Raghav doesnt love pallavi - Page 3

Originally posted by: DaffodilsNew

I wanted to write abt this too the other day when flirting thing was being discussed.

Raghav has been alone for the longest period of his adult life. He has craved for relationships , closeness and more so companionship.

In Pallavi he has found dt companionship. Dt was the reason he was letting her go so easily on his mother's insistence.......bcz it's not love for him yet . He has reluctance to let her go bcz he doesn't like his relations slipping away. He likes keeping them intact.

He adores her at times , likes talking to her. .......bcz she is probably the only one who has listened to him in a while. And he certainly has some feelings for her but it hasn't shaped up as love yet.

Love is still a long way for both of them.

After today's episode I don't really care abt Mandar or dt sunny or lion. I feel it's Raghav's family and his crazy obsession over their approval which will some day drive these two apart.

So true @bold

He will get a reality check very soon not that he doesnt know .he does like ystrday he went to explain only pallavi

But with upcoming things he will realise that she is and will be his constant and other thing can and will keep varying .

His amma and keerti are someppl hi longed for ages and they might come around for him but they still won't trust him like the way he wants .

Originally posted by: drnidsur

So true @bold

He will get a reality check very soon not that he doesnt know .he does like ystrday he went to explain only pallavi

But with upcoming things he will realise that she is and will be his constant and other thing can and will keep varying .

His amma and keerti are someppl hi longed for ages and they might come around for him but they still won't trust him like the way he wants .

Anna has grey shades .

Koi kam.sahee nhi kya hai..bachpan se..pallu ki bhi tolerance hai jo us ne anna k kalai kartoot ko maaf kerdya werna u know na ......😑😑

Originally posted by: Doc

Anna has grey shades .

Koi kam.sahee nhi kya hai..bachpan se..pallu ki bhi tolerance hai jo us ne anna k kalai kartoot ko maaf kerdya werna u know na ......😑😑

Yaa that's true he is Raghav rao 😎

But true he has grey shades which pallavi is trying to work on and he has been flexible enough to try to change

Like after drunk night he asked her that if he changes will she stay ?

That's what it has taken him he will take all jhadoo , belan , eveyrthing , he may throw around things but now he will go stomping his foot behind pallavi and listen to her in the end . He kinda sees her as light which will drive away his darkness and he is ready to seek it even if destroys him

Originally posted by: drnidsur

Yaa that's true he is Raghav rao 😎

But true he has grey shades which pallavi is trying to work on and he has been flexible enough to try to change

Like after drunk night he asked her that if he changes will she stay ?

That's what it has taken him he will take all jhadoo , belan , eveyrthing , he may throw around things but now he will go stomping his foot behind pallavi and listen to her in the end . He kinda sees her as light which will drive away his darkness and he is ready to seek it even if destroys him

It might be , Raghav likes the companionship of Pallavi and definitely not as someone special with love . He has absolutely no idea what love means/is . He wants to hold on to Pallavi in the name of marriage bcoz she is the source for him to avoid loneliness . Pallavi is the spice added up in his blunt life - atleast that’s what he thinks .

May be the actual love realisation will only happen when Pallavi returns to Deshmukh after Mandar’s return and when their marriage is considered invalid but still pallavi friend zone him until Mandar starts troubling them . Pallavi’s realisation is going to take pretty long till mandaar’s chapter gets closed.

Anyways , Sikcand will take the troubles till Ganesh Chaturthi period , coz his previous series has got a major drama during this particular festival . Hope to get some intense drama during Chaturthi 🤞🏼.

He loves her. He is just blinded by his mom and sis. He wants to do anything and everything to have them in his life and keerti distancing herself from him probably breaks his heart.

A very good post !

I totally agree with you. Raghav knows that "kuch" hai unke beech. He labels it as friendship in front of Farhad but not love.

He likes when she says tum meri priority ho, mera pati. But he still hasn't labelled it anything. I think it's also cause usko koi jaldi nahi hai figure out karne ki. He knows ki Pallu is here for him.

That's what Mandaar will do make him openly accept that he is in love with Pallu !

Raghav still has a lot of healing to do. He was one person who didn't have anything close to a family for years and suddenly he got what he wanted. Also he got lucky that in process he got Pallu also. But he always craved for Amma and keerthi.

As much as I didn't like the scene where he tells her don't involve in my family. I now feel it's not cause he doesn't see her as a family infact he was first who started doing meri patni jaap before Pallu. It's just that he is so scared of loosing Keerthi that he just wanted Pallu to be quiet.

He will do the same for Pallu when Mandaar enters. Kehte hai na koi cheez ki asli value tabhi samajh aati hai jab woh aapse dur jaati hai. Rn Raghav is scared of losing Amma & Keerthi. He knows Pallu is right by him but when time will come he will fight hardest for Pallu!

There is love somewhere in his heart for her, albeit buried under the numerous storms that they’re passed through. It’s an elephant in the room which no one wants to speak of, or initiate.

Right now, he holds her as a friend, I also see it that way and she has become a part of his life where he lets her guide him, listens to her, her opinion matters to him and her happiness matters to him. He respects her as well. All this leads to love but he’s not yet there. He’ll get there once all his drama with his sister is resolved and he’s under a great threat of losing her. Till then realization is going to be quite hard because even in real life, it does take time for one to realize that there is something more than liking, respect and friendship. For a person like Raghav, he’ll be in denial until an external force hits him (Mandaar).

Raghav is complicated too, he wants his status as a husband but he doesn’t call it love. Fair enough, people are husband and wife in real life and don’t share the madness of love, rather have respect and liking for each other.

Pallavis emotions seem to baffle me more than Raghav.

Originally posted by: pretty2sunshine

It might be , Raghav likes the companionship of Pallavi and definitely not as someone special with love . He has absolutely no idea what love means/is . He wants to hold on to Pallavi in the name of marriage bcoz she is the source for him to avoid loneliness . Pallavi is the spice added up in his blunt life - atleast that’s what he thinks .

May be the actual love realisation will only happen when Pallavi returns to Deshmukh after Mandar’s return and when their marriage is considered invalid but still pallavi friend zone him until Mandar starts troubling them . Pallavi’s realisation is going to take pretty long till mandaar’s chapter gets closed.

Anyways , Sikcand will take the troubles till Ganesh Chaturthi period , coz his previous series has got a major drama during this particular festival . Hope to get some intense drama during Chaturthi 🤞🏼.

I think pallavi's realization will come 1st nut she will supress her feelings in name of family sacrifice..

But once she got to know that he also loves her..bus phir ye viper se maar laga ker ugalwayegi

I love you❤️

Like once Farhad said, after the hate phase they are in the friendship phase right now. And What I think is, Raghav does love Pallavi but he is not in love with her and Pallavi also loves him but not in love with him.

Love is letting the other go for their happiness. So when Amma said that Pallavi is not happy with them, he was ready to let her go because he cares about her happiness not his pain. And I don't think like he said he did that because Amma asked, he did the arrangements because he wants her to be happy. He was indeed hurt letting her go, and that hurt is obviously formed from the love and affection he has for her. So I will say that he loves Pallavi but he will need a push from somewhere or someone to realize that.

And what happened in today's episode, i don't think he really meant that. I'm not a married woman but I still think, it does happen in arranged marriages. Where the man takes time to accept that he has someone in his life who treats his family as her own exactly like a woman who takes time to accept her husband 's family. Here Pallavi didn't need that much time since she personally knew his family before. So I think, Pallavi has accepted Raghav's family as her own ( but not in that blind way she did with d family,) hence she didn't leave. But Raghav will take time to accept Pallavi as his wife in true sense because right now she is his friend who he loves but at the same time, he craves for the attention and care he could get from his wife hence the constant referring of him as her husband.

And today, the moment that words left his mouth, he regretted it. He knew that words hurt her but his ego didn't let him say sorry. He will most probably apologize to her soon.

So, these two are not yet in love with each other but do feel something for the other and I will say, both of them are in the same page. I wouldn't be surprised if they fall for each other together.

Like the thought of leaving her affected him and his happiness was clearly shown on his face when she said she is not going, she did stood up for him and did choose him over her crazy family. So they are in the same page, on the way to love but will have lots of hurdles to pass.

He does want her in his life but he is yet to realize what a wife expect from a husband and I think it's the same with Pallavi too. They both are unaware of the beauty of a marriage.