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1.to a certain extent..yes.a relationship needs to be handled with the same care as friendship or any other relationship.no one should take the other persons emotions as granted.and a relationship has to survive on mutual understanding and trust.so a person should maintain their limits and not say or do something to hurt the other person.its easy to be in a relationship,but tough to maintain it.

2.if u meet the right person,yes.some amount of judgement should be employed in deciding it.some people tend to be very trusting.they need to be wary in relationships.some others have a basic issue with trust.these people remain single for a very long time.

Originally posted by: cindrella_fairy

Hi friends as weekends are coming so lets have debate.

The topics of debates are

1)is it necessary to built limitation in love?

I think it depends on what you mean by limitations. Sure people like me would say that love has no limitations but that is coming from somebody who has never loved in that way. Because there are different types of love, limits define themselves. But i do believe that u should never be so head over heels with someon (although i still would like to be) that if they break your heart, it would break you. I mean it would always happen but it would be more manageble if you had a life outside of that person.

2)is it true to fall in love in very young age(college life)?

I think that love happens at all ages, it is just that it takes longer to see when we are younger- i mean look at these guys, it has been a year and now they are finally in love wheras love when people are older i think would happen much quicker. I have to say that i do not think that college is too young at all. Well, not age wise but it also depends on your independence level. The more independent you are/were in college, the better it is for that person to fall in love. Because after all, when your parents are paying the bills and you don't have a care in the world it is different. Mayank is responsible (obviosly), Nups and Gunji are notwith their parents or in their home town anymore and sammys parents aren't with him (plus a lot of the not a care in the world has been taken out after meeting gunjan). That might also be why the others in the gang are not in love yet..

Lastly, i would like to add that love cannot be defined and is too beautiful an emotion to dissaaprove of no matter what the age or circumstances.

Wow that was long,

love is the most beautiful relation if u are in love with ur mr. right and your heart and mind both says yes to him go for him let him realize how much u love him when one keep him / her self in limits the relationship become formal .... both should be true friends for each other .................. being married i can say i m a true friend of my husband first and he is the same for me ..........we love eachother madly and we dont believe in word limitations .............. things become easier for us as being a married..........