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drasti

@drasti11

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Posted: 10 years ago

This new entry... I feel the guy is mentally unfit. I would really like Pari to be married into this family.

Pari seriously deserves this due to the fact the way she hurts everyone... she is playing with Vyom, she is lying to her parents, she is all about money..so perfect opportunity for this gold digger... she deserves the ill treatment..

I would really like if Nimmi and Priti to marry Vyom and his elder brother.. those girls deserve little love i mean come on they tolerated so much..the least they can get is some respect from their in-laws. I would love to see Pari and Sarla and Shanti to burn with fire..

All those ppl hating on Nimmi, Priti, Kaushalaya, and Shivam..honestly stop thinking of Riya only..

Nimmi went through so much to bring Ria into the family..she got slapped in front of all coz of stupid Shantidevi and Sarla..or Riya would be married to stupid Amit.. secondly Priti and Nimmi both daughters dont get treated fairly like Sarla's children do..thats something u cant forget..

The reason those kids (shivam, riya, and priti) got mad at riya is coz they cant stand to see their mother being insulted over n over again... I don't blame them.. their mother always tolerates so much.. just because a new girl ppl only think of her.. that isnt right... Nimmi and all are thinking for her well-beiing.. They geninuely love RIya whereas RIya is only thinking what Dadi said is correct.. she can strictly find way to talk to her mother in law and find out but she didnt...

I agree kaushalya shouldnt hv done what she did in kitchen..but she behaved that way because stupid dadi was sitting on her head saying ur bahu cant do shit...

Shivam has grown to see his mother insulted by all.. he cant stand a new person coming and seeing his mother cry due to that reason..

I honestly feel bad for Nimmi, Priti, Kaushalaya, and Shivam they never been treated fairly..

Kaushalya doesnt say anything because she respects her husband and elders that much.. you wont find such ppl now days.. these characters are truly I feel bad for.. I hope Nimmi and Priti get good in laws like Vyom and his brother...

and I wish Pari goes thru all torture so she understands the meaning of being treated like shit shes not some rajkumari.

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Leelalore

@Leelalore

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Posted: 10 years ago

Agree with you -Pari getting what she deserves -that will be entertaining to watch.

Agree again about Kaushalya & her kids deserving a break from Daadi's exploitation.

Its really sad as they have lived like hostages in their own home. However, this is

not at all riya's fault. The only reason Daadi is able to create differences between Riya & them

is because shivam has not been honest/frank about his family to her.

The dialogues given to Kaushalya & Nimmi are terrible.

"Mummy, aapki baari kab ayegi?" asks Nimmi-it sounds like Kaushalya wants to be the next Shanti.

Kaushalya says a piece of food ( not even swallowed) is apshakun but her daughter puts out

the havan fire & burns a new brides' colourful sarees!

"Tum bin Maa ki bacchi ho...Kitni badi ho gayi ho" etc says Kaushalya.

No matter what they have been through, these dialogues don't show good values/character.

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soapliker

@soapliker

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Posted: 10 years ago

I saw the epi yesterday the one where Kushiya is with Riya in the kitchen. I did not see anger. I saw frustration but not anger. The questions that she asked IMO were genuine.

She was just stating that because she did not have a mother so that is why she cannot cook but in no way did she sound demeaning.

She asking about Shivam knowing before marriage about Riya not knowing how to cook was normal. Coz she said that Shivam constantly comes to her for it

I think Kaushiya throwing the food was not nice but this came from trying to get things done fast to feed her MIL

And sometimes anger helps the other person to learn too. Within no time Riya became a good cook as mentioned in the epi yesterday.

But what I do not get is how can anybody sleep in the kitchen after cooking food. I think seeing her in that state frustrated Kushiya more than her cooking.

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Amita10

@Amita10

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: drasti11
This new entry... I feel the guy is mentally unfit. I would really like Pari to be married into this family.
Pari seriously deserves this due to the fact the way she hurts everyone... she is playing with Vyom, she is lying to her parents, she is all about money..so perfect opportunity for this gold digger... she deserves the ill treatment..

I would really like if Nimmi and Priti to marry Vyom and his elder brother.. those girls deserve little love i mean come on they tolerated so much..the least they can get is some respect from their in-laws. I would love to see Pari and Sarla and Shanti to burn with fire..

All those ppl hating on Nimmi, Priti, Kaushalaya, and Shivam..honestly stop thinking of Riya only..
Nimmi went through so much to bring Ria into the family..she got slapped in front of all coz of stupid Shantidevi and Sarla..or Riya would be married to stupid Amit.. secondly Priti and Nimmi both daughters dont get treated fairly like Sarla's children do..thats something u cant forget..

The reason those kids (shivam, riya, and priti) got mad at riya is coz they cant stand to see their mother being insulted over n over again... I don't blame them.. their mother always tolerates so much.. just because a new girl ppl only think of her.. that isnt right... Nimmi and all are thinking for her well-beiing.. They geninuely love RIya whereas RIya is only thinking what Dadi said is correct.. she can strictly find way to talk to her mother in law and find out but she didnt...
I agree kaushalya shouldnt hv done what she did in kitchen..but she behaved that way because stupid dadi was sitting on her head saying ur bahu cant do shit...

Shivam has grown to see his mother insulted by all.. he cant stand a new person coming and seeing his mother cry due to that reason..

I honestly feel bad for Nimmi, Priti, Kaushalaya, and Shivam they never been treated fairly..
Kaushalya doesnt say anything because she respects her husband and elders that much.. you wont find such ppl now days.. these characters are truly I feel bad for.. I hope Nimmi and Priti get good in laws like Vyom and his brother...

and I wish Pari goes thru all torture so she understands the meaning of being treated like shit shes not some rajkumari.

I agree with you Pari getting married to this new guy. He seems to be abnormal. I think his younger brother is Vyom. Remember on yesterday's episode he asked his Uncle about his brother addressing "Chote", so I am assuming Vyom will be his younger brother.

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Leelalore

@Leelalore

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

Agree with seeing both sides of the coin. From the start, Kaushalya is shown to be

a soft-spoken woman & Nimmi -a nice, smart girl. However,

Ammaji has manged to make Khushiya , Nimmi & Preeti feel angry, jealous

and insecure about Riya. This is the actual cause for a changed Nimmi and an angry

Kaushalya. Ammaji tried this today also when she told Khushiya that Riya is a competitor

to her daughters (for the gold & money) Nimmi & Preeti.

Ammaji is also causing distress and discomfort to riya

in many ways. She was indirectly responsible for Riya's tears on the pooja day,

she is keeping riya apart from Shivam & in her own room.

She also set the cooking task-probably knowing that Riya can't do it .

Also, she is instigating riya against Kaushalya & Nimmi. But to Riya's credit, she never

uttered anything against Nimmi or Kaushalya. Daadi was probably hoping

that Riya would cry & make a fuss about the saree-burning kaand of Nimmi.

Even when Daadi asked Riya-Don't you mind Nimmi shouting at you?

Riya indicated that she is not holding any grudges.

Riya is being shown to be more of a decent & dignified person.

Probably, because she is the heroine.

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infinityonloop

@infinityonloop

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Leelalore
Agree with you -Pari getting what she deserves -that will be entertaining to watch.

Agree again about Kaushalya & her kids deserving a break from Daadi's exploitation.

Its really sad as they have lived like hostages in their own home. However, this is

not at all riya's fault. The only reason Daadi is able to create differences between Riya & them

is because shivam has not been honest/frank about his family to her.

The dialogues given to Kaushalya & Nimmi are terrible.

"Mummy, aapki baari kab ayegi?" asks Nimmi-it sounds like Kaushalya wants to be the next Shanti.

Kaushalya says a piece of food ( not even swallowed) is apshakun but her daughter puts out

the havan fire & burns a new brides' colourful sarees!

"Tum bin Maa ki bacchi ho...Kitni badi ho gayi ho" etc says Kaushalya.

No matter what they have been through, these dialogues don't show good values/character.

but dint she slap nimmi for that ?

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pp29

@pp29

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Leelalore
Agree with you -Pari getting what she deserves -that will be entertaining to watch.

Agree again about Kaushalya & her kids deserving a break from Daadi's exploitation.

Its really sad as they have lived like hostages in their own home. However, this is

not at all riya's fault. The only reason Daadi is able to create differences between Riya & them

is because shivam has not been honest/frank about his family to her.

The dialogues given to Kaushalya & Nimmi are terrible.

"Mummy, aapki baari kab ayegi?" asks Nimmi-it sounds like Kaushalya wants to be the next Shanti.

Kaushalya says a piece of food ( not even swallowed) is apshakun but her daughter puts out

the havan fire & burns a new brides' colourful sarees!

"Tum bin Maa ki bacchi ho...Kitni badi ho gayi ho" etc says Kaushalya.

No matter what they have been through, these dialogues don't show good values/character.

Agree with the rest, but I'd like to point out one thing. Nimmi asking Khusiya "aapki baari kab ayegi" wasn't meant to be like "when will you be the next Shanti". It was more of a natural feeling that when will you get some relief from the single handed burden of the whole family? IT is obvious in most houses that when a DIL comes in, it is said that she will take over the running of the house from the MIL and it's called "retirement for the MIL" who has been running her house alone for so many years. Khusiya, is on the extreme end as she has been jheloing the burden of cooking, cleaning, taking care of every single thing in the family and also listening to Shanti;s taunts and her evil schemes against her. For nimmi, it was thought that Riya would come and be a shoulder and help to her mother and give the poor mom a break from all this crazy stress she has been dealing with for so long. IT may be selfish to think of it that way, but it also comes from a very loving and concerned thought about her mom. And they have seen that Riya doesn't know anything in the house, and also that they think she is Shanti's chamchi, which means her mom will never get a break, because along with shanti, riya will also trouble her and humiliate her. ( in Nimmi;s mind that is)