I kinda feel bad for the Parekhs

This may sound crazy but I really do at times. When Ishaani was begging her boss to lend her some money, or Falguni telling Baa of Harshad's death or Sharman worried for his family: all of it made me feel bad. I don't think I sympathize with them at all, it's just that I pity them for their sufferings. It's true as well that they got what they deserved, or didn't? Is destiny too hard on them? Have they really suffered as much Ranveer and his family? My question got messed up, your thoughts?

They have to see how painful a poors life is ! and one day whn they will be humiliated they will come to knw how it feels . Thn they will repent for wht they did to ranveer and his family .

Originally posted by: Elvish_Hobbit

This may sound crazy but I really do at times. When Ishaani was begging her boss to lend her some money, or Falguni telling Baa of Harshad's death or Sharman worried for his family: all of it made me feel bad. I don't think I sympathize with them at all, it's just that I pity them for their sufferings. It's true as well that they got what they deserved, or didn't? Is destiny too hard on them? Have they really suffered as much Ranveer and his family? My question got messed up, your thoughts?

'Tis indeed a human feeling, NBT-BV, but not because of the connection I feel with them. What bothered me was the fact that Ishaani goes to her boss, asks for money and he insults her. I really wonder if Harshad ever did this to his employees. Disha's soon-to-be-in-laws are already greedy, if she gets married, and is found to be the victim of domestic violence, what's her fault? And if someone thinks she deserves this, her mother and sister will suffer as much. What's there fault in this? I agree with Perfection that they need to feel and experience what they made Ranveer feel for the sake of status. As for Ranveer's fault, I agree, he somewhat is at fault too. But his "faults" are purely human and probably anyone at his place would have done the same. One cannot condemn him for that. It's not easy to let go of relationships that are 15 or 16 years old just because you're insulted once or twice. If Baa humiliated him, Harshad and Ishaani supported him. He had stronger bonds than just friendship and servant with them. His humiliation might be his fault in many ways, but is understandable and forgiveable.

Originally posted by: perfection

They have to see how painful a poors life is ! and one day whn they will be humiliated they will come to knw how it feels . Thn they will repent for wht they did to ranveer and his family .

Originally posted by: Elvish_Hobbit

'Tis indeed a human feeling, NTB-BV, but not because of the connection I feel with them. What bothered me was the fact that Ishaani goes to her boss, asks for money and he insults her. I really wonder if Harshad ever did this to his employees. Disha's soon-to-be-in-laws are already greedy, if she gets married, and is found to be the victim of domestic violence, what's her fault? And if someone thinks she deserves this, her mother and sister will suffer as much. What's there fault in this? I agree with Perfection that they need to feel and experience what they made Ranveer feel for the sake of status. As for Ranveer's fault, I agree, he somewhat is at fault too. But his "faults" are purely human and probably anyone at his place would have done the same. One cannot condemn him for that. It's not easy to let go of relationships that are 15 or 16 years old just because you're insulted once or twice. If Baa humiliated him, Harshad and Ishaani supported him. He had stronger bonds than just friendship and servant with them. His humiliation might be his fault in many ways, but is understandable and forgiveable.

Bold: so true . and also he was loyal to his masters . PF did gave thm a place to reside also gave thm food so he cant leave family so easily . But whn PF had crossed the limits of humiliation he had to leave the family .

Originally posted by: Elvish_Hobbit

'Tis indeed a human feeling, NBT-BV, but not because of the connection I feel with them. What bothered me was the fact that Ishaani goes to her boss, asks for money and he insults her.

This is very normal. Millions of poor suffer this humiliation everyday when they ask their employer for advance or loan. Chirag fired his driver but I don't think many viewers felt the pain of the driver.

I really wonder if Harshad ever did this to his employees.

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Disha's soon-to-be-in-laws are already greedy, if she gets married, and is found to be the victim of domestic violence, what's her fault? And if someone thinks she deserves this, her mother and sister will suffer as much. What's there fault in this?

She faces domestic violence or not is not the question. The question is what is her attitude towards life. For her money is everything and she thinks she deserves someone richer than her would be in laws. what she did to ranveer ? She conspired with Baa. She's suffering and may suffer in future bcoz of her thinking.

I agree with Perfection that they need to feel and experience what they made Ranveer feel for the sake of status. As for Ranveer's fault, I agree, he somewhat is at fault too. But his "faults" are purely human and probably anyone at his place would have done the same. One cannot condemn him for that. It's not easy to let go of relationships that are 15 or 16 years old just because you're insulted once or twice. If Baa humiliated him, Harshad and Ishaani supported him. He had stronger bonds than just friendship and servant with them. His humiliation might be his fault in many ways, but is understandable and forgiveable.

Just because millions of people suffer doesn't mean the bosses are not at fault. Be it real or fictional world, existence of such people exhibits the moral flaw in our society. Because of this moral flaw, many suffer and this by no means justifies the sufferings of a hard working individual. Be it Ishaani or anyone of the real world.

My concern is not at all for Disha or Baa. They need to be taught lessons by the hardships of their lives. I'm talking about her mother, sister and other family members who are earning money. Baa's making grand promises so that she can fake her richness, but what about others is the question.


The biggest reasons Ranveer continued to live in the Parekh House were Ishaani and Harshad. As we have discussed this before and I have said everything I had to, I'll repeat it again to justify my points. Ranveer's mom was humiliated or tortured once as far as I can remember. His father is not said to be having insulted ever. Ranveer stayed back, made a promise to his mom that he'll leave, once his task is done. After that his mother stopped working for the Parekhs and thus there was no reason for her humiliation at all. It was him who was being insulted because of Chirag. He hid this fact from his mother, but she found out. Basically, it was him who was being insulted not his mom. As for leaving the house but maintaining the relationship with Ishaani and Harshad seems rather impractical to me. Neither of them never insulted him or his family.