Originally posted by: Anu1975
Farheen, I disagree with you here…i understand you don’t want Raghav and Pallavi to separate because of the baby…you desperately want Raghav and Pallavi together…but my friend I want you let go Raghav and Pallavi for a second and try to empathize with Pallavi as not only as a woman, but as a human and more than that as a Victim…
There is nothing feminist about what I am saying…it’s out and out Humanity…to empathize with weak and stand up for them is what makes us Human..
The child is the result of the betrayal that Raghav and Esha served to Pallavi with their deceit and vicious actions….
They SINNED her and the child is the result of it..
Pallavi is the Victim and Raghav/Esha are the Offenders…
Simple justice would be to Hold the Offenders accountable, punish them and show sympathy and support to the Victim, that can help the Victim to lessen her pain, move on and over a period of time it might give the closure to them for their injustice and suffering, depending on how badly they are hurt…
On the contrary expecting understanding from the Victim towards their offender and expecting them to adjust with the wrong doing is Insensitive & Barbaric…it is worse than not giving them justice or holding the Offenders responsible…we are denying a human of basic rights of respect dignity honor and justice…
It’s like asking a rape victim to understand the psych of the rapiist..
It’s like asking the victims of terrorism to understand the reasoning of the terrorist..
It is like expecting the loved one of an accident victim to understand the plight of the driver…
Let us understand one thing Victim deserves nothing but justice sympathy and empathy…stop expecting understanding from the victim…we are breaching the boundaries of humanity…
The child is innocent but it might remind the woman about the betrayal for life, she will never be able to move on, she will be traumatized with it for ever causing great mental health issues and depression driving her even to death…some people may loose it completely…they may get emotionally damaged irrevocably…
No human deserves that….Blame the ITV and even Bollywood for encouraging such a Regressive, Insensitive & Misogynistic attitude for years…
In name of drama don’t trivialize and mock sensitive subjects…
Neither Pallavi has to understand Raghav’s Guilt Trips nor does she have to take care of his Child with Esha…Pallavi deserves the life she deems fit…she deserves the justice she seeks…