Originally posted by: Kavya_KraZQueen
I agree with you about everything else except for the bold part. Firstly Dodo & Dia are N's family, not his, secondly N would not think of it as a big deal but it IS a big deal for M; N saying "what difference does it make?" from her standpoint is easy but thinking what difference it ACTUALLY makes to M by looking at it from his perspective is what really puts the same thing in a totally different & quite serious light (I am not saying N is wrong here , I know she used that line in order to defend herself but from M's POV that is a careless comment) because he is someone who would not appreciate others knowing about his personal feelings, he is not the kind of person who would want his feelings (which he values a lot ) to provide fodder for others' idle gossip (N doesn't care what the world thinks about them, neither does M but while N would not bother whether she is giving people a chance to talk about them, M WOULD) which is why he put his foot down against making their relationship public in the first place . However, N's reasoning about the same (making relationship public) & her insecurities did seem valid to him so he asked her for sometime to think this out carefully before they can tell everyone in such a way so as to avoid being everyone's topic of discussion to some extent at least & at the same time allay N's fears. It was a plan which has been interrupted in between so M did not take too kindly to it, I can understand his anger about it but my main issue is his rationality going for a toss, I could have bought this kind of reaction to N had they NOT been a couple already but we were shown MN literally sticking to each other since confession so they should have formed a basic level of understanding at least (now I guess everyone gets why some of us have been stressing on the emotional bonding of MN for AAAAGESSS). One would particularly expect M to give N a fair chance this time because this is not the first time he didn't give her a chance to explain herself, how long will we be shown M repeating the same mistake again & again? Is that ALL there is to M's character or MN's relationship? Romance- fight-patch-up routine & comedy - that is ALL that defines MN? Where is the depth? When were we shown the strength of their bond by a proper build up of a bond between them for it to be 'tested' now?
Completely agree with what you said in the blue part.
But, going back to my initial point about Dia and Uday being family, I still don't find a rational reason for Mayank to get so mad.
Granted, he's the guy who likes to keep his personal feelings to himself and wouldn't them to be a subject of gossip and speculation. That's the ONLY reason why he doesn't want everyone to know, right?
But again going back to the point that Dia and Uday are family. So why would they talk about them in a bad way anyway? It makes no sense to me.
I agree that Nupur doesn't need to tell the entire world about their relationship but I still don't get Mayank's reasoning behind not even telling her family. Because it seems like the reason he gives against telling everyone doesn't even hold ground with Nupur's family.
-Mahi