Dear Yashraj Television

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Dear Yashraj Televison,
I write to as an ardent viewer of your show Mahi Way. When Mahi way began it was assumed that this show will offer us a glimpse into life of a morbidly obese girl and her quest to live life on her own terms negating the societal norms in the process. This show spoke to me on more than one level as I am a real life Mahi. I am obese, around the same age group and I am career oriented. I loved this show because for once it showed my side of the story to the world, it told the world that I am a human just like them and not a caricature destined to be part of a circus. Forget the world it gave my extended a family a glimpse of how I think and what life means when everyone and their mother has free unwanted advice on losing weight.

However the recent episodes have taken the realistic approach of Mahi Way and turned it a fairytale gaga land. The reality remains that size zero is in and size 18 is sidelined. In such a scenario as a viewer it is impossible to digest the fact that a man like Ishaan or for that matter Shiv would fall for Mahi. I was hoping that your writing and scripting would answer this very question when Mahi asks Shiv, "Why does Ishaan want to marry ME", sadly the writing disappointed me when it took the safe and easy route by answering, "Just because! There is no reason, you cannot choose who you love"…REALLY? Do you want your audience to believe this after giving some brilliant realistic episodes. In reality do you expect Mahi to find a Shiv or Ishaan? Do Shiv or Ishaan exist for a size 18? More than likely the bigger the size higher the chances that one has to settle in life and marry a boy from Bhatinda chosen by mommy dear.

My question to you is this then, Why this change and abandonment of realism? And if you truly believe that there exists a Shiv or Ishaan for women of Mahi's size then please sign me up for that list or else stop selling candy floss dreams in the name of realism.

Yours truly,

A real life Mahi
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Posted: 15 years ago
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true...for the past few episodes this show has become a fairytale....specially shiv n ishan loving mahi...but i still love the show though
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hey, thanks for commenting. Don't get me wrong I like the show as well but it just seems unrealistic to have two so called good looking men with so called "perfection" falling for a non conventional girl like Mahi. In real life it is impossible for women of her size to get options in shopping let alone option in men!
Get my drift here? Other thing that irks me is why is Mahi always shown desperate to find a man, why do you need to have a man for your life to have meaning? But that's a different topic altogether lol
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Posted: 15 years ago
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i totally agree with u....i am a real life mahi as well and umm i know that it is NOT realistic that guys like SHIV and ISHAAN would fall in love with a girl like mahi...it is totally unrealistic.

plus i loveed mahi way and i still love it but i find it so annoying how mahi is so DESPERATE at times to just find a guy...please obese people r not like that.

and i would've been okay with shiv falling in love with mahi if they gave us a reason for him to love her....u know what i am saying? all they showed was how mahi would either be totally absolutely rude to a perfect shiv or if she talked to him nicely it was because she wanted to crib about something or someone with him....why did shiv fall in true love with mahi anyways?
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Posted: 15 years ago
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^^ Exactly Obese people are just like the rest of the crowd, just like not everyone of the average population is desperate similarly not every over weight person is desperate to find a mate. I can understand how Shiv would be best bud with Mahi and even though it is far fletched and highly unlikely in REAL life I can understand how he is drawn to Mahi's vivacious personality but all these "hot" men falling for Mahi is really not digestible to me!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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true ...not all obese ppl & not all skinny ppl r despos...but its also true tht there r ppl who r despos! which includes mahi...i dnt think mahi really represents all obese/overweight ppl just like roshni doesnt represent alll slim ppl. its just how mahi's character is sketched...& i did see ppl who r desperate n they r obese...& i also saw ppl who r desperate n they r skinny.

But def. agree tht MW has been quite unrealistic lately...realistic at some parts cuz of the actors natural acting...but the script is a total fairytale rite now. BUT BUT, we cant say its impossible. I also saw ppl who r overweight n obese n they have boyfrnd or husband who loves them dearly...i guess they r too lucky to have sum1 love them for wat they r , just like mahi-shiv. But i thought in MW, mahi was supposed to be the girl u feel bad for...but now the situation n track makes everybody envious of her :S lol...i dnt really know wat i m trying to say. I just know i luv mahi way to bits, its still a realistic show with an unrealistic track all of a sudden :| lol
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut

Hey, thanks for commenting. Don't get me wrong I like the show as well but it just seems unrealistic to have two so called good looking men with so called "perfection" falling for a non conventional girl like Mahi. In real life it is impossible for women of her size to get options in shopping let alone option in men!
Get my drift here? Other thing that irks me is why is Mahi always shown desperate to find a man, why do you need to have a man for your life to have meaning? But that's a different topic altogether lol



hey, yeah i totally get what you are saying..I watch this show on and off but lately its like she is all desperate to find a guy and somehow has two hot guys in love with her..I mean its hard enough to find one, she has like two! In real life, as much as i hate to admit this, the good looking, nice guys end up with the hot girls even those so called "hot" girls have a not so great personality..I mean the world is superficial and lets just admit it u know..However there are some cases where a guy falls for a girl because he is totally in love with her personality and who she is or even vice versa and this usually happens when the guy has the chance to know the girl really well and understand her..And i really don't think any of the guys in this case had a chance to totally know who Mahi is.
I am a normal/average size woman with a bit of dusky complexion so I am not the conventional indian fair skinny woman and its a different story on how i truly wish to see a normal woman on tv who is more focused on her career and who wnats a guy but is not too desperate about it that it takes over her life..
I think the main thing is just to be comfortable and accepting of who you are..
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Posted: 15 years ago
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hey all!

i totally agree wid all of u here n just want to add something more to it. Although, i m not real life Mahi ,( not roshini as well) even for girls of size zero there r no real ISHAAN n SHIV. Such perfection in a personality is a myth, only a work of imagination n not a true picture of human or MEN.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Originally posted by: _-sHoNaa-_

true ...not all obese ppl & not all skinny ppl r despos...but its also true tht there r ppl who r despos! which includes mahi...i dnt think mahi really represents all obese/overweight ppl just like roshni doesnt represent alll slim ppl. its just how mahi's character is sketched...& i did see ppl who r desperate n they r obese...& i also saw ppl who r desperate n they r skinny.

But def. agree tht MW has been quite unrealistic lately...realistic at some parts cuz of the actors natural acting...but the script is a total fairytale rite now. BUT BUT, we cant say its impossible. I also saw ppl who r overweight n obese n they have boyfrnd or husband who loves them dearly...i guess they r too lucky to have sum1 love them for wat they r , just like mahi-shiv. But i thought in MW, mahi was supposed to be the girl u feel bad for...but now the situation n track makes everybody envious of her :S lol...i dnt really know wat i m trying to say. I just know i luv mahi way to bits, its still a realistic show with an unrealistic track all of a sudden :| lol

Hey you know what? I used to pity her and now I feel really jealous.... But I have seen couples where the girl/boy is overweight and their partner is slim. And they seem quite happy with each other. But I do admit that guys like Ishaan n Shiv r way beyond the average population of men.
But if you want a celebrity example than I can think of Delnaaz n Rajeev Paul or even Manish n Poonam.... So not completely impossible I suppose.... but YES very very rare.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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yes exactly my point...ppl like shiv DO exist...but only lucky ppl get them. :(

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