Sanity and Strength - I Did my retrospection! Did you ?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hi All,

I am new to this forum as a logged in member but, i often see across all the posts :). I am a Data Architect by profession. I liked this serial but very reluctant to come to this forum because of sheer presence of negative posts.

Well, i thought why don't i use my profession as a mechanism to study the patterns, behaviors which cause this negative.

My only intention of this forum is provide data (don't trust my authenticity if you are not inline with my analysis)

Analysis:
Source of Data: MB forum and twitter (through the data pull from twitter feeds and API's and through post dialect in Indiaforums)

You can call me a spammer but, API's are available to everyone and new products are built on user data. Google wouldn't be what it is today without user data.


POsitive to Negative trend :
The start to this forum was positive (a layman could say this :-) ) but, the hurdles are caused due to
a. Characterizations
b. Fandom

The cause of negativity is characters but its impact was on Fandom. So let us shift to fandom

Many almost 90% of people in this forum give rationale inputs during negative times but, there are 10% of people who come in and spread the word of fire. This 10% belong to both the fan groups (nothing in specific). If you go through the posts or data analysis you will read that

the issue is no longer between Actor A and Actor B but, it is between the two people who are always opposing. It has become more personal for them rather than in support for any actors. So if any article comes then its a gala time. (Nothing wrong in it though very scary for oneself)


Take it or leave it:
So the question here is do you want to maintain sanity in your approach or fandom ?. Most of them in this forum are on par or below 22-23 years. Once you get over these things you will wonder why did i spend 20-30% of my day time in these petty issues?

Please retrospect yourself and think about maintaining Sanity in your approach as it will surely make you happy :-)

Articles:
Media is someone who can break or make things because word of mouth is stronger than rationale data for many of us. So make your decisions well.


Sanity and Strength: (Personal Opinion - So please let it live in peace)
This one is for Drashti Dhami - She was not good at hosting but, i appreciate her endurance and ability to deal with things especially after watching today;s episode. This girl has been flooded with negativity from past 25 days.I don't want to be in that position. I understand that she was not good but it doesn't mean that she deserves such negativity. People learn from mistakes and i am sure she has fallen to rise up. I have not followed any TV star in my past 6 years of my watching Indian TV but, thought to follow her because of the guts to deal with things.

To all of you -
Kisiki muskuraahaton pe ho nisaar
Kisika dard mil sake to le udhaar
Kisike waaste ho tere dil mein pyaar
Jeena issi ka naam hai...


Let go things and stay happy and don't get influenced by the 10% of people :) and 10% of people i hope it turns out to 5 or may be 0% by close of this show :)

Take care and always have lots of fun and positivity in life because - The bigger show is your life

PS: I know the question about my profession and how i spent my time in forum may arise. Yes, i have work but, more than that if i can spread my study to show some light it is always good.


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Posted: 11 years ago
#2
A technically analysed post it was!!! 👏 At one point, even I thought, you know much more than a Newbie experiences in general...
Very sane approach towards the current scenario, I would say!!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Awesome Post...
U said it all very well... I don't think I can say anything more...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hello Blindside !!!

Your Posts always Pulls me in...just saw this link on twitter ...n headed right here ...

n yeah few ppl keep posting here to make the forum a happy place...but u know what again the posts we make kind of gets misinterpreted ...n ppl feel that its kind of a show off !!!

i really donno know *what gala time* they are having by putting one down !!! its just beyond my level of understanding !!! i like n love the actors ...n my like for them will NEVER waver just because of a few immature souls n their so called theories n mockery !!!
n again most of the ppl here are below 23 ... yes ...when u get know the world ...u will get to know things better 👍🏼...

be it a post on the show or this...ur thoughts on it are a great read !!! i really appreciate it !!!! its really wonderful !! ⭐️

when someone needs the support after all the negative media publishing all i see here is certain ppl rejoicing ... not for the fact that a new host has been entered but the inner joy then get when they put her down !!!

these line were bang on !!!
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Sanity and Strength: (Personal Opinion - So please let it live in peace)
This one is for Drashti Dhami - She was not good at hosting but, i appreciate her endurance and ability to deal with things especially after watching today;s episode. This girl has been flooded with negativity from past 25 days.I don't want to be in that position. I understand that she was not good but it doesn't mean that she deserves such negativity. People learn from mistakes and i am sure she has fallen to rise up. I have not followed any TV star in my past 6 years of my watching Indian TV but, thought to follow her because of the guts to deal with things.

To all of you -
Kisiki muskuraahaton pe ho nisaar
Kisika dard mil sake to le udhaar
Kisike waaste ho tere dil mein pyaar
Jeena issi ka naam hai...


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and i have been avoiding the forum for a while.. except for sundays where a few of my friends n i make a point to post inspite of all the health issues just to make this forum a better place ...
even if its a few ppl who read...the message is being conveyed ... ur posts can bring in the change 👍🏼!!! lets Hope !! afterall the Bigger show is LIFE !!!




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Posted: 11 years ago
#5
Lovely analysis on the state of the forum . Clearly as you stated the 10% negativity has engulfed the 90% of positivity . I personally never open those posts . Their user names are a big giveaway and I steer clear of them. But, is it not like negativity is winning over positivity. I request all those people who made positive posts to come back and flood the forum so that negativity is forced to withdraw. As for your comments on DD , I am proud of her and her never say die attitude. and I agree with you.
Edited by GREENSHIRT - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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awesome post...nice analysis...agree with it...here people can't differentiate between an actor and char...where one is called a rapist then other one a rape victim...


you can add this to your analysis then most of them hate actors due to their fans... which makes me wonder how come we hate an actor just because the fan of that actor has bashed my fav...how come people pass snide comments about their personal lives without knowing them personally?

Sanity and Strength: (Personal Opinion - So please let it live in peace)
This one is for Drashti Dhami - She was not good at hosting but, i appreciate her endurance and ability to deal with things especially after watching today;s episode. This girl has been flooded with negativity from past 25 days.I don't want to be in that position. I understand that she was not good but it doesn't mean that she deserves such negativity. People learn from mistakes and i am sure she has fallen to rise up. I have not followed any TV star in my past 6 years of my watching Indian TV but, thought to follow her because of the guts to deal with things.

To all of you -
Kisiki muskuraahaton pe ho nisaar
Kisika dard mil sake to le udhaar
Kisike waaste ho tere dil mein pyaar
Jeena issi ka naam hai...


well said...sad to see certain people are rejoicing on all the negative articles that has been published...even a few months back the other group were rejoicing for someone's exit and all the negative articles on that person...Wish these actors along with their increasing popularity have saner fans...
Edited by raj80 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Cant agree more to what you said... 👏
Edited by pennu - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Hello Blindside :)
first of all, let me applaud you for this post! much needed ! people in this forum are very badly in need of such reality checks every once in a while ! and thank God you decided to make such a positive post ! well done !

I agree with you, at the very beginning this forum used to be a much healthier place for everyone.. But loads has changed now because of the fan wars and the negative aspects to the main characters !

the issue is no longer between Actor A and Actor B but, it is between the two people who are always opposing. It has become more personal for them rather than in support for any actors. So if any article comes then its a gala time. (Nothing wrong in it though very scary for oneself)

Very well said ! I soo agree with you !
Truly the issue is no longer between Actor A and Actor B ! fans try to prove their point most of the time and obviously end up offending the opposite fandom. People who belong to different fandoms in this forum fail to realize that they end up hating on the actors because they have had one or more bad experiences with the opposite fandom! and making that an excuse to bash/hate on the actor is really immature ! This is the sole reason soo much negativity surrounds this forum ! cause people can't respect each others point of view !


And as for both the main leads who get bashed left right and center by freaky fandom people, all I have to say is that, People Throw Rocks at Things That Shine !

Steph

xx

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Posted: 11 years ago
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A much sane post wth wndrful analysis...u gt the real pic of our current status...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Loved your post...i hope sanity prevails.

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