helpp....

heyy all,
okay so i have a problem... there was this guy that i used to like and well he likes my friend, and she knew that i liked him and she likes him too now. so they're always hanging out and all. so my friend and i go to dinner all the time, and we see him there everyday and he'll come up to us and talk to my friend only and im like there standing like a third wheel, so it feels really weird standing there while them 2 are just chilling and talking, so should i tell her that i feel weird about it, and like maybe that she should like really tell him not to come up to us cause like she knows how i feel about him and all... i dont want to be selfish about it, i mean i listen to her stories about him and her when she tells me them and all so what should i do?? ohh and this is all happening at the college i go to, so its like really easy for ppl to just hang out cause no parents and all, so like they hang out talking and stuff till like 4 in the morning and waht not.... so should i tell her about the whole dinner thing, cause like he doesnt say anything to me like not even hi... and she doesnt really say anything to me when hes there ... i dont know im confused.

candy princess
Just tell your friend that you feel uncomfortable when she and the guys talk and if she is really your friend then she will understand. And I know how it feels when you like a guy and your friend also likes him it's very odd being around them .
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yeah i tried telling my friend but it didnt work cause i felt so bad, and then she asked me to help him out with calculus, and i spent 4 hours helping him, and it was so weird, like she was there too but she never took that class so she doesnt know it, so it was like me and him trying to get his work done, and like they were all holding hands and what not, it was weird... i dont know im so naive or so all my friends tell me, so im trying to change that... lets hope it works.

i would try and talk to both of them it is kinda lik kasam se lik pia bani and the guy is jai so i would try findin some other guy u can try to hang wit

yeah i do get the whole bani jai thing ughh... but yeah at the college i go to there is no indian person here, besides like 5 it sucks, and like theres this one guy trying to hang out with me but he goes to another college so i cant go see him all the time, but then again hes not indian. haha so that should be intresting...

so wut if he isnt india ppl can fall in luv wit english ppl or african or chiness and others lik krishna

well it also depends on ur age if u're like in high skool dont worry abt it rite now...love will come...and i have been in this situation which leaded to my BFF and a guys i liked going out...my friend knew that i was tottaly head over heals for that guy but once they started going out not only did i feel jealous but i also found out what a jerk he was...so maybe ur guy is also a jerk because he's tottaly cold-shouldering u!...i beleive that a guy that doesnt care abt u...or doesnt make u feel like ur wanted there...shouldnt be a guy worth liking..trust me i know

im not in highschool. rite now im in college. and well this guy that does like me hes not indian, and i dont care that hes not indian, hes jewish, and hes white, and really nice and great and all, but he goes to another college and i go to another college so its hard. and i've known him since highschool, he took me to my prom and all it was great. but this indian kid is a jerk as to what all my friends tell me, they're like i dont even know y u helped him out for such a long time they were like u should've said that u were busy or something. i know i should've said that but oh well next time he askes me ill tell im i got my own work to do...

If u r not comfortable then try talkin 2 both of dem... if ur frnd finds it funny den i think u shud juz tell her dat coz u feel so left out she shud juz let u knw b4 hand if he'll be joining her so u cn spend time wiv ur frnd some otha time.....& if u r still in college... il say juz relax & dnt get in2 heartbreaks & stuff.... juz try 2 b frnds wiv all the guys u think r nice & genuine & den mayb u cud find wat u r actually lukin 4...all the best hun!! Dnt freak out, juz b cool abt it!