12.8.15 - Just one more day to go, Shivam apni Dulhaniya le Jayega :p

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Today's episode made me realize how incredibly LUCKY Shivam is, to have been blessed with such caring sisters, who would do anything, just about ANYTHING for their brother.😊

Preeti, who is generally portrayed as some one timid and easily intimidated, actually went OUT OF HER WAY to find a lock ...and then, doubting that it might look suspicious on her, risked removing the lock from the Tijori lying on the mandap (it looked like it had all the Shagun ka saamaan in the trunk) as everyone gyrated to some peppy Bollywood number..she even went up and locked Riya up...

Yes,she was scared but her love for her brother towered over anything else she might have felt inside.

Also, am sure that is THE BRAVEST thing she has probably ever done in her life!😉

Shivam is a SUCH A nice guy...when the khilona wala and he met with an accident, and the former got injured, Shivam preferred sending him to the hospital in the lone car that passed them by a few minutes later...though he too needed to be in Mugalsarai at the earliest...dono gir gaye, but the minute he dusted himself off and got up on his feet, he rushed to tend to the khilona wala...that was a nice human touch...I understand love and all, but I'd have not liked it if Shivam would have left the guy to his state and sat in the car and drove off...

On a lighter note, Shivam looked so so good while riding on horseback...dum hai bande mein!👏 And he probably speaks as many words as Riya does in 6 months, but his love for her is UNQUESTIONABLE...He fits the idea of a quiet, introverted man madly in love so well! He is ready to do anything for her...and that's where he is different from his dad..I hope Raghav learns some tips from his own son on how to treat his wife😡

As for Nimmi...she loves Shivam so much she is willing to bear the brunt of her scheming Bua and her inconsiderate Dadi...when the sisters realised that the lock has been broken, and Riya was being ushered by Bunty and the others, right up to the stage...Nimmi did whatever came to her mind...as a last resort, to delay the Jaymala ceremony for as long as she could...

The minute Riya reached the foot of the stairs, Nimmi approached her stealthily and pushed a marble statue of a woman (she looked like a water-bearer) at her, which resulted in Riya getting off balance and her clothes getting wet... As you can imagine, Sarala lost her cool completely...and slapped Nimmi hard across the face...

it was so sad to see Nimmi put up with it...only for her brother;s happiness...😭😭

I wanted to whack Sarla on her face so hard😡 She dared accuse Nimmi of casting an evil eye on her brother and disrupting his wedding, when SHE has been at her antics since day one, since the day she got to know of Riya being in love with Shivam...WHO GAVE HER THE DAMN AUTHORITY TO DO SO??

Not only that, she shook Nimmi up ...and gritting her teeth, spout fire "Saari mehenat paani mein pher di" ...of course she was pissed that Jaymaala ceremony wasn't happening as scheduled...she wanted it to be done with before Shivam miraculously appeared...such a lousy rat she is! she was behaving like a 5 yr old whose only source of entertainment had been snatched away from her...no wonder Amit behaves like a 5 yr old himself, demanding things of his mother...like he were asking for the latest gadget in the market and not a woman to wed DISGUSTING this mother-son duo are...its such a PAIN to keep watching them day in and day out...if not for Shivam and Riya, I wudnt be watching these negative characters getting so much unnecessary footage😡

And what was worse was the reaction from Dadi, Raghav and Kushiya...of course Kaushalya cows down instantly...wohi raag alaapne lagti hai jo Sarla aur Dadi alaapte hain...Amma, of course is such an inconsiderate bitch (yeah, I dont care if she is playing the role of a grandmom here, she is plain infuriating) and instantly assumed her daughter is perfectly innocent...and her granddaughters are the ones who are trouble-makers...Heck! She SCHEMES it everytime to lead Raghav to think his wife is a mastermind in disrupting Sarla's happiness


even if Sarla gets caught in this whole wedding scenario, Amma will concoct the wildest stories on earth to pin the blame right on KUSHIYA AND HER CHILDREN😡

It was Raghav's reaction that sent me over the edge😡 HOW COULD HE STAND THERE WATCHING AS A THIRD PARTY CAME AND SLAPPED NIMMI THAT WAY?? Even if my child made a mistake (that too, it wasnt earth-shattering, exactly!) the right to discipline him remains with me! Why would I sullenly watch my sister thrash my own child? 😡Sarla, as usual, to justify her childish thumping and exaggerated nautanki started bawling - main jaanti hun ki mera Santi sadan mein aana bhabhi aur unke bacchon ko accha nai lagta..blah blah...Raghav had the temerity to glare at Nimmi, as if she had committed a murder...and berated her for the same... "tum kyun ucchal kuud karti rehti ho?" this and that...he even looked at Kaushalya, in a very accusatory way...as if to hint that she indeed had taught her children to be trouble-makers and hamper Sarla's well-laid plans...

he ALWAYS does that...and hence, all his surreptitious glances at his biwi, asking her to smile, or not hurry so much, relax and enjoy behind closed doors or billowing curtains means NOTHING to me😡...since he CONSISTENTLY FAILS to protect his wife;s dignity and be a good father to his own children...waht;s the use being a Chanda Mama for Sarla's kids and churning out money like he were an ATM machine?

Every actor, at some point or the other, regrets at least ONE ROLE, ONE PROJECT he/she takes up in his career...MAM as a project is interesting and funny...and maybe tolerable...but Raghav Srivastav as the henpecked son of Amma, without any consideration for his wife and children is an UTTER FAILURE. Varun Badola is a wonderful, wonderful actor...dont know WHY he is out to mar his acting track record by playing this absolutely dimwit role...he is surely gonna regret taking up this stupid role later ...

A father is the head of the house...and this is not how head of the house ought to behave...listen to his bitchy mother and sister for advice on how to treat his own immediate family...Hate such men who dont have the sensibility to respect their wives or the time and inclination to understand their children😡

Hats off Nimmi! 👏Your risk is gonna pay off...coz tomorrow, Shivam is gonna barge into the mandap riding on a horse...

Guess all of Riya's romantic dreams are gonna get fulfilled by Shivam - in his unique style!😆👏


P.S. Sarla only knows how to threaten Rani, twist her arm, and glare at her..she thinks Rani is the kind to be easily intimated ..boy! Rani is lying low now...only because she has no option, but I doubt she is going to remain the same once she becomes SARLA'S bahu and Amitwa's bride...I'm waiting for that day she will twist Sarla's arm and show her stars in broad daylight

As for Raghav, I hope Riya gives him a good earful too...and makes him realize how low he has fallen in his children's and wife's eyes already...what a horrible husband and pathetic father he makes😡


P.S. Shivam is SUCH A HOTTIE! I feel butterflies in my tummy every time I see him...and when his eyes become moist, and he seems at a loss for words..gosh...that feels so cozy
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Posted: 10 years ago
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By tomorrow Shivam will reach on the wedding venue but it will take 2-3 episodes more to make everyone understand about the confusion, drama and all...so he will have to do lot of things in upcoming episodes to take his dhulhaniya...

and it is certain that Sarla and Dadi both will blame Khaushalya and her children and just like always Raghav won't believe his own blood...
I am tired of this man...he only cares for his mom...it's not wrong to care for mother but don't ignore your children yaar...what kind of a father you are?? you can't even protest as a human being...

But Shivam is totally not like this...he will be a good husband and today he showed it while running for his bride...awww...the way he was running...running...and he even robbed that Horse too

he was looking superb while running..and while riding that horse...

Shivam is really lucky that his two sisters tried their best to save his love...and I am proud of Nimmi...she didn't care about Dadi's taunt...she was just thinking about her brother..even Pretty did it..she locked the room as soon as Nimmi said won't you do it for Shivam brother??
aww...I love this show just because of this family matters...these three are so caring..this brother-sister relation of this show is really unique...
I love them...and I just hope Shivam will be able to understand everyone about the confusion...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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very nice post...initially i was irritated with nimmi n preeti for not telling sarla's trick on her face to raghav...but yes must agree, that shivam is lucky to have such sisters...
i think cause they are deprived of the love of their father n grand mother, they have become extra protective bt each other...m sure shivam will be furious when he hears that sarla slapped nimmi...

shivam was looking too good on the horse...unfortunately i missed the helping the toy seller part...

felt real sad for nimmi, when sarla slapped her...and later esp when raghav accused her instead...how can he even ignore the fact that sarla slapped her (his teenage daughter) infront of all the guests...

at the same time, i was chanting through out for nimmi to tell sarla on her face bt her lies...if only she had asked raghav to go and ask riya her groom's name...and then he will know why she did what she did...but unfortunately they dont want it that easy for shivam riya...

i agree totally with ur comment, that u are tolerating this chandal chaukadi of shanti sarla amit n pari only cause of shivam n riya...and though m miffed with riya for living in her fantasy land...cant help but adore her...

everyday tolerating this drag fest only to see them married...and that will be the perfect loss for sarla n company
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Awesome analysis 👏 , u said it all

And yah , shivam got such loving sisters who can do anything for him ...


Now I just want shivam to expose Sarla and then will see how she defends her Riya priya story
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I too find Raghav sudden love and affection for his wife fake. He only has that when his mom and sis are not around.

Rest will answer after watching the episode

Thanks for the WU.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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First of all, I don't agree that the father is the head of the house. Looking at men like Raghav, I dread to think he is appointed as being in charge of a whole family.
The head of the family should neither be a man nor the eldest but a capable mature person who is incorruptible. In case of a married household, both the husband and wife are equally in charge of their family and must exert justice and kindness towards their children.

This old tradition of obeying elders no matter what is a faulty and illogical one, and this show is proving that. Because Kaushalya is denied her right as an equal head of the household and oppressed, the children are suffering.

Their parents have utterly failed them. When Nimmi was slapped by that evil Sarla, neither one of her parents came to her defence. If that was my daughter, I'd slap Sarla so hard and humiliate her at her own son's wedding. It is a parent's duty to protect their child. And as far as anyone else is concerned, Nimmi accidently spilt water on the bride. That should not warrant her to be kicked out of the hall.

Had it been one of Sarla's children who did that, a drama would not be created at all and it would be ignored. Someone needs to point this out to that blind and deaf Raghav.

I was disappointed in Raghav the most. He clearly has no love for any of his daughters.


As for Shivam, the guy is lucky to have two sisters like that. He needs to stand up more for them, take them with him and marry Riya then move into Riya's house with both his sisters and live happily ever after.
Edited by Amanat284 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Shivam Indeed is lucky.
And all three kids are unlucky to get father like Raghav!

Agree with everyone who finds his 'malkain' & glary love when alone with wifey annoying! He deserves serious serious jolt.
But that still won't get his kids the right & respect they derve & they deprived of all these years!

Nimmi didn't say anything perhaps because Shivam had told her not to!

Sarla & Shanti's torture is getting too much to take any more!
But there is a truckload of that coming right after shaadi!
So, Oh well!🤔.

Hanging in there to see Shivam' entry on Ghodi. A la betaab!



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: spdp

Shivam Indeed is lucky.
And all three kids are unlucky to get father like Raghav!

Agree with everyone who finds his 'malkain' & glary love when alone with wifey annoying! He deserves serious serious jolt.
But that still won't get his kids the right & respect they derve & they deprived of all these years!

Nimmi didn't say anything perhaps because Shivam had told her not to!

Sarla & Shanti's torture is getting too much to take any more!
But there is a truckload of that coming right after shaadi!
So, Oh well!🤔.

Hanging in there to see Shivam' entry on Ghodi. A la betaab!




I guess everyone here agrees that Raghav is a HORRIBLE HUSBAND, PATHETIC FATHER😡

I am still so pissed at the gall of that wicked Sarla to SLAP Nimmi in front OF EVERYONE...

And Raghav didnt say a word! Only hope is Riya
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Amanat284

First of all, I don't agree that the father is the head of the house. Looking at men like Raghav, I dread to think he is appointed as being in charge of a whole family.

The head of the family should neither be a man nor the eldest but a capable mature person who is incorruptible. In case of a married household, both the husband and wife are equally in charge of their family and must exert justice and kindness towards their children. I didnt mean it in a patriarchal sense...in deciding things for the house, a man's opinion DOES matter..be it as a husband or as a father ...yes, a woman's opinion matters as well but how many times have u seen a homemaker being given her due respect and place in the family? Rarely. The man goes out to work and earns money...and so, all the decisions rest with HIM. Atleast Srivastav family follows this protocol..I was saying in that sense...so even if I take that sense, then I dont see Raghav EVER using HIS brains, his mental capacity to deal with members of his family..or decide things in the house...I understand he loves his mom to death..but I cant, for the life of me understand WHY at THIS age does he STILL hand over his hard-earned salary to his mother and let her handle the finances?/ Is he a retard or something??😡

This old tradition of obeying elders no matter what is a faulty and illogical one, and this show is proving that. Because Kaushalya is denied her right as an equal head of the household and oppressed, the children are suffering. OF COURSE she is suffering...but the question is far, far away from having an equal right as the caretaker of the house...the question is also about respect and integrity..EVEN if she does not have much of a say in the affairs of the house or CHOOSES not to, does it give good reason to Amma and Sarla to treat her like dirt?? And I have seen cases where the woman, despite being forthright and blunt, and no-nonsense ends up getting treated like shit...and her children suffer...majorly because women feel they are BOUND to their husbands for life...Raghav really needs to BUCK UP and be a MAN in the true sense...he is annoying me like hell!

Their parents have utterly failed them. When Nimmi was slapped by that evil Sarla, neither one of her parents came to her defence. If that was my daughter, I'd slap Sarla so hard and humiliate her at her own son's wedding. It is a parent's duty to protect their child. And as far as anyone else is concerned, Nimmi accidently spilt water on the bride. That should not warrant her to be kicked out of the hall. Kaushalya se kuch bhi expect karna bekaar hai, because TILL date she has not given it back to her MORON MIL or her bitchy SIL..for making her run around the house like a rat scurrying for its dear life...or the mindless bitching/blaming...the endless accusation...but I hoped Raghav atleast would have the sense to not yell at Nimmi and insult her for such a small thing...there's something called public decency...and it INFURIATED me to see that Sarla has been given SO MUCH AUTHORITY to deal however she wants to...with her bhabhi;s children...with Raghav and Amma and Kushiya, only aiding her

Had it been one of Sarla's children who did that, a drama would not be created at all and it would be ignored. Someone needs to point this out to that blind and deaf Raghav. Riya will, once she comes to the family and sees for herself the 'Balance of power' among the diff members in the house..anyway Sarla and her chamcha family are exempt from EVERYTHING. Hpe that greedy Pari gets caught red-handed...and thrashed by her own mother...

I was disappointed in Raghav the most. He clearly has no love for any of his daughters. What daughters?? He doesnt give a damn to his son as well...feel like whacking him hard sometimes😡


As for Shivam, the guy is lucky to have two sisters like that. He needs to stand up more for them, take them with him and marry Riya then move into Riya's house with both his sisters and live happily ever after. Yeh toh KABHI NAHIN HOGA..nai toh Amma will feign a heart attack! Money coming INTO the house is welcomed...money going OUT is a big No-No...I hope Shanti is forced to return the 5 lakhs to Riya


CCR!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: soapliker

I too find Raghav sudden love and affection for his wife fake. He only has that when his mom and sis are not around.

Rest will answer after watching the episode

Thanks for the WU.


Lets just agree Raghav is a PEST😕

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