RK wants to hide from reality of life and just be carefree

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Reading Ria's diary (sorry if I got her name wrong), recognising she's a carefree spirit and carrying on reading without her permission, because his RK he doesn't think about asking others permission, but his recognising in Ria that she is like him once upon a time, we can see where they are getting at with this, before settling down and getting married and taking on responsibilities and trying to be good, follow the law, abiding by it, he doesn't want any of that, he wants to drive recklessly like Ria and experience danger and adventure, and when he stops reading all around he can see Madhu's success posters and in the newspapers, and he escapes again into Ria's life, carefree girl he can go an possibly recapture his young and carefree days with and escape for the time he is with her that his stardom isn't what it used to be, and that his wife is an overnight success.

I would challenge this way of thinking, the CV's have shown RK to live by his own rules, he doesn't follow the elders rules in the house for example, what he wants happens, if we think about it like that isn't he a carefree spirit and despite marriage hasn't this continued? It has, so it's lying to himself that he is burdened with doing the right thing and not what he wishes to do. As I watched yesterday when RK didn't recognise his putting stress on Madhu and today Dipali mentioning that he forced Madhu to do the film so he is to blame, though Dipali is now making her move to get rid of Pabho, but RK wasn't listening to them, it seems to me I saw a tired RK he doesn't want to deal with the grown up stuff anymore, he doesn't want to decide who is wrong or right here, his already discussed the matter, made a decision who was wrong, that's enough time on this issue, prefers not to think more about it, to reflect what went wrong here because if he and Madhu plan to have a family, they need to take care this doesn't happen again, but for him it's Madhu's responsibility not to take stress, it doesn't matter if he is applying the stress, she shouldn't take any of it to heart and stay happy, which is impossible for her to do. So they are at an impasse, his set his mind that she is the wrongful party, and she is unable to convince him otherwise. Next time she falls pregnant it will be just the same Dipali will be there to stir things up, Madhu takes tension again, and her saas is supporting RK's view too, that Madhu was unable to stay peacefully and it was all up to her to take care, though she was hearing her son unleashing his temper on Madhu regularly. With such a husband and family it is better to leave and to realise all that happened and what will happen on the event of a further reconciliation at a later date. But we know that isn't going to be the case, she will come back for more pain in the future...glutton for punishment that she is 😆 But RK is acting like a petulant child at the moment.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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beautifully said nafisa! you have a terrific point here. RK does nto wnt to be responsible enough. he wnts that brattish old RK. d responsibility of beign good n right think n owning up ur mistakes is too much of adult for RK. he wd rather continue to be old RK hitting on fast lane.
it is going to be interesting to see whn RK gets what he wants, is he going to be happy!! he will not hanker after somethign or rahter some one. let's see how cvs are taking it.

bt in his effort to reclaim his lost youth (or his zest for life which he think he has lost) how much low will he fall down? that is my worry!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Awesome Nafisa !!!

gotta say this has to be the BEST post today !!!

thanks to priyachand !!!for the link !!!


u said it right !!! i loved all that u wrote !!! 👏

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I just wanted to add that I now realise what the social cause is, that being the burden on a pregnant married woman, the responsibility to safeguard the child is hers and hers alone, that perhaps the CV's are saying this is common in society where stress given to pregnant women by their husbands and sasural can cause loss of a child and these people put the blame on her for taking tension, it's her responsibility not to be stressed out, irregardless that a woman has got hormones during pregnancy that also causes mood swings and it's up to the people around her to pacify her and keep her calm, here they are showing that the sasural does not think in that way instead it's you that has the burden to fight to have your child.
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Thank you dear 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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You are right RK is trying to escape from reality and reclaim the carefree life he had before. But what he doesn't realize is in doing so he is losing the one person who has selflessly stood by him and loved him without any expectations. In the future he should not blame anyone for the state he's going to be in because he has single handedly destroyed his own happiness.
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Thank you 😊
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Thanks 😊
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Originally posted by: priyachand

beautifully said nafisa! you have a terrific point here. RK does nto wnt to be responsible enough. he wnts that brattish old RK. d responsibility of beign good n right think n owning up ur mistakes is too much of adult for RK. he wd rather continue to be old RK hitting on fast lane.

it is going to be interesting to see whn RK gets what he wants, is he going to be happy!! he will not hanker after somethign or rahter some one. let's see how cvs are taking it.

bt in his effort to reclaim his lost youth (or his zest for life which he think he has lost) how much low will he fall down? that is my worry!


priya thank you, also thanks for telling Bella about my post 😳 About RK that's exactly it, he doesn't want to spend anymore time to reflect what went wrong, what were the stress factors, with a view to repairing the damage and see that it doesn't happen again. It will be interesting now that he refuses to face up to his own misdeeds during Madhu's short pregnancy whether he will forget completely about this period, all that happened, is it out of his mind in the only prevalent thought about Madhu's rise to stardom or he can recognise what he was doing during the time he is with the other girl, because I feel the CV's plan to show that as he is unable to lose his thoughts completely in adventurous pursuits with Ria, when Madhu leaves him. So not to worry, his conscience will trouble him, then redemption part 2.

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Posted: 11 years ago
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when did we get his first redemption nafisa! it ws cut too short!!!
i wnt this time to be proper redemption! if they dont show i wdnt' evn mind having a tragic ending. becos madhu cant go back to this RK. and RK cannto get away with such worse insults. he needs to repent

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