bui has crossed all limits!!!updated pg 6 - Page 3

Originally posted by: princessyashika

<FONT color=#006600>@</FONT><FONT color=#006600>dua_44ever</FONT>
<FONT color=#006600>wohoooooooooo gr8 yaar...what innovative names.i am definately gonna use all these in my future views abt her coz i don't think she is gonna change and so will my hatred towards her.</FONT>

Thank you...Ever since I've seen her interfere in SaJan and then making her own opinion about Mayank and Samrat...all these names have been coming to my mind hahaha

I totally disagree....Bui is a motherly figure for Gunjan and Nupur....if this happens to you, would you call your mother a hitler?....Bui has all the right to get upset....and she'll come along....parents get mad first when they find about their children's affairs....especially conservative parents...but over time they do understand their children....I'm disappointed that everyone is calling Bui as bad person, just because she's being concerned about her girls.

oh common !!!! she is like a motherly figure to them ... she loves them both ,so wpot if she is a concervative . evern parent who arnt conservatives get bit conscious in such matters .. INFACT its gr8 to get to see a serious issue in MJHT .... parents tend to thingk like that ... n bui is a conservative .. of morena .. atleast wot it beig shown in the show .. that doesntmake her evil ... how can she allow gunjan n nupur to be in company with boys who havnt managed to create a right impression for her ..

Originally posted by: MayurByGod

I totally disagree....Bui is a motherly figure for Gunjan and Nupur....if this happens to you, would you call your mother a hitler?....Bui has all the right to get upset....and she'll come along....parents get mad first when they find about their children's affairs....especially conservative parents...but over time they do understand their children....I'm disappointed that everyone is calling Bui as bad person, just because she's being concerned about her girls.

I am the only daughter of my parents. You are right that if I was in that situation, my parents will be concerned. BUT, the difference here is that she hasn't talked to Gunjan or Nupur about the whole situation. She doesn't listen to anyone and makes her own opinion. If she trust the values that she has given to Nupur and Gunjan, she will first talk to them before making an opinion. The way she talks about her own nieces in front of everyone is just rude. Mothers will never do that. Yes! she is concerned, but she should clarify the situation first before passing the judgments. Agreed that Mayank lied to her but did she give him a chance to explain who he was? She assumed he was babloo. When Nupur said she doesn't want to meet any boy b/c she doesn't wanna get married, she forced her to meet 'babloo'. Then with Samrat, what exactly did he do wrong? He didn't know that she was a vegetarian. She has just made an opinion about him. Even today, when Sammy says that his parents are in France, she assumes about Sammy's character. Ever since she has been shown, its like she is making her own assumptions and taking her own decisions.
Agreed hopefully she will come around, but till then, her way of things are not completely justified.

Sorry, no offence intended. Just my povs 😊

i just hope tht there r no more probs b/w sajan now...they just got 2gether....bui is scarin me...!!

Originally posted by: dua_44ever

I am the only daughter of my parents. You are right that if I was in that situation, my parents will be concerned. BUT, the difference here is that she hasn't talked to Gunjan or Nupur about the whole situation. She doesn't listen to anyone and makes her own opinion. If she trust the values that she has given to Nupur and Gunjan, she will first talk to them before making an opinion. The way she talks about her own nieces in front of everyone is just rude. Mothers will never do that. Yes! she is concerned, but she should clarify the situation first before passing the judgments. Agreed that Mayank lied to her but did she give him a chance to explain who he was? She assumed he was babloo. When Nupur said she doesn't want to meet any boy b/c she doesn't wanna get married, she forced her to meet 'babloo'. Then with Samrat, what exactly did he do wrong? He didn't know that she was a vegetarian. She has just made an opinion about him. Even today, when Sammy says that his parents are in France, she assumes about Sammy's character. Ever since she has been shown, its like she is making her own assumptions and taking her own decisions.
Agreed hopefully she will come around, but till then, her way of things are not completely justified.

Sorry, no offence intended. Just my povs 😊

Originally posted by: MayurByGod

She is conservative...from a village....where these things are rare..and does not even get discussed...80% of indian village people are conservative about their girls....that totally justufies her behaviour. my POV...peace...!!

Sorry!
Morena is not really a village...it might be shown that way in the show but in reality it isn't and another thing...why does she never object to Nupur's looooong line of chahne waley who are always either around her or in a que at her house?
anyways...Peace from here too...lets just agree to disagree since we both have our own POVs 😊

no hard feelings 😊

MayurByGod, i completely agree with what you're saying which is why i understand where she's coming from....but what's making me hate her is her lack of respect for people...especially Samrat right now...he has a name...USE it...and if you aren't going to use it, at least address him politely like Bauji does in the precap....it's called common courtesy and she seems to be lacking it!

Honestly, i really understand her views because of the points you stated...she's from a small city, she's conservative and in the end is just worried about her two girls....but i just hate her attitude towards others...Sam is a guest for goodness sake...compare Bauji to her and there's a world of difference

@dua_44ever dear i totally agree with all ppl...you are correct that she is conservative and all but here the discussion is abt her moral values...she doesn't know how 2 respect guests...even if you leave samrat her behaviour with benji hadn't been any good i guess...and with mayank if he was the best as babloo how did he become so bad???she neither once tried to clarify why nupur lied abt mayank!!!

I so agree how dare bui insult sammy like that and im so happy that dia and uday supported him