BRAHMANAND THE CAUSE OF ALL MISERIES

Originally posted by: prernacda

actually it is devyani who is encouraging it and making it worse by covering up and sweeping up the dust unde rthe carpet....to keep up the facade...of all is well!

he is the numero uno jerk but she is equally responsible and an accomplice/partner in crime by supporting all his doings, good or bad.....

behind every successful man is a woman and i also reading a study that a lot of serial killers blame their moms when caught and blame them for their childhood and anger issues....about how they looked the other way when they were being molded or mistreated as kids...

i know it is a bold and daring thought....but this is a forum and i strongly believe that devyani is not helping which encourages SSP to maintain status quo.... gaurav is already alienated and now this.adityas blind faith and extreme adoration of his papa and once the evidence is irrefutable, it will all come crashing down....reason why i keep saying tha priya is playing with fire, by being too intense about her principals... not just ssp but aditya too.. ssp has his good points just as aditya gaurav have their negative points.... just his rotten luck that the victim of his shennigans ended up in his house, as a strong protagonist....who refuses to be a doormat like devyani and ready to fight.....come hell or high water. after all officially gaurav is having an affair, so how is he any better than his dad.....

too much of any emotion is not good...both brothers are opposites and either extremely love or hate their father....

eg.rishabh too, kept beating uttara, because she allowed it and although devyani helped her at the hotel...she still wanted to keep the maryada and try to make it work....

they all seem to have the anger gene...question is how and where it is being channelled....right!

not saying she or aditya/priya gaurav or even ssp are evil per se but devyani is the perfect diplomat but equally responsible if not more for everything that is going wrong....] her world came crashing down when she was married to ssp and made her peace with it and her protocol for dealing with it..... maybe that is how ssps mom was to keep the family together at any costs.....

fictional but real life issues and that is whyi like it....regardless of the domestic violence that is portrayed so candidly.

wishing them marital bliss for many years in their virtual and real world...but they cannot be close in maryAda until this is cleared before them...priya cannot accept him and keeps having flashbacks/.... they need to move away...for any hope of salvation. bauji is the best, knows his son and caught between a rock and a hard place....

cant live with this show but getting addicted....love roshni devi...woman who can put ssp in his place.... would have been the ideal love match....

my thoughts and mean no offense

awesome characterizations compared to 90 percent of other serials....

3 d characters that are not just black or white....

just emotional humanbeings, not villians or saints....

as yours truly....

Originally posted by: prernacda

actually it is devyani who is encouraging it and making it worse by covering up and sweeping up the dust unde rthe carpet....to keep up the facade...of all is well!

he is the numero uno jerk but she is equally responsible and an accomplice/partner in crime by supporting all his doings, good or bad.....

behind every successful man is a woman and i also reading a study that a lot of serial killers blame their moms when caught and blame them for their childhood and anger issues....about how they looked the other way when they were being molded or mistreated as kids...

i know it is a bold and daring thought....but this is a forum and i strongly believe that devyani is not helping which encourages SSP to maintain status quo.... gaurav is already alienated and now this.adityas blind faith and extreme adoration of his papa and once the evidence is irrefutable, it will all come crashing down....reason why i keep saying tha priya is playing with fire, by being too intense about her principals... not just ssp but aditya too.. ssp has his good points just as aditya gaurav have their negative points.... just his rotten luck that the victim of his shennigans ended up in his house, as a strong protagonist....who refuses to be a doormat like devyani and ready to fight.....come hell or high water. after all officially gaurav is having an affair, so how is he any better than his dad.....

too much of any emotion is not good...both brothers are opposites and either extremely love or hate their father....

eg.rishabh too, kept beating uttara, because she allowed it and although devyani helped her at the hotel...she still wanted to keep the maryada and try to make it work....

they all seem to have the anger gene...question is how and where it is being channelled....right!

not saying she or aditya/priya gaurav or even ssp are evil per se but devyani is the perfect diplomat but equally responsible if not more for everything that is going wrong....] her world came crashing down when she was married to ssp and made her peace with it and her protocol for dealing with it..... maybe that is how ssps mom was to keep the family together at any costs.....

fictional but real life issues and that is whyi like it....regardless of the domestic violence that is portrayed so candidly.

wishing them marital bliss for many years in their virtual and real world...but they cannot be close in maryAda until this is cleared before them...priya cannot accept him and keeps having flashbacks/.... they need to move away...for any hope of salvation. bauji is the best, knows his son and caught between a rock and a hard place....

cant live with this show but getting addicted....love roshni devi...woman who can put ssp in his place.... would have been the ideal love match....

my thoughts and mean no offense

awesome characterizations compared to 90 percent of other serials....

3 d characters that are not just black or white....

just emotional humanbeings, not villians or saints....

as yours truly....

Originally posted by: prernacda

i agree , devyani is not bad at heart.... and she has baujis support.... one scene where she was sharing with uttara about getting married and compromised with fate since....giving gaurav his distance.

she is the one who has done everything and anything to keep the household together.....she is holding on to the frayed reins by the end of her fingernails...too blinded by filial love and "maryada" and standing in society....she knows her husbands shennigans and turns a blind eye but they have seem to got their own understanding and he respects her for her home minister skills.

but there is a limit of what is right and how far do you keep covering up...if you are hiding a criminal, no matter what the justification, you are an accomplice legally...more than SSP....i am more dissapointed by her behaviour with VIDYA and how she keeps covering up and justifying gauravs actions.. like justifying ssp in hotel....except that vidya is gauravs wife now and not her....!

habit is a great deadner....as Shakespeare said it so well.....

or aadat se majboor.....scrurrying around to keep their sandcastle from getting washed out by the next wave and bauji hit the nail on the head that this is just the beginning....

love this serial and interesting when ssp called priya a do muhi nagin...!

but then she was showing double standards and no matter how much we love priya and love to hate SSP.... she did tell him all is well and started covert ways of getting him in trouble....the sad part is that adi spent the night in jail and from precap that is the beginning...

anger management...or lack of which has caused..the downfall of many a powerful, strong nice educated and professional people.

priya crying like that was dissapointing....like a kid who was caught when they thought they were oversmart, or she is watching too much of YRKKH....must be sharing the same pot of glycerine but proved that she loves aditya equally if not more.....narrows her options unfortunately.