The art of hand holding - Page 2

Originally posted by: LoveHopeMagic

I don't know why but Im not liking the way he saying the name "Pallavi" . I don't know if it's the actor's accent or what, I'm just so put off by his tone while saying her name.

And I agree with the hand holding. Have R ever held her hand like that in the first days when they met, I don't think so. He was always so respectful towards her. Always stayed in his limits.

And I absolutely adored the way Pallavi held Raghav's hand while leaving the house. She was so afraid, so afraid of loosing Raghav and it was clear from her face.

You can Sanki getting reflected in him .

Absolutely. They really look like father and son.

IKR😆....everytime he says Pallavi ....I get the psyco serial killer vibes from him😆

Raghav got the confidence to hold her hand while walking out bcz Pallavi has given him dt confidence by holding his hands so many times now. So its different for him. Initial days mein whenever he has done anything remotely like this was when he actually intended to scare her . Still nothing like this Mandar🤔

@ bold : This was beautiful. She was clinging on to his arm 😳

Originally posted by: ReemShah

very beautifully written Daffodils...what is your name?

The way Pallavi used both her hands to hold onto Raghav showed that Raghav is her safe haven while Raghav held Pallavi's hand becuase he knew the members of D-house will guilt trip her into accepting to stay in D-house

You can call me Rima😊

I was glad he got her out of tht house before these people guilt tripped her . Somewhere they both realise their marriage is going to pass through a storm and they dont want to lose each other in dt.

Originally posted by: masin

Very well said!

Raghav has always searched for her consent in this marriage and even more after he found her to be not-guilty with respect to Keerti's video footage fiasco. Before that, albeit a forced marriage, he didn't kidnap her and bring her to the altar. He coerced her into consenting. I'm not saying that's suddenly justified, but I am saying that he hasn't made any moves on her or with her without her consent and that speaks volumes about his character.

If we look back to when their hand-holding truly begun, it was initiated by Pallavi when she first showed her faith in her husband in front of Amma and D-fam. Raghav only took the lead with getting her to marry him to please his mother, but beyond that, he Pallavi have her way with this relationship as she pleases. Again, not justifying his grey behaviour, just saying that his moral compass at its core is far better than it seems to the naked eye.

Totally agree wid you.

Raghav has never claimed to be a prince in shining armour. He has his faults and he accepts them. He is proud , egoistic at times , stubborn and hot headed. Even now , after so many changes he still ssys things in anger . But thats him . But inspite of all his flaws his moral compass has always been in its ryt place while dealing wid Pallavi. Her consent has been important for him.

And like you said Pallavi has steered the realtionship after the marriage. She was the one who showed her " hak" on him when she stopped him from bowing down and dragged him out of D house.

Originally posted by: fria319

Yah I agree. Made a similar comment in a different thread but it’s really indicative of who Mandar is now. Who gave him the right to grab her like that? Definitely not Pallavi.

Raghav’s hand hold was out of protection too I think. He was trying to get her out of that home and away from Mandar.

I wish Pallavi asked Mandar to let her hand go. She’s definitely a bit too mute about everything for my liking but I also know she’s being ultra sensitive to Mandar mental state. Like when the doctor said to sit next to Mandar ?? She could’ve said no it’s ok, I’ll be in the same car so it will be ok. She could ask to let her hand go & say I’m going home with my husband. Not bashing - I understand her motives behind why she doesn’t want to say any of that - plus it gives us the jealousy/annoyed scenes of Raghav. I hope eventually she does say something though before Raghav totally loses his patience.

True. I don't like that she's too helpless. Pallavi is caring but she's headstrong. She can go against her own family to support Raghav means she is capable of taking reasonable and right stands. So I don't see why she's extra mute and lost. But I also know that her chuppi is only for her outburst and showdown eventually. Like enough is enough, rr is my husband, I'm pallavi rr, and those dialogues. And trust me she's going to slap mandar in the coming episodes😆i can see that happening

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

And like you said Pallavi has steered the realtionship after the marriage. She was the one who showed her " hak" on him when she stopped him from bowing down and dragged him out of D house.

Exactly! In fact, he never held her hostage at home either. He just wanted her as his wife to have his mom and sister back home, but beyond that, Pallavi could go out as she pleases, work or not work as she pleases, eat or not eat at her whim and fancy. She could meet whoever she wanted to meet. She could even annoy the heck out of him! He didn't bind her in any way.

Originally posted by: masin

Exactly! In fact, he never held her hostage at home either. He just wanted her as his wife to have his mom and sister back home, but beyond that, Pallavi could go out as she pleases, work or not work as she pleases, eat or not eat at her whim and fancy. She could meet whoever she wanted to meet. She could even annoy the heck out of him! He didn't bind her in any way.

Annoy the heck out of him😆

Even be talli and jump on him😆

Jokes apart , its true. He hasnt ever forced his authority on her being a husband. Never told what she could or couldnt do.

This is the thread I was talking about. She have penned down the scene at D house perfectly.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

You can call me Rima😊

I was glad he got her out of tht house before these people guilt tripped her . Somewhere they both realise their marriage is going to pass through a storm and they dont want to lose each other in dt.

Hey Rima...it's Reem here

And the whole @bold thought was shown quite well in the scene of RR Mansion before Amma arrives--how they claim to be each other's husband and wife--put pictures of their wedding all over the room--that scene was so well executed and the desperation in both of their actions literally sent chills down my spine

Keen observation indeed

Raghu hand holding was of fear of losing her and he had that authority as hubby same as pallu used to hold him there was protecting her feel

Mandaar hand holding was more of ownership he seem like bossy types

It was one way traffic she had nothing on that side mandaar was just not letting her go

Raghu was never pushy he always gave a breathing space

Only when she confessed halfway he once pulled her towards him other than that never ever has he crossed his limits

But mandaar crossed his limits at first go

Sanki ka gun hoga shayad the way sanki threw her out of the house shows if baap is like so is son

Originally posted by: rs-shailu29

Keen observation indeed

Raghu hand holding was of fear of losing her and he had that authority as hubby same as pallu used to hold him there was protecting her feel

Mandaar hand holding was more of ownership he seem like bossy types

It was one way traffic she had nothing on that side mandaar was just not letting her go

Raghu was never pushy he always gave a breathing space

Only when she confessed halfway he once pulled her towards him other than that never ever has he crossed his limits

But mandaar crossed his limits at first go

Sanki ka gun hoga shayad the way sanki threw her out of the house shows if baap is like so is son

Yes Mandaar does seem the type. He is forcibly stopping a girl he has barely known for half a day , just bcz someone told him she was his wife. Dude you hvnt been der for 2 whole yrs. And beside even if she was still married to him , what gives him the ryt to forcefully stop her ? He can ask her questions if he wants answrs , request her to stay back if he is confused . But it doesnt warranty him anything other than dt. In any marriage you need to create a comfort zone before you her establish any sort of authority.

When Raghav pulled Pallavi....its bcz they have established dt comfort level wid each other. Neither of them mind the closeness. A totally different thing. And inspite of all dt , he just held her hand in his , didnt forcefully pull her out of the house. He asked her lets leave now before holding her hand.