Originally posted by: soapliker
I am not supporting Raghav, In fact get angry and frustrated with him but to give him due credit, he has not known anything otherwise. All he hears and sees is Shanti talking ill of his wife and kids and they keeping quiet.
I think it is Kaushiya fault big time in not letting her hubby see his mothers true nature. I think it is the kids fault in not letting their father see that their grandmother is wrong.
How does Raghav know when nobody shows their side of it? . All he does is work like a dog for 16 + hours and come home to listen to Shanti's rant.
More than Raghav not understanding his wife and kids. I do not get Kaushiya's attitude towards her hubby. Why is she so scared of him? Why does she not let her kids talk to him?
I have heard couple of times he ask the kids for their side but they keep quiet. Their eyes go big, gulp, stare but not talk at that time. I do not understand that .
CVs seem unsure about the characterization of Nimmi/Preeti/Shivam and Raghav ...at times they contradict. Whenever Nimmi has spoken up Raghav has asked her to shut up. She more than anyone else in the house knows Shanti Devi like the back of her hand and even said the doctor's call and dizzyness was bec' of the loss of Rs. 5 lakhs😆 Bingo! She can read the way Shanti Devi's twisted and conniving mind works like an open book. 😆
Cowsalya is a woman who married very young (in her teens ...as she mentioned to Renu) and at that age she learned everything about what it is to be a bahu in a household ruled by Shanti Devi. Shanti Devi has taken advantage of her naivete and treated her more like a slave than a bahu. Is Sarla an invalid😈? Every time she comes to her maike she bosses and insults Cowsalya and she takes it in stride worse than a doormat without giving it back to Sarla😲.
Nimmi is the only one who can stand up to Sarla and Shanti Devi. She's got their number...no wonder they try to shut her up😆. Cowsalya is afraid of Shanti Devi's drama and Raghav getting upset that his mother and sister were displeased. As annoying as it seems, I have seen households where the wife will keep quiet and bear the brunt of it to keep the peace in the family and not have the husband get upset/stress about it. Men like Raghav expect their wives to be superwomen and never once realize that she's been treated unfairly. Sarla's son was supposedly getting married but not once did she lift her little fingers to do a thing while Renu and Cowsalya ran ragged with preparations. That's how the villainous mothers in law get away with it. Shanti Devi covers up Sarla's mistakes and teams up with her to gang up on Raghav's family with their plot to undermine them every step of the way.
Even Shanti Devi sees her son as nothing more than her bank. If her son should hand over his paycheck to her then Shivam should follow suit and do as his daddy does...hand over his paycheck to Cowsalya. Maybe then Raghav will get a wake up call. Every time Raghav makes an issue about something Shivam should do exactly as he does maybe that will finally open his eyes. As it is Raghav is hard of hearing and doesn't hear his mother and sister plotting to fleece him for every buck.
When Sarla has a husband who earns for the family and two adults offsprings who are supposed to be earning too...but nothing more than kaam chors...one is gambling and hiding from the goons who want their money back and Pari is busy trying to find herself a rich husband. She's going to land in Vyom's paradise where his big brother calls the shots😆. Sarla will get a taste of her own medicine and deservedly so.
Shanti Devi should realize that if she doesn't treat her bahu well karma may make her daughter Pari pay for it in her life. She is another Sarla in training...maybe a tough brother in law (Vyom's brother) is what she needs to fix her.😆😆😆
Why is Raghav expected to support his sister's family anyways? Hope Riya will soon figure it out and with Rani letting her know how poorly she's been treated by Sarla...Riya should finally stand up and let Shanti Devi and Sarla know that their reign of terror is over. She ought to tell Raghav to start treating his family like they matter not hand them over to Shanti Devi as puppets to tease and torture.
Shanti Devi knows if anyone can expose her it's Victorani😆. Good that there is at least one person who can do that in that household. Now that Shivam has Riya's support may be he can mirror back to Raghav how the family works...his wife and children pay with every drama his mother and sister script to have it their way.😕
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