Helala and its misuse in 4Lions show's concept

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hukshila

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Posted: 12 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: zahra15
I totally agree.

A wife is never allowed to ask for a divorce and suppose while joking a man tells his wife I will divorce you then it already counts as 1 times.

So, one should pay great attention to what he says.

And then if a wife and husband fully divorce, then they are not allowed to get together again until they both get married to different persons again and then get divorced after consummating their marriage.

This is actually done to discourage divorce in the first place because it is one thing which Allah Ta'ala highly hates.

And one is not supposed to marry once again to someone else with the intention of divorcing him/her also after consummation of marriage to get back with the first wife/husband.

yes, the divorce happened in anger, joke and even if some one put condition with the wife, i.e. if she enters some where she will be divorced. as is serious and not a joke so rules are made to warn people of being careful

the husband is not required to marry some one else but if he wanted the same women (ex wife) then the condition of Helala applies, but intentional helala is not allowed. its just by chance if women gets divorce for some reason/problem or the 2nd husband die.

the post is to request 4lions for not showing it the way they are telling it in the concept of the show and people have been already criticizing it on qabool hai forum

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Posted: 12 years ago

#22

👏 i totally agree with ur posts

thnx for awesome posts 😃 and clearing misunderstanding

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-GayabCat-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#23

thank u 🤗

nice post though

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Sandy-Naz

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Posted: 12 years ago

#24

i know every thing that u mentioned...when this show started ,i knew that many things will happen which i donot like or many muslims donot like..

bt at present i think,nothing is going wrong ,i mean what they r presenting in serial,,mostly muslim girls are doing,,sorry to say this..

bt i like this show bcoz of its story ,not bcoz it is based on muslim society..bcoz it cannot depict what muslims really r ..i watch this,like i watch other serials.

and the concept that u mentioned,,i really do not know anything about this..and till now it not happened in the show..

sometime i think,maybe indian muslim do this and that,,bcoz as u know many sectors are created by muslims..so i cannot say anything..😊

thanks for the all description..😊

Edited by sundasnaz - 12 years ago

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Sandy-Naz

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Posted: 12 years ago

#25

islam gave respect to women..i studied islamiyat as my subject,,infact being a muslim i studied all..bt iam not a perfect muslim..

there r many people,who claim themselves muslims,bt they hate women,,and iam sure they can do like this..iam not at all favouring this thing..iam just telling u the truth in which people go their extreme point and cross all limits..i myself saw the news in which jirga of one of my country sentenced death to girls and boys bcoz they danced in a marriage ceremony...yes dance is a sin,,bt to sentence death without mercy is this right..so ,to say that we r perfect is not at all right..

second ,this is serial..we cannot expect from them to show right things about islam..

Allah forgive us and help us to maintian our Emaan..Ameen😊

Edited by sundasnaz - 12 years ago

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neha

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Posted: 12 years ago

#26

Very nice post thanx for making

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MuneebaSheikh

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Posted: 12 years ago

#27

Wow Amazing Post🤗i Agree Wid All ur Points

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hukshila

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Posted: 12 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: sundasnaz
i know every thing that u mentioned...when this show started ,i knew that many things will happen which i donot like or many muslims donot like..
bt at present i think,nothing is going wrong ,i mean what they r presenting in serial,,mostly muslim girls are doing,,sorry to say this..
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bt i like this show bcoz of its story ,not bcoz it is based on muslim society..bcoz it cannot depict what muslims really r ..i watch this,like i watch other serials.
and the concept that u mentioned,,i really do not know anything about this..and till now it not happened in the show..
sometime i think,maybe indian muslim do this and that,,bcoz as u know many sectors are created by muslims..so i cannot say anything..😊
thanks for the all description..😊

well to be honest, i didn't expect and thought what's coming up, even i was not watching this serial, some people on show forum knows, it was Mariam Sultan from that forum who sent me a scrap to comment on some post as it was dealing with religion and it was Manal who was excited for this show in the beginning after watching promo and then when it started she told she is expecting a wrong image to be portrayal. you can please verify the statement from zee tv's official site and i also mentioned that link in post. I am sorry to disagree not many muslim girls are doing what they are presenting in serial, some might be doing as i can't say all are right. good and bad people are every where. I have my own friends who never had any friendship and got agree to marry where their parents decided (not forcefully).

yes it didn't happen in the show but they have mentioned on the official site that they have an intention to turn the story that way, and we are here to protest for not doing so.

same thing as you said you are thinking many indian muslims do what ever is being shown, i m not an indian muslim but that's my concern as we all are muslims

Originally posted by: sundasnaz
islam gave respect to women..i studied islamiyat as my subject,,infact being a muslim i studied all..bt iam not a perfect muslim..
there r many people,who claim themselves muslims,bt they hate women,,and iam sure they can do like this..iam not at all favouring this thing..iam just telling u the truth in which people go their extreme point and cross all limits..i myself saw the news in which jirga of one of my country sentenced death to girls and boys bcoz they danced in a marriage ceremony...yes dance is a sin,,bt to sentence death without mercy is this right..so ,to say that we r perfect is not at all right..

second ,this is serial..we cannot expect from them to show right things about islam..
Allah forgive us and help us to maintian our Emaan..Ameen😊

good and bad people are every where. i am not saying we are muslims so we are perfect, neither one time i said in both of my post. let me tell you again the reason of this post is to protest for not using it as a show concept and the reason of the second post is to tell them to add a disclaimer. if you have seen some jirga doing the above mentioned incident it doesn't mean every where muslims are doing the same.

We are not actually expecting from them to preach Islam or show every thing right about islam. the concern is not to show that as Muslim Social Drama as we can't go to correct millions of people who are misunderstanding muslims as a whole. How many of them you think will go to verify? hardly 1% or less so what about the rest of them?

i understand that they have to run the show but we don't want them to exploit any Islamic term and present in wrong way or advertise as Muslim social drama.

ameen for dua