Itna selfless bhi nahi hona chahiye

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Why is Maitree sacrificing so much for her friendship??

Chances are she’s equally attached to the kid now so it’s not easy for her to move on!

Post leap all she has earned is

Sona taayi ke aur taane

Even Kusum op’s hatred

All she’s achieved is her professional life , the baby and Ashish’s support!

Her parents are also on the brink of blasting her for meeting someone and thi ki g of marriage!

It all seems very platonic but the deeper feeling I know is the mother son bond… that family is afraid of!

I’ve seen a live example in my family friend’s family!

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Crazze4tv

Why is Maitree sacrificing so much for her friendship??

Chances are she’s equally attached to the kid now so it’s not easy for her to move on!

Post leap all she has earned is

Sona taayi ke aur taane

Even Kusum op’s hatred

All she’s achieved is her professional life , the baby and Ashish’s support!

Her parents are also on the brink of blasting her for meeting someone and thi ki g of marriage!

It all seems very platonic but the deeper feeling I know is the mother son bond… that family is afraid of!

I’ve seen a live example in my family friend’s family!


Maitree is totally attached to the kid and that’s why she’s not picking on the hatred in everyone’s eyes.. at this point I think she’s with the kid more for her emotional support rather that the child’s needs.. there was absolutely no reason for her to be the primary caregiver this long— she should’ve trusted the family to give him a proper upbringing. Isn’t that why she asked judge to give the baby to Ashish because he has a loving family? She’s ruining it all for herself, the kid and now Nandu— she is going to be very unhappy if her own son won’t accept her as his Mom. And then her hatred for Maitree will be justified because no mother will ever share her child with another women— never

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Maybe she is able to see nandini in her child. She has been with her friend since childhood that's why she more attached to her son..

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Nandini is maitree's world . She'll do anything for he. & Not only maitree , nandish is very much attached to maitree since the beginning...it was shown clearly.

I think maitree is staying there still is not only becoz of either friendship or bond with the kid.

It might be coz of sona taiji had a condition to her ...it'll be shown later (just my thought) .

That day,No one hears about sona's word that she has a condition to maitree...that she'll tell it later.

So let's see.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Zyada acha hona is also bad

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Maitree is responsible for Nandish being dependent on her.. I dont find selfless.. On the contrary she is trying to avoid moving on by being In Nandish's life for so long and maybe trying to keep Nandu with her in the form of Nandish

She lets him call her Maa

she should have known that being too much attached to kid will make the kid dependent her

still she is not trying to share Nandish's responsibility now with Ashish even now when he offered her an escape

Nandish is now Anti Nandu and Maitree is responsible for that subconsciously

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Posted: 2 years ago
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That’s true she should’ve moved on but she took it as her responsibility as a true friend which in turn turned against her!! time and again she kept saying once the mother comes back she will leave as in the past Nandini had told her mujhe kuch ho toh tu hai na mere bacche ka khayal rakhne ke liye!

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mrinmoyi_me

Maitree is responsible for Nandish being dependent on her.. I dont find selfless.. On the contrary she is trying to avoid moving on by being In Nandish's life for so long and maybe trying to keep Nandu with her in the form of Nandish

She lets him call her Maa

she should have known that being too much attached to kid will make the kid dependent her

still she is not trying to share Nandish's responsibility now with Ashish even now when he offered her an escape

Nandish is now Anti Nandu and Maitree is responsible for that subconsciously

From the beginning the makers are trying to show that nobody can manage nandish except maitree.

1. First time maitree brought nandish from the hospital,because the doc refused to give him the baby(no idea which hospital does that).

2. They showed Sona tai is hyper so she cant handle the baby

3. The dollar wala episode where maitree saved nandish..

4. Kusum is an asthma patient so she cant handle the baby..

5. Yesterday maitree was complaining to ashish that he didnt take care of the baby properly as he was busy with his work..

I think maitree is more attached to nandish as he was her emotional support when she became a widow and nandu was in coma. She revealed it to the judge..

I thinks she feels as if she is with nandu when she is with nandish..

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: Crazze4tv

That’s true she should’ve moved on but she took it as her responsibility as a true friend which in turn turned against her!! time and again she kept saying once the mother comes back she will leave as in the past Nandini had told her mujhe kuch ho toh tu hai na mere bacche ka khayal rakhne ke liye!

Still I find the Mairtee nandish relation problematic.

Any mother will be hurt to see his son calling someone else his mom when she was fighting for her own life meanwhile.

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Posted: 2 years ago
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Originally posted by: kala16

From the beginning the makers are trying to show that nobody can manage nandish except maitree.

1. First time maitree brought nandish from the hospital,because the doc refused to give him the baby(no idea which hospital does that).

2. They showed Sona tai is hyper so she cant handle the baby

3. The dollar wala episode where maitree saved nandish..

4. Kusum is an asthma patient so she cant handle the baby..

5. Yesterday maitree was complaining to ashish that he didnt take care of the baby properly as he was busy with his work..

I think maitree is more attached to nandish as he was her emotional support when she became a widow and nandu was in coma. She revealed it to the judge..

I thinks she feels as if she is with nandu when she is with nandish..

I found all this Mairtee Glorification badly executed. The reason for Maitree to be the one and only person for Nandish doesnt sound logical to me.

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