I am new to this forum as a logged in member but, i often see across all the posts :). I am a Data Architect by profession. I liked this serial but very reluctant to come to this forum because of sheer presence of negative posts.
Well, i thought why don't i use my profession as a mechanism to study the patterns, behaviors which cause this negative.
My only intention of this forum is provide data (don't trust my authenticity if you are not inline with my analysis)
Analysis:
Source of Data: MB forum and twitter (through the data pull from twitter feeds and API's and through post dialect in Indiaforums)
You can call me a spammer but, API's are available to everyone and new products are built on user data. Google wouldn't be what it is today without user data.
POsitive to Negative trend :
The start to this forum was positive (a layman could say this :-) ) but, the hurdles are caused due to
a. Characterizations
b. Fandom
The cause of negativity is characters but its impact was on Fandom. So let us shift to fandom
Many almost 90% of people in this forum give rationale inputs during negative times but, there are 10% of people who come in and spread the word of fire. This 10% belong to both the fan groups (nothing in specific). If you go through the posts or data analysis you will read that
the issue is no longer between Actor A and Actor B but, it is between the two people who are always opposing. It has become more personal for them rather than in support for any actors. So if any article comes then its a gala time. (Nothing wrong in it though very scary for oneself)
Take it or leave it:
So the question here is do you want to maintain sanity in your approach or fandom ?. Most of them in this forum are on par or below 22-23 years. Once you get over these things you will wonder why did i spend 20-30% of my day time in these petty issues?
Please retrospect yourself and think about maintaining Sanity in your approach as it will surely make you happy :-)
Articles:
Media is someone who can break or make things because word of mouth is stronger than rationale data for many of us. So make your decisions well.
Sanity and Strength: (Personal Opinion - So please let it live in peace)
This one is for Drashti Dhami - She was not good at hosting but, i appreciate her endurance and ability to deal with things especially after watching today;s episode. This girl has been flooded with negativity from past 25 days.I don't want to be in that position. I understand that she was not good but it doesn't mean that she deserves such negativity. People learn from mistakes and i am sure she has fallen to rise up. I have not followed any TV star in my past 6 years of my watching Indian TV but, thought to follow her because of the guts to deal with things.
To all of you -
Kisiki muskuraahaton pe ho nisaar
Kisika dard mil sake to le udhaar
Kisike waaste ho tere dil mein pyaar
Jeena issi ka naam hai...
Let go things and stay happy and don't get influenced by the 10% of people :) and 10% of people i hope it turns out to 5 or may be 0% by close of this show :)
Take care and always have lots of fun and positivity in life because - The bigger show is your life
PS: I know the question about my profession and how i spent my time in forum may arise. Yes, i have work but, more than that if i can spread my study to show some light it is always good.