Really liking this side of Madhu

I know a lot of you think that Madhu is crazy and should fall in love with Raja already but I am actually happy with the way she is. I'm really enjoying seeing this side of Madhu. I've seen her cry enough, from Rishbala days to AK days. I'm happy to see Madhu firm on what she wants. I hope she doesn't just fall for him easily. Raja is the opposite of Raju and that was the one she took care of and nurtured. For her to accept a totally different person (because that is pretty much what he is, a different personality inside the same body) is difficult.
Another reason I hope she doesn't bow down is because she shouldn't have to suffer by living the way his in-laws are and the way he thinks things should be. Why should she have to cover her head all the time if she doesn't want to? Just to be clear, I am in no way bashing anyone who covers their head on a daily basis (props to you because that is like a job in itself), but rather why she should if she didn't grow up with those beliefs- women can't have phones, or leave the house with out permission, when she has practically grow up not having to face these problems.
I think if she were to accept him the way he is, he would never change. Just as he has said before, that that is who he is and is never going to change.

then she should not jump on raja seeing a snake or a lizard

Originally posted by: orianthi

I agree @Shas3! It is unrealistic to expect her to fall in love with him right now. She doesn't know him, she doesn't accept him and she doesn't accept his behaviour in general. Not to mention those family traditions and their behaviour in general. She needs time.

As you said it is also great that we are seeing her doing what she wants and not crying or bending to anyone's will. I am sure those would be fine. We just need to give them some time. I am sure Raja would inact some positive changes in Madhu as well.

Not many women are shown to be strong and independent on serials so I really like that Madhu is firm now regardless of what Raja does! I have seen her cry and bow down enough!

Nice post,yeah liking this madhu very much.

Originally posted by: rima4ever

then she should not jump on raja seeing a snake or a lizard

why does she keep giving mixed signals to him

now after this is want raja to be ruthless and kamina

She would not have been in the position with the snake had he not forced her to go with him to that village anyway.
Regardless of how many times she may jump into his arms when she is scared she has still told him numerous times that she wants to go away from him and actually tried to run away more than once. If that doesn't send a clear message to him then I don't know what will. She has begged him, folded her hands and pleaded with him to leave her alone.
Raja can get how ruthless he wants to be but this time around i want a determined Madhu as well!

Originally posted by: Sanjhi

Nice post,yeah liking this madhu very much.

Originally posted by: Shas3

She would not have been in the position with the snake had he not forced her to go with him to that village anyway.
Regardless of how many times she may jump into his arms when she is scared she has still told him numerous times that she wants to go away from him and actually try to ran away more than once. If that doesn't send a clear message to him then I don't know what will. She has begged him, folded her hands and pleaded with him to leave her alone.
Raja can get how ruthless he wants to be but this time around i want a determined Madhu as well!

Though I don't watch regularly still ur post is quiet refreshing from daily routine posts ... They must show that now a days women don't take shit from anyone be it their husband or family .. At least she isn't behaving like mahaan aatma to do anything for love puppy type husband

Originally posted by: abba12

Though I don't watch regularly still ur post is quiet refreshing from daily routine posts ... They must show that now a days women don't take shit from anyone be it their husband or family .. At least she isn't behaving like mahaan aatma to do anything for love puppy type husband

Thank you! I am sick of seeing a woman having to sacrifice everything for others. I want Madhu to have her own opinion and stand up for herself. Times have changed and so does the type of women we need to see on TV. Love aside and self respect aside.