Was dt a failed kiss ?? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Viewpoint

Raghav is definitely there. The reason he's been hesitant in the past regarding touching her etc is because he doesn't want to cross some boundaries i.e. not step over her honor. I think he is trying to gaug her reaction, hence the dress and the futile attempt to kiss her.

I think Pallavi is there too. They can actually initiate without awkwardness. At least in real life it would have initiated a long time ago 😆

You know, I am so tired of these theories. People are SO IMPATIENT. Watching one episode under a microscope, which is only 20minutes long, shot and executed in a few days is a waste of time for me personally. You only critique to that extent when there's enough planning and time for execution, not on daily TV. We all know the evils of ITV. I'm not saying that everything gets a free pass but really, we have to let it be because (1) Our say really doesn't matter (2) Pressure of TRP's can really tamper with the original plots (3) Imagine how much work these guys have to put in to promote their show - create suspense, post BTS....It's too much and frankly, unnecessary. Creativity will always be compromised. I'd rather watch my fav Raghav without stressing about the future, because it's not even real as much as I love him. So many fans are going berserk. RR will be fine, memory loss or not. They will be together, eventually. Chill out.

This is why I don't frequent here as much as I used to. Too much drama. Rant over 😆

At what point do you think he got there? Was it at the train station or when she told him she'd never leave him? His feelings have never been shown explicitly like Pallavi's have, but they were always under the surface...

I think he was definitely there. He acts all coy because he’s worried about coming on too strong for her. Remember how his mom reminded him of “what does Pallavi want?”… I think that whole convo stuck with him and he’s trying not to influence her and wants her to show/lead him.

Their conversation about closing the door to the past was enough of an indication to him that she was ready to move on. He didn’t waste much time after that 🤣.

I definitely think he was hoping for a kiss - to get started on the physical part of their relationship - but prob not all the way to home base lol. I feel like he’d start slow with her bc she’s so inexperienced in comparison.

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

I am bored and kind of irritated nd obviously a bit disturbed wid the speculations for the future track of the show. Wanted to divert my mind . So here I am.

When Raghav was inching in close to Pallavi....what it looked like was he was trying to kiss her 😳

Or was he just trying to smell her as usual😆. New ways of smelling her. I honestly love dt they hv literally tranformed the line " I love the way you smell" into actions.

Anyways I am okay wid either of that. But I just wanted to know if you guys think they are at dt point in their relationship where a passionate kiss can be initiated without any awkwardness or hesitation.

Pallavi has always been free and frank while taking care of Raghav. She has never let her awkwardness come in between dt. She even didnt mind when he hugged her like a pillow. But still I personally feel she is der....but not completely der yet.

As for Raghav.....he hasnt been all comfortable touching Pallavi yet. Probably bcz he didnt want to cross the lines that he thought Pallavi had put between them. Dts why when he woke up holding on to her .....he was the more awkward person . He couldnt even meet her eyes .....he waited to see hoe she would react. Maybe after yesterdays episode , they hv moved forward unspokenly.....or maybe he just went wid the flow😆

What do you all think ? Are they there yet ??

Do comment and say.

Yes I think he knows he loves her and wants to get intimate with her...which is why he answered her question on pyar hogaya kya with a smile and givinv her the gift...the nature of the gift itself was very intimate and so was his thought behind it. He is definitely there and if everything went well without this stupid accident he might as well would tell her his feelings that evening.

Raghav has always shown his dependency on Pallu by saying dont go and mujhe tumhari jarurat hai and his angst each time he feared separation. From what I understand...her feelings have been very important to him post his guilt conscious over how the wedding happened. He has been waiting patiently, even asking her to think through before Pallavi fasted for vat savitri . He wants her to be sure at every step...once vat savitri was done this mandar issue started. So yesterday finally after the whole mess is sorted in thier minds...and Pallavi out of her own will promises to a future with him, now he knows she wants to be in this relationship with him longterm without baggage.Also she helped him heal his back even when Sunny was not yet jailed. He has been observing each of these steps from her .For people thinking Pallavi as bold and Raghav as timid coming to physical touches...reality is Pallavi has been her trusting and affectionate self with him ever after the mirchi incident. But Raghav has to wait because of the fact that he forced this marraige on her...he had not asked her or given a choice. Because of that, and because of the vile things he had said to dishonour her earlier like raat bitayi meresaath etc, he has to be the entity that waits patiently to gain Pallavi's trust and respect before showing physical affection. Still he hugged her to calm her, held hands to sleep, slept on her tummy, caressed her hair...all this was him trying to be in limits. Especially sleeping on her tummy was so special because twice before in his pain and anguish she had held him in her lap...and now in his sleep he subconsciously looked for that solace.

The last thing he wanted for Pallavi to think that he was being dishonorable or cheap with her. He was the one who assured her that sleeping in same room he would still respect her ..and he was keeping that up.

So now after her moving on statement finally he knows it time to take the next step..without looking cheap to her. The attempted kiss was not out of thought or planning it was pure attraction at that point.

Our girl on the other hand ...didnt expect all this though she has feelings so I felt Pallavi was not there upto that point yesterday...she was still a little awkward ...until he asked for consent to do the zip ..I think he earned brownie points there...and when she said yes there was that peace in her like she let go of the awkwardness.

Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm

Yes I think he knows he loves her and wants to get intimate with her...which is why he answered her question on pyar hogaya kya with a smile and givinv her the gift...the nature of the gift itself was very intimate and so was his thought behind it. He is definitely there and if everything went well without this stupid accident he might as well would tell her his feelings that evening.

Raghav has always shown his dependency on Pallu by saying dont go and mujhe tumhari jarurat hai and his angst each time he feared separation. From what I understand...her feelings have been very important to him post his guilt conscious over how the wedding happened. He has been waiting patiently, even asking her to think through before Pallavi fasted for vat savitri . He wants her to be sure at every step...once vat savitri was done this mandar issue started. So yesterday finally after the whole mess is sorted in thier minds...and Pallavi out of her own will promises to a future with him, now he knows she wants to be in this relationship with him longterm without baggage.Also she helped him heal his back even when Sunny was not yet jailed. He has been observing each of these steps from her .For people thinking Pallavi as bold and Raghav as timid coming to physical touches...reality is Pallavi has been her trusting and affectionate self with him ever after the mirchi incident. But Raghav has to wait because of the fact that he forced this marraige on her...he had not asked her or given a choice. Because of that, and because of the vile things he had said to dishonour her earlier like raat bitayi meresaath etc, he has to be the entity that waits patiently to gain Pallavi's trust and respect before showing physical affection. Still he hugged her to calm her, held hands to sleep, slept on her tummy, caressed her hair...all this was him trying to be in limits. Especially sleeping on her tummy was so special because twice before in his pain and anguish she had held him in her lap...and now in his sleep he subconsciously looked for that solace.

The last thing he wanted for Pallavi to think that he was being dishonorable or cheap with her. He was the one who assured her that sleeping in same room he would still respect her ..and he was keeping that up.

So now after her moving on statement finally he knows it time to take the next step..without looking cheap to her. The attempted kiss was not out of thought or planning it was pure attraction at that point.

Our girl on the other hand ...didnt expect all this though she has feelings so I felt Pallavi was not there upto that point yesterday...she was still a little awkward ...until he asked for consent to do the zip ..I think he earned brownie points there...and when she said yes there was that peace in her like she let go of the awkwardness.

👏 That's everything I was trying to get at - but better articulated LOL.

I really think he has always been attracted to her - even before marriage, back when they were really at each others throats, etc. - so he's been showing a lot of restraint for a long time now. We don't get much insight into Raghav's mind - but it's evident whether he even knows its real love or not, that its headed that way. I think at the very least he knows that he is into her and wants all of her - her body, her mind, her companionship, etc. I just think he's too chicken (insecure) to admit that its love to himself, and her, without knowing what she feels first.

He's already told Pallavi that he doesn't always say things, rather he shows things. I think that's how we have to analyze his scenes as well. You can't want to spend the rest of your life with a person and maintain your marriage if you have no intention of crossing into a real physical, intimate, and emotional relationship with that person. So I think he's just been waiting for the right moment and for Pallavi to get there too.

Originally posted by: fria319

👏 That's everything I was trying to get at - but better articulated LOL.

I really think he has always been attracted to her - even before marriage, back when they were really at each others throats, etc. - so he's been showing a lot of restraint for a long time now. We don't get much insight into Raghav's mind - but it's evident whether he even knows its real love or not, that its headed that way. I think at the very least he knows that he is into her and wants all of her - her body, her mind, her companionship, etc. I just think he's too chicken (insecure) to admit that its love to himself, and her, without knowing what she feels first.

He's already told Pallavi that he doesn't always say things, rather he shows things. I think that's how we have to analyze his scenes as well. You can't want to spend the rest of your life with a person and maintain your marriage if you have no intention of crossing into a real physical, intimate, and emotional relationship with that person. So I think he's just been waiting for the right moment and for Pallavi to get there too.

True that..but he also better start talking out his feelings...he cannot expect her to understand actions always...a women and wife needs to hear the words...he needs to change a bit for that. Communication is key...hope upcoming track maes him more verbal .

Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm

True that..but he also better start talking out his feelings...he cannot expect her to understand actions always...a women and wife needs to hear the words...he needs to change a bit for that. Communication is key...hope upcoming track maes him more verbal .

Yea - I think he will be at least enough to tell her he's in love with her. I don't think he'll ever be the guy who's constantly verbalizing his love for his wife, and I don't think Pallavi is someone who needs that. D fam spoke a lot about their love for her, but it never materialized into action when she actually needed them. Raghav, while not verbalizing a lot, has proven time and time again that he can be there for her. I think he'll go by her cues of what she needs from him - that's what he's been doing so far anyway.

Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm

Yes I think he knows he loves her and wants to get intimate with her...which is why he answered her question on pyar hogaya kya with a smile and givinv her the gift...the nature of the gift itself was very intimate and so was his thought behind it. He is definitely there and if everything went well without this stupid accident he might as well would tell her his feelings that evening.

Raghav has always shown his dependency on Pallu by saying dont go and mujhe tumhari jarurat hai and his angst each time he feared separation. From what I understand...her feelings have been very important to him post his guilt conscious over how the wedding happened. He has been waiting patiently, even asking her to think through before Pallavi fasted for vat savitri . He wants her to be sure at every step...once vat savitri was done this mandar issue started. So yesterday finally after the whole mess is sorted in thier minds...and Pallavi out of her own will promises to a future with him, now he knows she wants to be in this relationship with him longterm without baggage.Also she helped him heal his back even when Sunny was not yet jailed. He has been observing each of these steps from her .For people thinking Pallavi as bold and Raghav as timid coming to physical touches...reality is Pallavi has been her trusting and affectionate self with him ever after the mirchi incident. But Raghav has to wait because of the fact that he forced this marraige on her...he had not asked her or given a choice. Because of that, and because of the vile things he had said to dishonour her earlier like raat bitayi meresaath etc, he has to be the entity that waits patiently to gain Pallavi's trust and respect before showing physical affection. Still he hugged her to calm her, held hands to sleep, slept on her tummy, caressed her hair...all this was him trying to be in limits. Especially sleeping on her tummy was so special because twice before in his pain and anguish she had held him in her lap...and now in his sleep he subconsciously looked for that solace.

The last thing he wanted for Pallavi to think that he was being dishonorable or cheap with her. He was the one who assured her that sleeping in same room he would still respect her ..and he was keeping that up.

So now after her moving on statement finally he knows it time to take the next step..without looking cheap to her. The attempted kiss was not out of thought or planning it was pure attraction at that point.

Our girl on the other hand ...didnt expect all this though she has feelings so I felt Pallavi was not there upto that point yesterday...she was still a little awkward ...until he asked for consent to do the zip ..I think he earned brownie points there...and when she said yes there was that peace in her like she let go of the awkwardness.

Totally agree with all this. I just want to add that even before things got ugly between them during Keerti's scandal, he used to respect her personal space and never really used to touch her. Subconsciously, he's always look at her differently than he did other women. Also, she was never interested in his name, fame, power, or wealth and she never threw herself at him the way he was used to see the gold diggers do.

She comes from 'good stock' in terms of morals, if you know what I mean. He may have become a gangster and playboy but he was also raised in a decent family with a humble background. The core of him never really changed.

Originally posted by: fria319

I think he was definitely there. He acts all coy because he’s worried about coming on too strong for her. Remember how his mom reminded him of “what does Pallavi want?”… I think that whole convo stuck with him and he’s trying not to influence her and wants her to show/lead him.

Their conversation about closing the door to the past was enough of an indication to him that she was ready to move on. He didn’t waste much time after that 🤣.

I definitely think he was hoping for a kiss - to get started on the physical part of their relationship - but prob not all the way to home base lol. I feel like he’d start slow with her bc she’s so inexperienced in comparison.

Good points.

Dont know if I should counteract your points or not😆

See I agree wid most points . Just dt I would hv preferred them showing some realisation on Raghav's part. I like dt part of a story the most. Realisation has a different charm to it. So I wantd dt i guess.

Yes he will obviously take it slow for Pallavi😆

Originally posted by: RainbowUnicorm

Yes I think he knows he loves her and wants to get intimate with her...which is why he answered her question on pyar hogaya kya with a smile and givinv her the gift...the nature of the gift itself was very intimate and so was his thought behind it. He is definitely there and if everything went well without this stupid accident he might as well would tell her his feelings that evening.

Raghav has always shown his dependency on Pallu by saying dont go and mujhe tumhari jarurat hai and his angst each time he feared separation. From what I understand...her feelings have been very important to him post his guilt conscious over how the wedding happened. He has been waiting patiently, even asking her to think through before Pallavi fasted for vat savitri . He wants her to be sure at every step...once vat savitri was done this mandar issue started. So yesterday finally after the whole mess is sorted in thier minds...and Pallavi out of her own will promises to a future with him, now he knows she wants to be in this relationship with him longterm without baggage.Also she helped him heal his back even when Sunny was not yet jailed. He has been observing each of these steps from her .For people thinking Pallavi as bold and Raghav as timid coming to physical touches...reality is Pallavi has been her trusting and affectionate self with him ever after the mirchi incident. But Raghav has to wait because of the fact that he forced this marraige on her...he had not asked her or given a choice. Because of that, and because of the vile things he had said to dishonour her earlier like raat bitayi meresaath etc, he has to be the entity that waits patiently to gain Pallavi's trust and respect before showing physical affection. Still he hugged her to calm her, held hands to sleep, slept on her tummy, caressed her hair...all this was him trying to be in limits. Especially sleeping on her tummy was so special because twice before in his pain and anguish she had held him in her lap...and now in his sleep he subconsciously looked for that solace.

The last thing he wanted for Pallavi to think that he was being dishonorable or cheap with her. He was the one who assured her that sleeping in same room he would still respect her ..and he was keeping that up.

So now after her moving on statement finally he knows it time to take the next step..without looking cheap to her. The attempted kiss was not out of thought or planning it was pure attraction at that point.

Our girl on the other hand ...didnt expect all this though she has feelings so I felt Pallavi was not there upto that point yesterday...she was still a little awkward ...until he asked for consent to do the zip ..I think he earned brownie points there...and when she said yes there was that peace in her like she let go of the awkwardness.

Okkk

I am not saying anything against your post. Completely get ur point.

But as far as my perspective goes......I have found Raghav attracted to her since always. He never wanted to let her go....or gets angry or emotional whenever they hv dt thought of separation bcz he has grown fond of her and more than that she is his companion in everything......be it pain, suffering or happiness. Everytime he has pleaded to her to stay back bcz he fears of being left alone again. Yes he has his mother and sister now , but still he is a lonely soul widout her around him. Dts how I perceive the whole thing.

Now coming to his feelings......yes he has definitely developed dem or may I say they are blossoming.....but they never had enough time or space to completely bloom . And I dont think he has realised them completely yet. I dont expect him to say it all loud ( bcz as he says.....wo sab kuch bolta nai) but I did expect a tiny bit of realisation on his part.......a lil something more than just the dress.

Whatever you hv said abt him trying to be careful around her bcz he was the one who had forced the marriage......dt part....yes I completely agree. Also I feel its bcz whatever playboy image he may have had.....he is still an honorable man who respects a woman and her wishes.

That was a missed kiss--only if Pallavi had not lost her balance--pata nahi aage kya kya hota