What You Miss When Not In Your Country..!

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Namaste IFians..!!😃

Friends, we all know that here in India-Forums, quite a few of us don't live in our country, whether it is India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, UAE, etc.

For those of you who don't live in your home country, what do you miss the most ..?? And for those of you who have never had the chance to live in your country, what do you wish you could experience ?

As we get closer to celebrating Republic Day on 26 Jan, think about what you miss the most....

Could it be bursting firecrackers and dancing for garba every night during Diwali ?

Or going to all your family's houses and celebrating Eid with all your family and friends ?

Do you remember eating the pure motichur ladoos and having garam garam vada pav ?

..... or could it even be the small shops, such as Meghdoot in Mumbai or Surat in Gujrat ?

What do you miss the most ? Do tell us, and let's re-live our memories of our country.

Share your memories and wishes with us as we recollect the times of being in our own country..!! Aap sub logh soch lijiye😉

*IF Crazy Creatives*

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Lol, I haven't really gotten tonnes of "pleasant" memories from my "homeland😛." There are more cons than pros, but yeah there several things\people I miss.

- Some true and close Relatives (First and foremost😛). There hasn't been a single second where I didn't miss them. It's been a long time since anyone stroked my hair till I went to sleep. Or fed me by hand.

- Servantsssssssssssssssssssssssssss!!!!!! Omg here, we have to wash all the dishes, vacuum, clean the washroom, etc, by ourselves. There, there were so many tasks done by the servants. N' oh yeah, I got heavenly massages from my care maid (although sometimes I felt guilty since she was like 45 and the scene would have been better if it was me in her place and her in mine😛) about once a week in only five hundred rupees, n' that's not a lot comparing to the prices they charge here😆 😆 😆 😆

- I loved the poor people a lot. NOT BEGGARS. But poor people who strive to make enough money for a sufficient amount of food. Working roughly in the heat. I made friends with the people who didn't come anywhere in my social status. I felt kind of awkward at first, becuz they were totally opposite to the people I had hung out with. But then their willpower, their happiness despite of their financial condition, their faith in god, their ego level of zero (here, you wouldn't find a person with an ego level less than 5, including me), and their support used to make me sooooooooo happy. Everyday of PK, brought an ugly condition towards me, but when I saw that people, people who dont even know if they're going to have enough money to eat fully the next day, are going hanging around with smiles on their faces, leaving everything on God, are happy, then why not me. They were my biggest inspiration. Buying them gifts, giving them my pocket money chupke se (even though they tried to stop me, I used to force them into taking it😆) They were the same people who I used to get freaked out of at one time. But now It's been 3-4 years of desperation to get in contact with them again. I miss them a lot. All of them.

- I miss the food, also. Although now I have learned to make almost everything included in the cuisine of my homeland😛, i still miss those table thingies on the road, i don't know what their called in english😆 (very un-healthy to eat food which has been open in a dirty environment, but still it was sweet and funny😆), i miss the lil' lil' shops😆 (it wouldve been fun hanging out there if it wasnt so crowded and hot😆), I miss kicking people who gave me ahem... remarks, I miss throwing juice at the illiterate guys in the cinema who yelled soooo much crappy things everytime there was a "cheesy" scene (it pissed me off at times but they were funny in an immature way😆 😆 😆😆), I miss chaand raat before Eid, picking out chudiyan, jewellery, mehndi n all (but it all wouldn't have been fun without "the gang" i used to go out with😆. n' I miss that ice-cream waala😆 😆 😆 that used to come to our neighbourhood EVERY day, here we have to go to the store *yawn* and then get it. He was so sweet, and the sweet part is that most of the people who came like this (eg, ice cream waala, vegi waala😆) all considered me like a beti, were highly respecting and niiiiiiiiice and modest. Note: the elder ones😆. The younger ones were perverts🤢.

-Last but not the least, I miss Ali Zafar (that guy in my sig😛). When I met him he was only a kid. Now hez a frickin' rockstar. I bet he doesnt even rmr me😛, HA! Hez the "Channo" guy who has now just released his new album masty😳. n' Atif Aslam's biggest competitor in PK😆 😆 😆 😆 😆

This is like the first time I got so emotionally attatched to a topic:-p. I hope i didn't write too much😉 😳 😳 😆 😆

-Ria

Edited by ~*Ria*~ - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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brilliant post Ammu dear👏👏

I miss everythinggggggggggggggggg

India ki mitti😳

I miss bachpan ke woh pal with friends, family, cousins, bro-sis😭😭😭 Here in USA, I live all alone with my mom-dad.. 😭

cousins' marriages

I miss all festivals.. Uttarayan, navratri, diwali, Rakhi.. festival programs in school

I miss my school & school friends-teachers😭

I used to go to buy milk (buffelo milk.. pure😆) at 6 pm everyday with my neghbours😆 when in the way, we see someone selling pani-puri, baraf ka gola, we were eating pani-puri.. baraf (ice) ka gola😆😛

in holidays, we were planning holiday tour with all neighbours😳 or I was going 2 my uncles-anties home to stay with them for few days😳

School tours😳

my nephews-nieces😭

channels.. We had all channels in India & in USA we have only 11 channels😭

tutions....

my bicycle😛

I was going 2 my village once a yr on last day of raas-dandiya😳

At evening, I was playing games with my neohbour friends😳 Kho-kho, kabbadi, jump rope, color color game😳

My all neighbours.. who r more like families😳

there r many more memories.. will edit my post😃

Yaad aa rahi ho India ki yaad aa rahi hai😭

Edited by Vandu4ever - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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oh from whr i start??? 😳 its diffucult to express...
whnu leave country u feel u become born again.... 😛
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Lot of things !!!

1.Culture
2.Speaking Tamil
3.Freedom
4.Happy Sleep & Satisfied Life

....

SACHIN
.....

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Great post... after i came back from Pune... I really want to go back again 😳 Everything is there...

All my relatives
1 Great friend i've had since i was 6
A lot of interesting memories
All the great food
All the great TV channels and movies
Radio Mirchi
Freedommmm... (because usually when i go there it's holiday time)
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Posted: 18 years ago
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goodd topicc...ammmu.. 👏

well guyzz i miss all myy bestt pals whichh i had spend in India. I miss my home town Surat...

* My school dayz..my friends group....the way v all enjoyed ...Khoob saari masti..dhamaal... 😆 😆

* my tution classes....on the way of T.classes...eatingg panipuris..dahin puri....Jalaram ka khaman Dhokla...Lochaa...Aloo-puri's...Garam Garam Samosa's....

* Tutions par Bunk maarna...aur chuppk s...cinemaa mein jaanaa....vahaan bhi khoob saari dhamaal karnaa....

* Eid par sab k yahaan miln jaana..(though v do it here also)..but vahaan ki baat kuchh or hi hai...

* Diwali friendss k gharon par jaanaa....oonk yahaan khoob saari sweets khaana....

* Schooll mein classes ke dauraan....gaan gaana..;professeurss ko thoda-bahot tang karnaa.. 😛 😛 😛

* After coming from the school in afternoon..time going to vegetablemarket(bazaar)...

* In the evening...milk-maid s doodh lnaa...
fir raat mein 11h30 tak saari serials dekhnaa 😆 😆 😆

* Phir subah 6 o'clock oothnaa aur school jaanaa....phir 7'o clock school jaana...than finishing at 12h30...

* Than during 15th August and 26th January...subah school jaana...natinal anthem..gaa..patriotic songss gaana...lotss of activities karnaa..😳

* ohh i miss those dayzz school mein sabhi ko ek jaisaa uniformm phnaa...poor groundd par saar school k bachchon kaa milna fir ikaththaa..;sports avtivities karna....vahaan bhi khoob saari sharaartein karnaa....😛😛

* hmmmmm......so manyy thinggss i m missingg... filhaal itnaa hi likhnaa chaahungii..😳😳

* Phir auto-rickshawmein jab mann kare tab Surat Shopping karn jaana...... 😆😆😆

I Miss y Surat(Rander)... 😕

I MIss my India....

I love My India...

" Saare Jahaan S achchaa Hindustaan Hamaara...."

Once again thnkss a lott ammu 4 this wonderfull topicc...phirr saari yaadein taazaa ho gaii..;evenn i miss thesee all thingss evry second...harr ek pall...!!

This is 4 u dear... 🤗




Edited by fara4u - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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i miss everything...... 😳 😳

the paan spit 😆 😆
the bus drivers half shalwar up 😳 😳
the rickshaws 😳 😃
the yellow colored taxi's 😆
the poeple doing PEE in the empty plot 😆 😆 😉
the dirty wallss.....

actuallly i would say everythingggggggg 😊 i misss PAKISTAN alott bcz of some reasons like this...and otherss


Saraa
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: rajeev_eijaz

i miss everything...... 😳 😳

the paan spit 😆 😆
the bus drivers half shalwar up 😳 😳
the rickshaws 😳 😃
the yellow colored taxi's 😆
the poeple doing PEE in the empty plot 😆 😆 😉
the dirty wallss.....

actuallly i would say everythingggggggg 😊 i misss PAKISTAN alott bcz of some reasons like this...and otherss

Saraa

Awwwwwwwww! 🤗🤗

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Posted: 18 years ago
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awww.....i knw....give me a HUG🤗

Saraa

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