Pyaar ya gussa..... - Page 3

Originally posted by: missFiesty_69

In simple words, he needs a psychiatrist not a lover or wife.

Yes, Pallavi is suffering mentally, emotionally, and even physically because of what? For loving Raghav?

He just uses her as a punching bag, acting insensitive man while she's close, then when she snaps, he'll start his emotional blackmail, toxic man to be around. I am not saying that he does it knowingly but again he can’t look past his own guilt and fears to be considerate of other’s pain , their needs and emotions. He’s quite selfish.

His mother should take him to a psychiatrist rather than blaming Esha or schooling Pallavi. For a change, assert your authority over your own child, ma’am.

Originally posted by: Couch.Potato

Yes, Pallavi is suffering mentally, emotionally, and even physically because of what? For loving Raghav?

He just uses her as a punching bag, acting insensitive moron while she's close, then when she snaps, he'll start his emotional blackmail, toxic man to be around. I am not saying that he does it knowingly but again he can’t look past his own guilt and fears to be considerate of other’s pain , their needs and emotions. He’s quite selfish.

His mother should take him to a psychiatrist rather than blaming Esha or schooling Pallavi. For a change, assert your authority over your own child, ma’am.

It’s not Always about doing right or wrong and many women compromise in their marital life at some point of their life bcoz they want to .

I don’t know whether RR actually had an ONs or not with his ex bcoz technically it’s not possible for a sloshed man like him to actually start and finish the deed but still he’ll

Stay a cheat irrespective of that outcome when the truth comes out . He did forget about his marital status and his wife while giving into the demands of his ex and didn’t resist her advances and that’s more than enough for an wife to feel cheated by their spouse . Also after that fiasco his concerns and eagerness to care for his ex with whom he mistakenly had an ONs was shocking . Now that same mistake of his made him so guilty that he even misbehaved with his own wife and ignored her insecurities and that’s inhuman . But none of these could be taken away from him anymore hence the woman in me wants Pals to leave him for good but at the end of the day it’s Pals decision to choose the best for her life .

I do not see wrong Raghav going behind pallavi to ask for forgiveness or want to being back smile on her face. The reason being he loves her, the writers spoiled Raghav’s char beyond repair, but in the current track after the truth came out I do nor see Antything wrong trying to explain her and bring her back.

For viewers sanity and also for Raghav char graph one thing the-makers did right was not showing Raghav consummating marriage with pallavi after the land.

the two things they have messed up is Raghav getting drunk with one bottle of whisky and do not know what he did that night until and unless it is an old drink and also dragging that long for Raghav to confess his mistake.

Originally posted by: Trina2021

Agree with you by all means . Yes he should’ve been taken to a psychiatrist but his mom acted selfishly and tied him up with Pallavi who she knew has no one to look for her hence by her own admission Pallavi is going to get a home and Raghav ka life sudhar jayega . Keerti even called her own mom selfish for this decision of hers and she didn’t objet also . Now Pallavi did the rest . She fell in love with this man and when he asked her to leave she decided to stay back . I disagree here, she did not fall in love with him at this point…it’s just that she got sympathetic towards him when she got know his past and how it affected him and made him what he was, he kept asking her to stay back with him and give him a chance to change himself as well as to redeem himself for the wrong he did to her…and Pallavi being a giving person and an emotional fool, all this was enough for her to give him a chance which he royally ruined many times now… From that point it was Pallavi who tried to reason With , changed her ways , compromised on her morals to hold onto him bcuz she loved this man like anything and today she got the punishment for all those chances she kept on giving Rao with the hope of being happy with him one day . According to Shivis post Pals didn’t get over him but she had to move on bcoz she just wants to be happy .but she’s going to go back for him without even a second thought of needed . So yes Pallavi is going to come back to save This same man who betrayed her the worst way possible . No matter what we say or feel women do take such decisions for their loved ones at times and yes it’ll be nothing unrealistic if Pals want to give him another chance and wants to go back to him forgetting his betrayal . Many of us in life took such decisions in our life sooner or later and would continue to do so . So yeah as much as I don’t want her to go back to the man who forgot about his marital boundaries and his wife as soon as he saw his ex gf I would understand her reasons to want to go back to him

Pallavi can do whatever she wants to but does it have to be right..should I agree??? NOOOOO….Just like I call Raghav a cheat same way if Pallavi chooses to go back to him with a mere sorry or due to his emotional blackmailing and without a proper redemption…I WILL CALL HER A FOOL AND A WEAK PERSON. She is irrevocably in love with him doesn’t mean she has to compromise herself and give in to his emotional demands because he seeks it and not because he deserves it…that makes her Weak Person not a Strong Person…

If she gives him another chance without a proper redemption…all I will say to her is ‘Darling, next time he slips in the relationship, you have no moral or ethical right to question him because you have given him the license to do that and much more on a platter and Don’t even ask BAPPA WHY ME?? Because BAPPA helps those who help themselves’ so better tie a patti on your eyes and become an Gandhari for your own sanity…

It’s not Always about doing right or wrong and many women compromise in their marital life at some point of their life bcoz they want to . This is the real issue here…just because many women compromise with infidelity doesn’t make it right…why do they give up their self respect and live such a compromised life?? well the reasons are many, for financial social emotional and physical stability…anything which makes a human put up with a wrong makes them weak…

I empathize with them but will still call them weak..because it’s they who have to first show the WILL to fight for the wrong that happened with them and it’s the responsibility of a civilized society to help them to become strong.. liberate the woman from a compromised and sad relationship is something I would choose to do any day than asking her to live with it coz she is hopelessly in love with the wrong man or that’s the common practice…there is nothing that a person can not live without in this world except their own will!!! Nature provides many opportunities to everyone to live a decent and dignified life…

I don’t know whether RR actually had an ONs or not with his ex bcoz technically it’s not possible for a sloshed man like him to actually start and finish the deed but still he’ll

Stay a cheat irrespective of that outcome when the truth comes out . He did forget about his marital status and his wife while giving into the demands of his ex and didn’t resist her advances and that’s more than enough for an wife to feel cheated by their spouse . Also after that fiasco his concerns and eagerness to care for his ex with whom he mistakenly had an ONs was shocking . Now that same mistake of his made him so guilty that he even misbehaved with his own wife and ignored her insecurities and that’s inhuman . But none of these could be taken away from him anymore hence the woman in me wants Pals to leave him for good but at the end of the day it’s Pals decision to choose the best for her life .
The fact that he did this after she nearly died for him makes him the most shallow person that he could ever be…if her near death could not stop him from cheating her nothing can stop him in future…if her undying love & loyalty could not stop him from falling for another woman nothing can stop him in future..so I would never give a second chance to him, that too out of sympathy and his self destructive behaviors..

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Originally posted by: Couch.Potato

Yes, Pallavi is suffering mentally, emotionally, and even physically because of what? For loving Raghav?

He just uses her as a punching bag, acting insensitive man while she's close, then when she snaps, he'll start his emotional blackmail, toxic man to be around. I am not saying that he does it knowingly but again he can’t look past his own guilt and fears to be considerate of other’s pain , their needs and emotions. He’s quite selfish.

His mother should take him to a psychiatrist rather than blaming Esha or schooling Pallavi. For a change, assert your authority over your own child, ma’am.

@Bold: Exactly…he takes her for granted when she is around and runs after her only when he fears loosing her…how can this be termed as love…when we love someone we prioritize them and give respect to their emotions and feelings right??? He prioritizes everyone and everything above her, his needs his wants his insecurities his pain his family Amma, Keerthi, his business and now his Ex Girl Friend too..

Where is SHE, what importance she hold in his life except for being there to satisfy his necessities…in reality such relationship gets overwhelming & overbearing and with time turns toxic..

Why will we want someone to live such a compromised life..

Originally posted by: joliefemme

How cute you are Sharada 🤗🤗🤗

Raghav ko suli pe taang dete hai chalo. He deserves that. Why to waste jail space tsk tsk tsk.

How dare he go behind his wife to clarify what exactly happened and ask for forgiveness. Murjim ko safai ka mauka nai milta aur maafi jaise kuch cheez nai hoti in Mhrw world.

Safai? Maafi? 😲

What is that??

Originally posted by: Anu1975

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I agree completely. They are going to go this way just because there are only 18 episodes left. There is no scope for anything else.

Originally posted by: Trina2021

I know you won’t but trust me people do it all the time due to various factors involved mostly if there are kids involved they do take such decisions but here thankfully Pals doesn’t have any kids that she could be persuaded to take such decision. I also have no clue how I’m just 3 weeks they’re going to show a redeemed RR whos love 🙄is going to make Pals comes back to him . I just tried to show a different perspective a more realistic one where I’ve seen many women everyday go through similar situations and still choose to stay back . Well I don’t support it either and as I said Pallavi and Raghav has no kids of their own for her to take such a deciosn but Shivangi’s message in the IG about Pallavi is what I was trying to explain here . Now Ragahv most likely will be shown as someone who resisted his ex even in his drunken state and the entire situation staged but that won’t take away his other actions but most likely just like Pals said during Mandar track that her being careless about her love was bcoz she feared losing Ragahv after M came the makers are going to give some lame excuses about Raghav being human and doing the right thing for a friend who’s life was ruined bcoz of him kind.
Either way there won’t be any proper redemption or justifications

I know these things happen, all I am saying is that it doesn’t make it right…if the makers want to be honest with the story telling and give out a good msg then they can simply show her walk away from the relationship rather than showing her giving in to his emotional blackmailing because that is such a regressive message to give out, at least for me…that inspite of being an independent and educated woman she still chose to go back to her cheater husband coz she is hopelessly in love with him..to love him forever or wishing well for him doesn’t mean she has to give up her individuality self respect and dignity…love should make one stronger not weak…

The extent to which Raghav went to protect Esha at Warangal and whatever he did later for her and the way he ditched his vulnerable and heartbroken wife alone at night and returned home without caring to know about her whereabouts and safety is enough to show where Esha and Pallavi stand in his life..

Actions speaks louder than words…Since the Warangal night Raghav's actions screams that he loves and cares for Esha whereas he only feels responsible and guilty for cheating Pallavi..all his words like I love you blah blah blah sounds superficial coz when words don’t get weighed with actions they are just empty and hollow..

Esha is still at RR mansion and he still expects Pallavi to come and spend Diwali with him…how insensitive this guy can get…did he once think how she would feel to see the woman he slept with and cheated her with in the same house as her….he is selfish to the core and has no regard or respect for her as person…

If they want to show she ended up with such a unworthy husband, it’s their choice…it’s their story they can tweak it the way they want too..as a viewer I will pan it the way I want too..

Originally posted by: Anu1975

I know these things happen, all I am saying is that it doesn’t make it right…if the makers want to be honest with the story telling and give out a good msg then they can simply show her walk away from the relationship rather than showing her giving in to his emotional blackmailing because that is such a regressive message to give out, at least for me…that inspite of being an independent and educated woman she still chose to go back to her cheater husband coz she is hopelessly in love with him..to love him forever or wishing well for him doesn’t mean she has to give up her individuality self respect and dignity…love should make one stronger not weak…

The extent to which Raghav went to protect Esha at Warangal and whatever he did later for her and the way he ditched his vulnerable and heartbroken wife alone at night and returned home without caring to know about her whereabouts and safety is enough to show where Esha and Pallavi stand in his life..

Actions speaks louder than words…Since the Warangal night Raghav's actions screams that he loves and cares for Esha whereas he only feels responsible and guilty for cheating Pallavi..all his words like I love you blah blah blah sounds superficial coz when words don’t get weighed with actions they are just empty and hollow..

Esha is still at RR mansion and he still expects Pallavi to come and spend Diwali with him…how insensitive this guy can get…did he once think how she would feel to see the woman he slept with and cheated her with in the same house as her….he is selfish to the core and has no regard or respect for her as person…

If they want to show she ended up with such a unworthy husband, it’s their choice…it’s their story they can tweak it the way they want too..as a viewer I will pan it the way I want too..