What's with Vijay? - Page 3

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

To be fair to him, his despise for Raghav is understandable.. he saw Raghav misbehave with his daughter in the temple..and then he saw him on top of Pallavi infront of everyone and then found out that he was in her bedroom telling her about her blouse being undone..its natural for a father to get upset... Him being protective of his daughter is a natutal instinctive reaction... But .... Him saying that he is not pointing a finger at Pallavi or doubting her but at the same time also saying that he didnt expect this from her.. sounded like he didnt trust Pallavi. She didnt invite him to her bedroom, neither was it her fault that her blouse hook came off.. so where did she disappoint him? Where is the " Pallavi se mene ye ummeed nahi ki thi " coming from? I think its association of her with a man other than Mandhar,, his son that is irking him..He felt she betrayed Mandhar..He was being a father in law ..not her baba

Well he is behaving like a father as well in sense that I have seen such fathers on ITV

But the problem is that they pretended to be different. They wanted to get their DIL married again. So where does this all come from then? Probably because it was ok till she herself did not show interest in moving on. But now apparantly there is someone in her life.

Originally posted by: libran90

The problem is Pallavi aisi hi thi. A woman facing and braving everything all alone. He was sitting aaram se at home destressing after a heart attack. Her courage was always subtly shown. It was Raghav that unleashed a different ferocity in her, which was lying dormant in her. It's what partners do right, spur their counterpart to do or be the best. Pehle Pallavi ka turn hai, phir Raghav ka aayega.

Pallavi herself hasn't realized what she has triggered in Vijay by her revelation. She herself did not realize she overstepped Vijay's "maryada". She became Raghav that moment. They both are rubbing off on each other subtly without trying too hard.

Well said👍🏼

I always thought pallavi and Raghav both at their core are similar. Just so pallavi was more restrained. She feels indebted to this family for taking her in. So she was not herself. And now Raghav is bringing her more closer to what she really is. Obviously this will trigger these people.

Originally posted by: Shabia1

Well said👍🏼

I always thought pallavi and Raghav both at their core are similar. Just so pallavi was more restrained. She feels indebted to this family for taking her in. So she was not herself. And now Raghav is bringing her more closer to what she really is. Obviously this will trigger these people.

Exactly!

Originally posted by: CookiesNCream

Baba's freedom to Pallavi is like letting her do the things that qualifies to his definition of sanskari-ness. A roped cow can graze to it's heart content but only to the limit the rope lets it.

Well said, Sister.

That is classic head-of-the-house patriarchy. "You have freedom to act in a manner we approve of." Baba said at the mandir that Pallavi is like their son---but will they allow her the freedom their son enjoyed?

Originally posted by: SathyaT

Not sure if he is more protective towards Pallavi.. even before he was not so interested in searching alliance for Pallu,, it was Aai who always take the steps and he used to just say what if she got hurt again and what if she is not getting in-laws like us and all.. so far the predicament is he is more protective towards Pallavi.. But what made worried was he did't trust Pallavi fully that without discussing with her anything he straight away went to warn Raghav,, if she comes to know this she will definitely feel bad... For Pallu its her Aai baba her whole world,...

Story has to unfold more to see his stand on Pallu's remarriage when its actually getting fixed,...

That is the point, Sister. I'm looking at this situation beyond what is being here in the story for dramatic value---but in real life, often those things that are done to women to "protect" them are done for selfish reasons that are not even known to themselves.

In an early scene when Baba was upset that Aayi was looking for a rishta for Pallavi, he said he feared that Pallavi might be mistreated in a second marriage. But is that a reason to not give her a chance at a full life?

Once Baba realizes that Pallavi has been falsifying the account ledgers and the business is barely staying afloat then we'll find out whether she is truly a daughter or the wife of their dead son. I don't think Baba will be understanding.

Originally posted by: MistyDawn

To be fair to him, his despise for Raghav is understandable.. he saw Raghav misbehave with his daughter in the temple..and then he saw him on top of Pallavi infront of everyone and then found out that he was in her bedroom telling her about her blouse being undone..its natural for a father to get upset... Him being protective of his daughter is a natutal instinctive reaction... But .... Him saying that he is not pointing a finger at Pallavi or doubting her but at the same time also saying that he didnt expect this from her.. sounded like he didnt trust Pallavi. She didnt invite him to her bedroom, neither was it her fault that her blouse hook came off.. so where did she disappoint him? Where is the " Pallavi se mene ye ummeed nahi ki thi " coming from? I think its association of her with a man other than Mandhar,, his son that is irking him..He felt she betrayed Mandhar..He was being a father in law ..not her baba

I'm so glad you wrote the above, Sister. This is exactly what I'm getting at. There is double-speak her that Baba is not recognizing. Pallavi was not to blame. And either he trusts Pallavi or he doesn't. Racing off to see Raghav suggests he doesn't trust her to handle matters.

Having said all that---Baba doing what I disapprove of is creating a very captivating storyline and so congratulations to the writers. They succeeded.

Originally posted by: libran90

Pallavi herself hasn't realized what she has triggered in Vijay by her revelation. She herself did not realize she overstepped Vijay's "maryada". She became Raghav that moment. They both are rubbing off on each other subtly without trying too hard.

Well put, Sister.

Pallavi told the truth because she had no guilty conscience. She only provided the details to explain how Asha Aunty got the wrong idea.

Originally posted by: libran90

Exactly, I mean what the hell bro.😆

Bude khusat retired padosi ki tarah chal diye Raghav ke ghar. Aur achche se apni fajihat karwa ke aa gaye.🤣🤣

Hadh hai. Itna hi hai, to tu khud ja na dukaan. Farmaan kyun jaari karta hai, Nikhil help karega🤔

I was so pleased that he saw Pallavi drive away with a shirtless Raghav looking on with interest. Baba should remember the proverb that spying on others will only bring to your eyes what you don't want to see.

Originally posted by: Shabia1

You know what. I couldn't believe my eyes when I saw him following Pallavi. Like wth😡

If he has energy to follow her, then he is healthy enough to spend few hours at the shop to help her as well. But wahan burhaoo ko heart condition hai

That’s why raghav said save energy save patrol 🤣 baba has too much energy for everything else except for handling the shop

At the end of the day, he is still her father-in-law. What irked him more was not the fact that his beti was in her bedroom alone with a stranger but the fact that his bahu and his son's widow was alone in the bedroom with a stranger.

See according to me, Vijay has not completely accepted Pallavi as his daughter, unlike his wife, who I believe has accepted Pallavi to be her daughter the minute she married Mandaar.

Vijay gives me the vibes that he will choose his izzat over pallavi's if the need arises.