“Think before you speak,Think before you act!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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“Main bhi aati rahungi”

Yesterday’s episode, pallavi reassured mandar twice by saying “ mai bhi aati rahungi”

First time it was it was out of humanity and her goodness

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But later when mandar came to know that pallavi is his wife

Again she reassured him “ aur main bhi aati rahungi”while leaving!

Here mandar’s expressions changed and shocked jaise pallavi ne usko “sukoon diya ho”


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pallavi’s reassuring words will be mistaken by mandar,and his focus will be only on “main aati rahungi” ,he will keep finding ways to get closer to pallavi out of his obsession!

This made Mandar think that only Raghav is the one claiming Pallavi as his wife and not Pallavi claiming that Raghav is her husband and none can take that place.

The man who merely obsessed with “name pallavi, “now has obsessed with “pallavi’s face “too

This obsession will increase with time and closeness for which pallavi will be solely responsible!

Now mandars first step to fullfill his desire of getting pallavi close to him.

And here pallavi gets call from baba,regarding mandar and panics .she runs to deshmukh’s like a mad without waiting for raghav!

“Inspite being told by Raghav that he is going to get gift which he has brought for her”

She did not showed a little patience to wait ,think, communicate with raghav and then take action!

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Her action will give a world(sunny-kirti-sulochana-mansi) to throw stones at her and being called characterless women!

she said “raghav is her priority”

But her actions proves otherwise

Pallavi’s words are contradicting with her action

world will take the advantage of this flaw !

She need to watch her steps , think and then take the actions and also consider the consequences!

Because her words and actions will push her close to mandar but those actions will affect her relationship with raghav.raghav will be suffered which he don’t deserve!


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Anothe example of contradicting words and action after confession scene in todays episode.

When raghav said i love you and wanted the entire world to listen, she stopped him and tell him “

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Room mein hum ek dusare ko i love you bolenge, lekin duniya ke samne hum ek code language use karenge,and decides the sign of saying i love you”

When she comes downstairs and when raghav says i love you with that sign she hesitated to do the same action which was her filmy invention!

And finally she could not stand on her own words

And ended up with contradicting actions.
(This scene was sybolic one! If she want to save ,protect her relationship,if she want to give it back to the world,she have to prove it with action just for raghav and not for world.the way sunny kirti did today because action will speak louder than words.)

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Similarly, when mandar tried to show his rights on pallavi, raghav said


jab tak dna reports nahi aata tab tak tumhara isse koi rishta nahi hai”

Raghav too repeated his words twice to mandar

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Wo tera ex wife hai bhi ki nahi wo sab DNA test ke baad hi pata chalega tabtak apna ye haq kisi par bhi jamane ka koshish mat kar”

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Now coming to mandar, today he said

Main sirf DNA reports ane tak wait karunga,Ek baar report ane de uske baad dekhna Main apni biwi ko waise hi wapas launga jaise wo leke gaya tha”.

This words of raghav will make mandar soon to take action and he will get done his DNA test.

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Raghav was so confident that this mandar is an imposter and cannot be real mandar!

He did not think the other way…another possibility of him being “real mandar”.and aftermath !
So raghav and pallavi need to be careful with their words as well as actions because mandar’s actions will depends on their words but it will affect their relationship!it will affect raghvi

As mandar said he will bring pallavi back to deshmukh house exactly the way raghav took her” (uska haath pakadke deshmukh house layega ye aadmi🤣)

Here pallavi is expected to take a stand for herself and raghav! time for some action!

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Action speaks louder than words !

I promise,

Chahe koi kuch bhi kahe,chahe koi kuch bhi chahe

aaj ke baad humare beech koi tisra nahi ayega

Hamara rishta itna gehra hoga ki ,

hawa ko bhi gujarne ke liye permission leni hogi!!

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She reassured her hubby who was insecure and had fear of loosing her with these beautiful words!

But these words need action to be proved.

Words shouldn’t contradict the action

So whenever mandar will try to take her away from raghav (after DNA reports proved him to be mandar) raghvi needs to take action together!

This time Pallavi need to show him that she belongs to raghav, she has to accept wholeheartedly that she loves only raghav without any hesitation in front of mandar and only raghav has rights over her!

It should be raghvi vs mandar and not raghav(alone ) vs mandar while pallavi just standing there intervains when they start their fights!

She has to clear her stand in front of mandar !

Right action is needed at right time !

Pallavi need to understand,

“Sailing on two boats wont work”(deshmukh’s ship and not mandar’s because she has clearly chosen raghav over mandar)

She has already chosen raghav and now she has to let the world know of her choice for their sake and not for the world!

Edited by dhara88 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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she never holds on to her words ..

she is total idiot let her fall only to rise

raghu bi na pass gaya ..he shouldn't have married her he was a don then but dont know what is in store


pallu is her own enemy ...period

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Wow …you explained beautifully ❤️

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Absolutely because Action speaks louder than words...

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Posted: 4 years ago
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The biggest mistake Pallavi did was reassuring Mandar that she would keep coming to D house. This made Mandar think that only Raghav is the one claiming Pallavi as his wife and not Pallavi claiming that Raghav is her husband and none can take that place.

Pallavi should openly tell everyone about Raghav being the one and only for her rather than just keep saying this to Raghav only.

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: dhara88

“Main bhi aati rahungi”

Yesterday’s episode, pallavi reassured mandar twice by saying “ mai bhi aati rahungi”

First time it was it was out of humanity and her goodness

Image

But later when mandar came to know that pallavi is his wife

Again she reassured him “ aur main bhi aati rahungi”while leaving!

Here mandar’s expressions changed and shocked jaise pallavi ne usko “sukoon diya ho”


Image



pallavi’s reassuring words will be mistaken by mandar,and his focus will be only on “main aati rahungi” ,he will keep finding ways to get closer to pallavi out of his obsession!

The man who merely obsessed with “name pallavi, “now has obsessed with “pallavi’s face “too

This obsession will increase with time and closeness for which pallavi will be solely responsible!

Now mandars first step to fullfill his desire of getting pallavi close to him.

And here pallavi gets call from baba,regarding mandar and panics .she runs to deshmukh’s like a mad without waiting for raghav!

“Inspite being told by Raghav that he is going to get gift which he has brought for her”

She did not showed a little patience to wait ,think, communicate with raghav and then take action!

Image
Image

Her action will give a world(sunny-kirti-sulochana-mansi) to throw stones at her and being called characterless women!

she said “raghav is her priority”

But her actions proves otherwise

Pallavi’s words are contradicting with her action

world will take the advantage of this flaw !

She need to watch her steps , think and then take the actions and also consider the consequences!

Because her words and actions will push her close to mandar but those actions will affect her relationship with raghav.raghav will be suffered which he don’t deserve!


Image


Anothe example of contradicting words and action after confession scene in todays episode.

When raghav said i love you and wanted the entire world to listen, she stopped him and tell him “

ImageImage

Room mein hum ek dusare ko i love you bolenge, lekin duniya ke samne hum ek code language use karenge,and decides the sign of saying i love you”

When she comes downstairs and when raghav says i love you with that sign she hesitated to do the same action which was her filmy invention!

And finally she could not stand on her own words

And ended up with contradicting actions.
(This scene was sybolic one! If she want to save ,protect her relationship,if she want to give it back to the world,she have to prove it with action just for raghav and not for world.the way sunny kirti did today because action will speak louder than words.)

Image


Similarly, when mandar tried to show his rights on pallavi, raghav said


jab tak dna reports nahi aata tab tak tumhara isse koi rishta nahi hai”

Raghav too repeated his words twice to mandar

Image

Wo tera ex wife hai bhi ki nahi wo sab DNA test ke baad hi pata chalega tabtak apna ye haq kisi par bhi jamane ka koshish mat kar”

Image

Now coming to mandar, today he said

Main sirf DNA reports ane tak wait karunga,Ek baar report ane de uske baad dekhna Main apni biwi ko waise hi wapas launga jaise wo leke gaya tha”.

This words of raghav will make mandar soon to take action and he will get done his DNA test.

Image


Raghav was so confident that this mandar is an imposter and cannot be real mandar!

He did not think the other way…another possibility of him being “real mandar”.and aftermath !
So raghav and pallavi need to be careful with their words as well as actions because mandar’s actions will depends on their words but it will affect their relationship!it will affect raghvi

As mandar said he will bring pallavi back to deshmukh house exactly the way raghav took her” (uska haath pakadke deshmukh house layega ye aadmi🤣)

Here pallavi is expected to take a stand for herself and raghav! time for some action!

Agreed with everything you said Dhara Pallavi needs to stand on her own promises. She never stands on her own words , That day sanki buddha said , " Aadat hai tumhari thuk ke chat ne wali , apni bat pe khara nahi reh sakti tum" . It may sound hurtful but Pallavi's actions are making VD's judgement about her true. She needs to be strong and stand by her words and also regarding the DNA test I do not trust Dr. Ramya at all . She may do some locha with the report I believe.

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Originally posted by: SDutta

The biggest mistake Pallavi did was reassuring Mandar that she would keep coming to D house. This made Mandar think that only Raghav is the one claiming Pallavi as his wife and not Pallavi claiming that Raghav is her husband and none can take that place.

Pallavi should openly tell everyone about Raghav being the one and only for her rather than just keep saying this to Raghav only.

bold absolutely 👏

I have copy pasted this point to the thread in blue!! I forgot to mention this 😂thank u so much for the inputs❤️

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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: meghumonu

Agreed with everything you said Dhara Pallavi needs to stand on her own promises. She never stands on her own words , That day sanki buddha said , " Aadat hai tumhari thuk ke chat ne wali , apni bat pe khara nahi reh sakti tum" . It may sound hurtful but Pallavi's actions are making VD's judgement about her true. She needs to be strong and stand by her words and also regarding the DNA test I do not trust Dr. Ramya at all . She may do some locha with the report I believe.

absolutely agree!👍🏼

While writing this thread that point was on my mind but i avoid to put it here! Because i wanted to avoid the argument!

Your values and principles moral codes ahould not temporary!

Edited by dhara88 - 4 years ago
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Posted: 4 years ago
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Originally posted by: dhara88

absolutely agree!👍🏼

While writing this thread that point was on my mind but i avoid to put it here! Because i wanted to avoid the argument!

Pallavi needs to make a strong stand for herself or she will lose everything!! Hurts to see how a inherently good person loses everything due to shameless people taking advantage of their good nature!! It is so common in real life too!! Happened with my own father!!

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