What are the dynamics of Raghavi relationship?

Hello everyone 😊

So while I was making the dialogues post I had a chance to revisit earlier epi ...

Re-watch made me realise so many things..

When Raghav stopped Pallavi from going to Kolhapur, he made so many promises..

"Mai tumahri khushiyan ( d-fam) wapas laaonga, aacha pati na sahi dost banunga... "

"Tumhe Patni K saare haq doonga ...

During this time Raghav was so optimistic... He always used to call her patni, biwi and himself her pati.

"Kabhi toh apne husband ki baat man liya karo .."

"Meri biwi b na unique piece hai par bahut cute hai .."

" Tum mere liye vat Savitri ka pooja karega, after all pati joon tumhara "...

So while saying all these he always got silence from Pallavi... Why because she had not forgotten all she had to go through because of him and she was not sure wether this relationship would sustain..

Toh Pallavi ne jhooti ummeden dene k bajae chup rehna better samjha..

In all this Raghav accepted it k woh kabhi b Pallavi ka pati nahi ban paega, her silence made him think that she is not willing to accept him as her pati ( isiliye itne easily kolhapur k ticket diye Pallavi ko aur badle me jhadu khai 😁)

Her reserved nature, her hesitation and silence whenever asked a question about their relationship made him think he doesn't deserve her and painstakingly friend-zoned himself...

Further he doesn't want to lose her by doing anything of that sort.. she is the first person to show so much of faith on him,she is the reason for his United fam...

Not to forget his reputation as a player...

All this had made him go to platonic friend- zoned mode. So much so that Pallavi telling again and again that she wants to live with him and giving an indecent amount of hints too has no effect on him 😔

"Agar mai badal gaya toh kya tum hamesha k liye ruk jaega??

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Pallavi on the other hand was sceptical that this relationship will sustain.. because she knew he wouldn't be able to fulfill the challenge..

She always kept quiet when he asked about their relationship dynamics coz she herself didn't had any idea wether she is going to give it a chance or not..

But she saw him..

She saw him changing for her ...

She saw his redemption..

She saw that inspite of failing in each and every attempt to manao d-fam he is not giving up..

All this somewhere made a soft corner in her heart for him..

She tried to understand him more, to connect with him..

She saw his acchai, his sacchai and love for his fam..

She saw his pain, suffering and lonliness..

" Mujhe chor k mat jao Pallavi, mai akela nahi rehna chahta"

She decided to stay with him, to stand for him, to stand against her fam for him...

" Joh bhi tum mujhe do ge uska double wapas karoongi"

And now she wants them to be together, to be in a real relationship as a husband wife...

" Tumhe shikayat thi na k koi tumhe apni priority nahi manta koi tumhe imp feel nahi karata... Toh lo ban gaye aaj se tum meri priority.... Apne pariwar ko chor kr tumhe choose kr rahi hoon mai"

She is giving hints, she is showing attraction..

Her growth was slow and steady ...

Wheras Raghav is temple running on a zig-zag path..

He loves her but until he believes that he is worthy of her and until she clearly states the same... He isn't making any move..

So that's it...

Thank you for bearing me...

Brilliantly summed up. 👏 I agree with most of the points you made ❤️

What I love about pallavi trust on raghav

- she didn't believe him blindly

- she witnessed his efforts and change

- she point out at him whenever he is wrong

- she saw his goodness

- she started to look at him open minded without any pre notion that how he is don and villain of her life

- when raghav asked her if someone will say something about him will she believed them? She didn't believe him too when he accepted he killed Mandar

- she saw how he is lonely

Most of the time ITV couple directly jump on to Romance and misunderstanding happen then separation leap and all that drama continue. Trust and understanding always missing.

When it comes to raghvi makers did commendable job and they start their enemy with misunderstanding and hatred but didn't jump into romance directly but built up trust and understanding.

Last thing they didn't accepted eachother because of their family but as a person they are

Eg : he didn't fall in love because she donated blood to his mother and pallavi didn't fall in love because of him D family accepted her.

He didn't know and she is still not with D family

They both are making blunder because of their family but they will emerge strong with this 👍🏼

Originally posted by: Isamreen

Hello everyone 😊

So while I was making the dialogues post I had a chance to revisit earlier epi ...

Re-watch made me realise so many things..

When Raghav stopped Pallavi from going to Kolhapur, he made so many promises..

"Mai tumahri khushiyan ( d-fam) wapas laaonga, aacha pati na sahi dost banunga... "

"Tumhe Patni K saare haq doonga ...

During this time Raghav was so optimistic... He always used to call her patni, biwi and himself her pati.

"Kabhi toh apne husband ki baat man liya karo .."

"Meri biwi b na unique piece hai par bahut cute hai .."

" Tum mere liye vat Savitri ka pooja karega, after all pati joon tumhara "...

So while saying all these he always got silence from Pallavi... Why because she had not forgotten all she had to go through because of him and she was not sure wether this relationship would sustain..

Toh Pallavi ne jhooti ummeden dene k bajae chup rehna better samjha..

In all this Raghav accepted it k woh kabhi b Pallavi ka pati nahi ban paega, her silence made him think that she is not willing to accept him as her pati ( isiliye itne easily kolhapur k ticket diye Pallavi ko aur badle me jhadu khai 😁)

Her reserved nature, her hesitation and silence whenever asked a question about their relationship made him think he doesn't deserve her and painstakingly friend-zoned himself...

Further he doesn't want to lose her by doing anything of that sort.. she is the first person to show so much of faith on him,she is the reason for his United fam...

Not to forget his reputation as a player...

All this had made him go to platonic friend- zoned mode. So much so that Pallavi telling again and again that she wants to live with him and giving an indecent amount of hints too has no effect on him 😔

"Agar mai badal gaya toh kya tum hamesha k liye ruk jaega??

.

Pallavi on the other hand was sceptical that this relationship will sustain.. because she knew he wouldn't be able to fulfill the challenge..

She always kept quiet when he asked about their relationship dynamics coz she herself didn't had any idea wether she is going to give it a chance or not..

But she saw him..

She saw him changing for her ...

She saw his redemption..

She saw that inspite of failing in each and every attempt to manao d-fam he is not giving up..

All this somewhere made a soft corner in her heart for him..

She tried to understand him more, to connect with him..

She saw his acchai, his sacchai and love for his fam..

She saw his pain, suffering and lonliness..

" Mujhe chor k mat jao Pallavi, mai akela nahi rehna chahta"

She decided to stay with him, to stand for him, to stand against her fam for him...

" Joh bhi tum mujhe do ge uska double wapas karoongi"

And now she wants them to be together, to be in a real relationship as a husband wife...

" Tumhe shikayat thi na k koi tumhe apni priority nahi manta koi tumhe imp feel nahi karata... Toh lo ban gaye aaj se tum meri priority.... Apne pariwar ko chor kr tumhe choose kr rahi hoon mai"

She is giving hints, she is showing attraction..

Her growth was slow and steady ...

Wheras Raghav is temple running on a zig-zag path..

He loves her but until he believes that he is worthy of her and until she clearly states the same... He isn't making any move..

So that's it...

Thank you for bearing me...

Ghanta dynamics aur love hai ..

Kuch nhi hai babu...

He is.just with her coz wo ragahv rao hai aur usko amma aur family mili hai..

VD k paom dhone wala scene uska promise poora kerne k lye tha

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

What I love about pallavi trust on raghav

- she didn't believe him blindly

- she witnessed his efforts and change

- she point out at him whenever he is wrong

- she saw his goodness

- she started to look at him open minded without any pre notion that how he is don and villain of her life

- when raghav asked her if someone will say something about him will she believed them? She didn't believe him too when he accepted he killed Mandar

- she saw how he is lonely

Most of the time ITV couple directly jump on to Romance and misunderstanding happen then separation leap and all that drama continue. Trust and understanding always missing.

When it comes to raghvi makers did commendable job and they start their enemy with misunderstanding and hatred but didn't jump into romance directly but built up trust and understanding.

Last thing they didn't accepted eachother because of their family but as a person they are

Eg : he didn't fall in love because she donated blood to his mother and pallavi didn't fall in love because of him D family accepted her.

He didn't know and she is still it with D family

They both are making blunder because of their family but they will emerge strong with this 👍🏼

@ bold: You aptly pointed out what I couldn't say...👍🏼

Slow and steady wins the race...

Let them sort out their jumbled feeling first..

They were enemies first, they develop respect for each other and now they are building trust which is the most imp factor in a relationship...

And yeah Pallavi is the more sorted one among the two..

Couples jumping directly at romance makes it feel that , all they have on the name of relationship is physical attraction...

Totally agree ❤️

All my demands of besharam Raghav had made me realise this, ki intially he used to be all

"Main tumko biwi ke saare rights dunga"

"Husband ke liye koi jagah nahi tumhare life mein?"

"Mere liye vat savitri rakhega?"

"Tum mere liye itna nahi karega?"

And that most impactful "Kaun jaane dega?" ☺️

He used to be such a husband in his talks, trying to make his wife take a step forward. But somewhere along the line, as both started valuing this relationship more and more, Pallavi accepted her rights as a wife, while Raghav locked away his husband's rights. He treasures her so much that just her presence in his life is like a wish come true for him. Haq jatana to door ki baat hai, he is in a "giver" mode right now. Aur kuch maangna hi nahi usko. Kya karu iss bande ka bolo... he's so pure 🥺❤️

Jo pehle bola tha "Jaane kaun dega?" wo khud usey Kolhapur ke tickets thama diya. Jo vat savitri ke liye usne haq se poocha tha, usi ke liye he tried to convince her out of it. Like I said, he's just so happy to have her, he feels blessed with even that much. She's the equivalent of hope and solace in his life. Aur kuch maangna hi nahi usey ❤️

Originally posted by: Doc

Ghanta dynamics aur love hai ..

Kuch nhi hai babu...

He is.just with her coz wo ragahv rao hai aur usko amma aur family mili hai..

VD k paom dhone wala scene uska promise poora kerne k lye tha

Mm 🤔

I don't know the reasons that made you feel that way...

Originally posted by: Bee222

Totally agree ❤️

All my demands of besharam Raghav had made me realise this, ki intially he used to be all

"Main tumko biwi ke saare rights dunga"

"Husband ke liye koi jagah nahi tumhare life mein?"

"Mere liye vat savitri rakhega?"

"Tum mere liye itna nahi karega?"

And that most impactful "Kaun jaane dega?" ☺️

He used to be such a husband in his talks, trying to make his wife take a step forward. But somewhere along the line, as both started valuing this relationship more and more, Pallavi accepted her rights as a wife, while Raghav locked away his husband's rights. He treasures her so much that just her presence in his life is like a wish come true for him. Haq jatana to door ki baat hai, he is in a "giver" mode right now. Aur kuch maangna hi nahi usko. Kya karu iss bande ka bolo... he's so pure 🥺❤️

Jo pehle bola tha "Jaane kaun dega?" wo khud usey Kolhapur ke tickets thama diya. Jo vat savitri ke liye usne haq se poocha tha, usi ke liye he tried to convince her out of it. Like I said, he's just so happy to have her, he feels blessed with even that much. She's the equivalent of hope and solace in his life. Aur kuch maangna hi nahi usey ❤️

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All the things you wrote ❤️

I saw everyone saying he doesn't love Pallavi...

He does, but he doesn't voice out..

" Kyunki mai har cheez bolta nahi .."

I still rem how when they got married he was hell- bent on calling himself as her pati...

D- fam me jaake zabardasti ka damad ban raha tha woh ...

Mai is ghar ka damad hai....🤣

Hopefully mandar will bring that love realisation in them...

Originally posted by: Isamreen

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All the things you wrote ❤️

I saw everyone saying he doesn't love Pallavi...

He does, but he doesn't voice out..

" Kyunki mai har cheez bolta nahi .."

I still rem how when they got married he was hell- bent on calling himself as his pati...

D- fam me jaake zabardasti ka damad ban raha tha woh ...

Mai is ghar ka damad hai....🤣

Hopefully mandar will bring that love realisation in them...

Samreen 🤗

Yaar I really wanted him to annoy the hell outta Dfam with his antics 🤣 Kaise damaad na bole jaane par he used to get annoyed 🤣 Kash baccho ki tarah piche pad jaata to get his damaad status from them 🤣 I would've died laughing 🤣🤣

But ye to poora sanskari mode mein manane lag gaya unhe

Can't even complain bcz we were the ones asking for a strong redemption track 🤪 Jo humein uss Dfam track se hi dekhne ko mila ❤️👏

But still... I like to imagine 😆 Nautanki dramebaaz Raghav is my favourite 🤣

Originally posted by: Isamreen

Mm 🤔

I don't know the reasons that made you feel that way...