfish...remmeber she said so much in her letter abt gunjan...said that sam shudn,t punish gunjan for her mistake...then how is suhaan selfish???



first of all she didnt really NEED to say all that stuff because sam already knew all that ... atleast the sam from the SaJan I kno, knew all that !!! and secondly, if she cares soo much abt her bro, why does she even giv a damn to what adhiraj thinks ?? she has met him for jus a month..or even less ... and she already cares abt him, equivalent to samrat ??? what happened to all the 18 yrs of love tat she had been searching from her brother ?? even while leaving for london she is thinking abt him ...

abt gunjan...well, I for one..never really thought that she didnt care abt nuppur, EVER!! true ..her character had been worst destroyed during the sheena phase but that was the weeping willw phase which is a past ... but even when SG had jus started to go out and nupur had a break-up .. she had tried in vain to talk to nupur abt it..but nupur never told her .. and she being the younger and innocent one, didnt kno how to confront her elder sister even when she knew her sister was hiding something from her..esp coming frm an orthodox family..that doesnt mean she didnt care abt nupur ..

but m glad that they are showing her caring nature ( towards nupur ) now .. and frankly, she cannot do anything for samrat being wher she is .. ideally she shud hav been the one to go and talk to samrat ( GRRRRRR 😡 )..but anyways, since that didnt happen..even calling him up wont solve much of a problem..because they need to talk it out in person ..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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wat actually happned today plzz tell ............bcoz i read the updates where sayank convo was also there plzzzzzz explain wat they talked clearly
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Posted: 15 years ago
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@mads
hey my frnd pls yaar dont be angry ...but u know agree with each n every word u said..but just once take it as a practical situation...if sam wouldn't have come to know abt suhaani....even then gunjan shud have called him...remember he was in hospital a few hrs ago....so thats my issue...he is in trouble both ways...injureed as well as hurt...so any gf can atleast take out a few minutes to just check on he bf...provided a girl like gunjan...who is mso caring

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: princessyashika

@mads
hey my frnd pls yaar dont be angry ...but u know agree with each n every word u said..but just once take it as a practical situation...if sam wouldn't have come to know abt suhaani....even then gunjan shud have called him...remember he was in hospital a few hrs ago....so thats my issue...he is in trouble both ways...injureed as well as hurt...so any gf can atleast take out a few minutes to just check on he bf...provided a girl like gunjan...who is mso caring



@ bold : m not angry at u yaar .. 😳😳😳 just frustrated at the CVs ...
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: princessyashika

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hey darling the tables have turned this time...gr8! but ya totally with u ...even coz of this reason only i was so much positive and satisfied with gunjan....but u know my only problem is that when gunjan is handling nupur...bui....and even suhaan's issue...she can just take out some time just to ask abt sammy...i mean u remember suhaani calls gunjan to ask where is adhiraj...at that time gunjan says he wasn't at his home...now at that time gunjan knew that suhaani had accompanied mayu to sam...even then she didn't ask abt him...even in the jail sequence gunjan had just returned seeing that sammy is fine..yet she is so eager to talk to him....then why not now???
i know nupur needs gunjan....and i am so happy gunjan is supporting her....but she could have just tried to just ask abt sammy na.....
whatever satisfaction gunjan may be having...that is mayu can take care of sammy n sammy need some time...but still she shud have atleast tried to know how is he may be contacting mayank if not sam directly...



Yashika, have you guys been in a relationship ?? Its not easy, juggling relationships. Everyone is thinking about SaJan and about Samrat, has anyone even stop to think about Gunjan, about what sort of position she is in right now ?? She suffering inside because she wants to check up on Sam, but she can't, because as much as he needs her, he needs time alone to think. In a relationship, after a fight you have to give each other space and time to get over your anger and think things through, because if you immediately try to rectify it, one of the two always ends up saying something he/she will regret. She is devastated that sam is angry with her, wants to go to him desperately to see if he is fine, to see he is on, but she can't, that's why she switche doff her cell, that's the level of her desperation to be with him, because she knows that if he calls, she wouldnt be able to stop herself. Id that doesnt tell you how much she loves him and wants to be with him, then you guys either dont know Gunjan or anything about relatioships.

It is very difficult to play all the roles of a sis, daughter, gf, wife, mother at the same time. Right now Gunjan is juggling two very important roles. A role of a GF and a role of a sister. Ask yourself if it was a choice between your sister and ur bf, who needed you at the same time, would u really discard your sis problem and run to your bf to console him ? Especially a boyfriend, who needs to think , more then he needs you to console him ?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: xaviara



Yashika, have you guys been in a relationship ?? Its not easy, juggling relationships. Everyone is thinking about SaJan and about Samrat, has anyone even stop to think about Gunjan, about what sort of position she is in right now ?? She suffering inside because she wants to check up on Sam, but she can't, because as much as he needs her, he needs time alone to think. In a relationship, after a fight you have to give each other space and time to get over your anger and think things through, because if you immediately try to rectify it, one of the two always ends up saying something he/she will regret. She is devastated that sam is angry with her, wants to go to him desperately to see if he is fine, to see he is on, but she can't, that's why she switche doff her cell, that's the level of her desperation to be with him, because she knows that if he calls, she wouldnt be able to stop herself. Id that doesnt tell you how much she loves him and wants to be with him, then you guys either dont know Gunjan or anything about relatioships.

It is very difficult to play all the roles of a sis, daughter, gf, wife, mother at the same time. Right now Gunjan is juggling two very important roles. A role of a GF and a role of a sister. Ask yourself if it was a choice between your sister and ur bf, who needed you at the same time, would u really discard your sis problem and run to your bf to console him ? Especially a boyfriend, who needs to think , more then he needs you to console him ?



really well said naveen, cant agree wit u more 😳
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: mads



first of all she didnt really NEED to say all that stuff because sam already knew all that ... atleast the sam from the SaJan I kno, knew all that !!! and secondly, if she cares soo much abt her bro, why does she even giv a damn to what adhiraj thinks ?? she has met him for jus a month..or even less ... and she already cares abt him, equivalent to samrat ??? what happened to all the 18 yrs of love tat she had been searching from her brother ?? even while leaving for london she is thinking abt him ...

abt gunjan...well, I for one..never really thought that she didnt care abt nuppur, EVER!! true ..her character had been worst destroyed during the sheena phase but that was the weeping willw phase which is a past ... but even when SG had jus started to go out and nupur had a break-up .. she had tried in vain to talk to nupur abt it..but nupur never told her .. and she being the younger and innocent one, didnt kno how to confront her elder sister even when she knew her sister was hiding something from her..esp coming frm an orthodox family..that doesnt mean she didnt care abt nupur ..

but m glad that they are showing her caring nature ( towards nupur ) now .. and frankly, she cannot do anything for samrat being wher she is .. ideally she shud hav been the one to go and talk to samrat ( GRRRRRR 😡 )..but anyways, since that didnt happen..even calling him up wont solve much of a problem..because they need to talk it out in person ..



Exactly Mads !! She knows he needs some space and he needs to think with rationale, not with anger. She knew he was more hurt by her, then by Suhaani, and if she went to him now, it would be about Sajan only, Sam again wouldn't think about Suhaani, thats why she shut of her cell, so that he may curse her and be angry at her for while, even hurt for a bit, then later after venting out his anger and hurt, he would think about Suhaani. Now she will give him sufficient time to think things through, and then no one will stop her from her from talking to Sam, even Sam himself, because Gunjan never gives up, not on Sam and never on their relationship. She is just waiting for the right time and place to talk to him.

I'm also very glad that instead of cryiing over Sam, she is supporting Nupur, because if she was crying over their realationship, that means she thinks its so weal that something like this can break it. And when i say this, it doesnt mean she takes sam for granted, or their relatiioship, she doesnt, its because she believes in her their love, trust and understanding.

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: xaviara

<br><font color="#9933ff" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif"><br>Yashika, have you guys been in a relationship ?? Its not easy, juggling relationships. Everyone is thinking about SaJan and about Samrat, has anyone even stop to think about Gunjan, about what sort of position she is in right now ?? She suffering inside because she wants to check up on Sam, but she can't, because as much as he needs her, he needs time alone to think. In a relationship, after a fight you have to give each other space and time to get over your anger and think things through, because if you immediately try to rectify it, one of the two always ends up saying something he/she will regret. She is devastated that sam is angry with her, wants to go to him desperately to see if he is fine, to see he is on, but she can't, that's why she switche doff her cell, that's the level of her desperation to be with him, because she knows that if he calls, she wouldnt be able to stop herself. Id that doesnt tell you how much she loves him and wants to be with him, then you guys either dont know Gunjan or anything about relatioships. <br><br>It is very difficult to play all the roles of a sis, daughter, gf, wife, mother at the same time. Right now Gunjan is juggling two very important roles. A role of a GF and a role of a sister. Ask yourself if it was a choice between your sister and ur bf, who needed you at the same time, would u really discard your sis problem and run to your bf to console him ? Especially a boyfriend, who needs to think , more then he needs you to console him ?</font><br>


s xavi ur right if we were in her postion we wud do the same as she is now suporting her sis and ur right also in saying abt sajan realtionship but as yashi said she cud hav caled atleast mayu na to see whether saamy is ok or noo just to clearfy u knoww ................not to talk to sammy
i hope u understand
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: rajati


hi xavira tujhe itna positive dekhkar achha lag raha
tuhi to thi na jo sajan ka relationship ko lekar kitni depresed thi aur aaj tum kitni positive lag rahi hoo
how come u changed dearr



Rajati, I'm still worried about SaJan, I always will, even if they are together and happy, thats my love for them, but right now this thread isnt about SaJan is it ? Its about Gunjan, and I'm just trying to explain to you that it easy to blame Gunjan, but its very hard to put urself in her shoes and actually face what she is facing right now. I'm surprised that all of uou are gurls here and yet you are more worried about Sammy, then Gunjan ? In all this, since the truth came out, everyone consoled Suhaani first, then she went and consoled Samrat, only Diya, Uday and Benji thought to stop and think about Gunjan for a bit. Even now everyone is worried about Sam, Mupur, Suhaani and Adhiraj, who gives damn about what Gunjan is feeling ? and what she is going through ?

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