Originally posted by: Brahmaputra
@Amrita - No mentions.😊 And I am sorry for using that "wh*re" word. Let me be clear on this so that it leaves no confusions. What I have understood while reading MB is that a woman marrying more than one man was not a big deal then (though we often don't find a princess doing so) and who to marry was finally the woman's choice only. So when Draupadi married five men, it was with her full consent. She loved her all husbands, till DS happened. I don't think any woman with a little self-respect would love her husband after an event like DS. So later she only dragged herself through them, which very rarely came out. This is my understanding. I am not sure how much of this could be correct. So when someone says Draupadi loved only Arjuna, question arises why did she marry all five men then? Only to get Arjuna??? Well, that does not make her a "battered woman" as she had full freedom to refuse other four. Instead, that reduces her only to a nymphomaniac (which was the word I forgot then. So had to use wh*re. Sorry)
What would people call a guy who sleeps with many women? Male wh*re???😆 And this Amar love of Arjuna only for Draupadi makes him that only. To me, this kind of view is equally insulting to both characters is what I meant.
Questions, I shall PM. No need to discuss here, I think.😊
Yes Jamy...likr I told Geetha...it all depends on wat assumptioms we make here.
If we assume she accepted willingly then this Ardi love can be slightly blasphemous.
But if she gave her consent bcoz of other issues then it could provide a tragic angle.
I am very confused myselg about the polyandry thing.
Yes it was not a taboo then...but also not very common. Nobody ever opposed it...slightly confusing for me.
I too dont have anything to prove Arjun loved Draupadi the most. Bcoz there is nothing to prove it.
However you see...men have this one advantage.
Men can marry again n again in the name of political alliance without their chatacter being questioned...
For example...wen Bajirao's dil saath mein dharkofies with Mastani n yet he still lives with Kashi...can we say he was a male-nymphomaniac? 😆
Or wen Akbar marries more Rajput princesses after his Amar Prem Gatha with Jodha...same question again?
Sorry...the feminist in me got excited...😆
You know me...
Personally I fel that this polyandry itself is an interpolation or atleast this extra love for Arjun is.
Reply to me in PM...
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