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Posted: 13 years ago
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Helping everyone in the family and being supportive is one thing but i do believe Aditya should think about his future too. Priya is on her way to fulfilling her dreams of being a lawyer, he should concentrate on his dreams too, and that of being a politician, if he still wants to do that. And in the process get Priya back in his life.

Till now him and Priya both have been helping the other family members, i'm not saying they shouldnt, but they need to think about what they want to. Priya has done that, and theres nothing wrong with it. Aditya will now be tensed about Uttara since hes going to find out shes pregnant. He should leave her to it, be there for her but not become completely embroiled in her problem, after all it is Uttaras problem.


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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nice writeup Hope!..

In a way I am glad Priya got a job .. 😛even if a more deserving candidate didn't get hired... saved us from the torment of seeing her go from office to office for the next 3 days...She can also learn dancing while discussing important cases with her boss...and then may be Adi can team up with her in a dance reality show a la Rab ne Bana di Jodi..😃
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: FIZK6

Helping everyone in the family and being supportive is one thing but i do believe Aditya should think about his future too. Priya is on her way to fulfilling her dreams of being a lawyer, he should concentrate on his dreams too, and that of being a politician, if he still wants to do that. And in the process get Priya back in his life.

Till now him and Priya both have been helping the other family members, i'm not saying they shouldnt, but they need to think about what they want to. Priya has done that, and theres nothing wrong with it. Aditya will now be tensed about Uttara since hes going to find out shes pregnant. He should leave her to it, be there for her but not become completely embroiled in her problem, after all it is Uttaras problem.




I agree that they should so Aditya become more focussed on career, redefining the Jhakar name.

I don't see him in politics though maybe public service. He does not seem to enjoy or want to play dangerous games. he seems a really frank person. like it or not. he tells it as he sees it and understands it and reacts passionately to what he believes is right and wrong

his past association with politics has always showed him compromise on principles

it might only work out for him if he gains RD's true support as opposed to the past tom and jerry relationship that they have shared previously
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: my_view

Nice writeup Hope!..


In a way I am glad Priya got a job .. 😛even if a more deserving candidate didn't get hired... saved us from the torment of seeing her go from office to office for the next 3 days...She can also learn dancing while discussing important cases with her boss...and then may be Adi can team up with her in a dance reality show a la Rab ne Bana di Jodi..😃



I agree

Whiel I think that they closure on the job thing happened too soon to be credible, I too did not want it drag on as in the larger scheme of things the journey to get the job was not very significant.

more significant is how she balances the job and her desire to study and how she will manage the upcomign divorce settlement and her own cases against BJ

I feel that we are going to see a much more confident Priya as of next week. She seems uplifted by getting this job. that is good. the whole perpetually cryign Priya was not heartening.

We might even get to see her and Aditya's interaction on the divorce settlement and the cases against BJ.

This time around though we might see a strong Priya, defiant with no guilt at making the public disclosure as her biggest fear i.e. Adity'as reaction is now water under the bridge. On the other hand I think Aditya's reaction will be more emotional. His shame and guilt at not supporting his wife will be more hardhitting as the cases progress and he hears the gore details first hand.

to date, everytime the details come out he had already left the court to avoid contempt through his emotional behavious. So he has only seen the accusations but not encountered the proofs

he believed all the accusations without proof and only on hearsay once he say BJ molesting and hurting Priya in that case. Now that Priya's situation is settled, they will start his encounter with all the proofs one by one to substantiate those accusations he has already accepted in principle. Uttara's pregnancy is unrefutable proof of the affair Women 1 Brhama 0

next will be Priya's original molestation, recent one and attempted murder.

The emotional meltdown that we though Aditya might have had has been deferred in my opinion for the next few months

His meltdown will probably show Priya how much he had been manipulated by his dad. I don't think she realized the depth of influence when she expressed her disappointment and left him. her decisiion was reactive not insightful. I think his meltdown might be the point where we see two independent people truly come to support and seek support from one another as equals.

While I really want to see this relationships of equals I hope they do not go from one extreme where Aditya was the dominant person in the relationship to the other extreme where aditya is hwon as a defeated emotional wuss and Priya is the dominant person in their relationship. Let's Hope for the best.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Hope--



Thanks

I agree about Priya

However, I do believe that Aditya is the glue that is holding things together in this family. Similar to Devyani in some way. but dissimilar in the sense that Devyani held it together but required everyone to make significant compromises. Aditya accepts the issues (let's leave his love for dad aside) i.e. gay, wife's molestation by someone, masi's abuse etc at the hand of maasa, priya';s desire for independence and has tried to work on solutions through understanding and discussion as opposed to asking the victims to make significant compromises.
Maybe that is why when everyone concerned were asked to make compromises at certain times by Devyani, Aditya never did nor was he asked to. He would have never compromised for what he felt was wrong, even though he was, regarding his dad.

Aditya and Priya are both vital as they give strength in different forms to the victims in the show
That strength should now be used for each other.
Priya always ends up identifying or causing Aditya to realize the problem and Aditya somehow is involved in the solution. that is why they make a good team.

What I always liked about Aditya is whenever he felt Priya was strong enough to fight her own battles he stepped aside and silently supported even empowered her. exception being his own conflicted situation with his dad. I am not of hte opinion that a person's single error in judgement or slip washes away all his past efforts and his own good character

I am not saying this because he is a man. I mean becasue he is a good and helpful individual - hsi own gender aside

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: FIZK6


Maybe that is why when everyone concerned were asked to make compromises at certain times by Devyani, Aditya never did nor was he asked to. He would have never compromised for what he felt was wrong, even though he was, regarding his dad.



totally agree.

I remember how he refused to accept Gaurav Vidya's compromise marriage and was even willing to bear his father's wrath to ensure that these two did not have to lead a lie anymore or when he forced Gaurav to tell the truth to his FIL and again stood there to support his brother.

It made me also very angry to see how he unfairly he was treating and referring to the two women in his life during the divorce but then its like expecting the person who is hearing only one side of the telephoen convo to understand the issue in the same manner as a person who is listening to both sides of the convo.

he has never been shy in asking Priya for help ever because he knew that support is to be expected from his better half yet it is not the same in reverse and if I remember correctly it was not like that even when they both met and he was being more perseverant

I think Uttara's pregnancy news is going to hit him real hard. Hope devyani comes back to help him out.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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I agree Priya should not have taken away the chances of some other person.

But Priya knows that she will give her best than the candidate who lost it. Priya will not be a mere worker doing the duty, but she will give something extra like sitting late hours, taking extra care etc.

And Priya said that she does not want to take Adi's help and that means she will take somebody's help who is not connected to that family.

Under the circumstances, she is trying to do her best.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: --Hope--

Strong Priya or Phantom of the Maryada Opera (Aditya)
Ghee seedhi ungli seh nahi nikalti toh tedi ungli istamal kar lo😆😆😆

Is it Just me or do you also feel that Strong Priya just got played like a fresh off the factory line fiddle😆?

Being Strong means not accepting help from a man whose name you bear but promptly accepting help from a stranger ironically though unknowingly at the request of a man whose name you bear and whose help you blatantly refused? Strongly obstinate😆😆😆

Being Strong means going for a job interview knowing that you are an underqualified candidate (basically with no credentials in the trade you are seeking a job in but with a strong desire to be a student) and BELIEVING you got the job fairly and without support/influence through an interview process? Hmm... to the best of my knowledge when employees manage interviews and there a ton of properly or over qualified candidates they either don't pick the least qualified candidate or make sure the boss is ok with their underqualified candidate decision before the hiring process is over, so that they don't fired themselves for their philanthropic moment. Exception to the rule of course being that the lady either was a partner in this law firm or SJ's mother herself 😆

So either the CVs have decided that credibility is not required this late in the game or the invisible support structure behind Strong Priya will be used as the reason for the next seperation😆

Well at least she is convinced that she won the first battle (😕I'm sorry what battle again?? Independence battle with Aditya? I though she was trying to be independent for herself not to prove anythng to anyone😕) through prayers, a good samaritan and a very philanthropic hiring manager. Good going Priya. More power to you😃


Now for My Poor Adi

Dear Dear soul. Stuck in limbo where all the women in life love him to pieces but do not trust him with any confidences. Sorry to give you the sad news honey but you better make peace with yourself and realize you are pretty much just eye candy for these women and us of course😉😆

it's ok we still love you

But I have to say that Season 2 will focus entirely on poor Adi and how he wins the battle to regain his mental fortitude through intensive psychiatiric counselling😉

He just found out his dad's a rapist, his bro's gay, his wife has abandoned him, his mother is hoping the scum really has property for her upkeep now that she is single, his aunt's prego with his half-bro or sis, they all lie to him and tell him absolutely nada except for the daily menu. Add a dog and old hat and he is a walking talking country western song😆 This dude's life is just sad. He NEEDS politics. Politics will be doing him a favour by adding some spice back into his life Finally he will get the inside tracks on all lies and scandals 😆😆😆


And Saving the Best for Last

Strong Uttara and Jailed Brahma. There she came spewing early morning righteous and vindictive fire and brimstone. She threathened him with abortion. Dear Jailed Brahma was probably thinking: Is this a mirage? No no wait it is not Devyani its the other one. ok no mirage. Woman, did you have to come before they served the sloppy porridge for breakfast? they already have me in solitary. I have been stripped of wife, family, money, stars, respect, freedom. Do you think I care a flying you know what that you are going to get an abortion? If I had to get stressed over all the abortions I have single handedly caused across Rohtak and the entire region that I presided over and showered with my Jaat oats I would have committed suicide myself a long time ago?😆


Then there's always Hope that he does care😉😆 (all puns intended)

That's all folks!!!





fantastic sense of humor Hope... loved it, priya is strong or she could have never moved out without knowing what life held for her... you might call it foolishness, but i think it takes balls to do that!!!

Adi - yes a tough lesson, but to earn trust again.. a journey he has to cover. Do I feel sad for him... not really... since I always thought his role earlier was that of a dunce... not enuff depth or intelligence and finally the bulb has gone on... so let him stew for some time...

Uttara - when you sow. you reap too - good or bad... make the choice, face it ... and live with that choice!!!






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Posted: 13 years ago
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@ TM: You were bang on.

It would have been realistic to show taht Priya though staying in the same house, had severed all her ties with Aditya, was back at school, and decided to get a parttime job at SJ's firm to gain money. With enough money gained, she could have opted for other accomodations.
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Posted: 13 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hot_Indo_Chilly

@ TM: You were bang on.

It would have been realistic to show taht Priya though staying in the same house, had severed all her ties with Aditya, was back at school, and decided to get a parttime job at SJ's firm to gain money. With enough money gained, she could have opted for other accomodations.



I personally would have preferred that and actually she would not have appeared weak to me if she had played it that way rather it would show that she is a non nensense person, she has a plan and she has set clear boundaries for her own independence

anyways, I am sure that the CVs will pick up the plot now that she has got the job

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