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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manonids

Nice post Opti !


I can fathom why fans are upset with the episode, but its actually not that bad. Its more of their emotional reaction but both RK-MB arent behaving odd to view it from a holistic view.
RK ...gripped by psychologcal fear of losing his earned name and fame, loses his cool when anyone remotely comes close to ruining his mission ! ...He is very much aware of Madhu feelings and emotions but he isint getting any easy route to sort this matter since Madhu is deeply attached in her family life. ..he gave her some time to adjust but he's nt patient enough to tolerate much now and then ! ..Quite understandable ! Its just about driving emotion! ...Give some time to cool off, RK will find his ultimate solace in Madhu only !

Madhubala ...She hasnt seen world beyond RK and his family ...she is pretty much happy with the life RK has given her so far, cherishing those small things she does on daily basis. Even she doesnt mind gng through tough routes if it means wellbeing of RK and his family. Quite understandable !

Doing RK movie is like a job for her to help and support her husband ...she understands the stand taken by him, but expecting her to leave everything aside for a movie, which she isnt halting or stopping intentionally, is irrational ! ...she isint any creative person who can feel passionate abt movies all of sudden just because RK says so . Madhu wanted to keep KC despite disapproval since its about RK first and his life ! She wants to hold on to her simple life without letting RK down on professional front ...but it will take some to be pro in multitasking.

RK doesnt want to lose his career, Madhu doesnt want to lose her simple life ...whosoever, comes and challenges them in their comfort zone bears the wrath! No one is at fault ! ..Its just human nature to react when someone tries to crash ur dream world !

Can we expect RK to do rituals or get involved in family issues like Madhu does ? Then why such high expectations from Madhu to become a consummate heroine to switch from one gear to another in no time ? They might love each other to the extremes, but on practical grounds, their priorities are different and ideally, they would never compromise on it ! ..Its just about reaching a common ground, which sooner or later, they will find out hopefully !

PS: avoid if it looks like ranting !



You are right. RK's passion is acting and he will go to any length to protect his career from collapsing. Madhu's interest lies in being the devoted wife, dil and future mom to RK's babies. The derailment of RK's career has forced her into a field she is least interested in and maybe even fears and detests. She is willing to alter her plans so as to keep RK from financial ruin but she is not willing to alter her life completely. She is unwilling to budge in the KC fasting because it is not only a ritual she wants to follow but it also involves her belief that RK's life will be prolonged by completing it. Nothing, not even RK's tantrums or his humiliating and insulting her will come in the way of her prayers and fasting for his life. She expected him to understand that but then RK too is expecting her to understand his predicament. If the woman has a repeat of the fainting spell of the previous KC, the shooting for his film will be shelved for one more day. He has far too much riding on this film - reputation, money, his very house which has been mortgaged to get the loan.


As you said, both would have to find a middle ground but for that RK has to cool first. Would his family and foes let him cool off? Or would this snowball into further crisis? I guess we'll just have to wait and see.

One thing is certain though. Madhu's journey into filmdom is not going to be smooth and at some point her family life is going to suffer big time. RK would not make it any easier as his strong personality is going to be a thorn in the flesh.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: _charu_


RK is not asking her to develop a passion for films & forget her personal life , that's an unreasonable demand...he may want her to learn to keep her professional and personal life separate & to develop a professional attitude...and, not to bring the personal issues on the set..like today was KC so she got a scene changed , the first day she was zoned out bec. of her personal problems, she ended up with a bruised feet bec. she performed a pooja and then she stomped off the set to explain Radha...once the film is over, she can go back to her life, what is it that she's gonna miss? bache, paranthe, saas, pooja, ghar, she has to take care of them life long..

it's a tough job being an actor & despite of health issues, family issues, personal issues with co stars or the team etc. etc., they have to continue working...However, both were being kiddish as far as the KC day is concerned ...just bec. Madhu was acting stubborn, RK wanted to be one up and vice versa 😆


@ Charu ...RK demand from Madhu to put her personal life on backburner completely is unreasonable knowing how involved she has been in family from the beginning ...its deeply rooted in her upbringing ...Madhu is coming with baggage on shoots since it comes naturally to her ..how can she suddenly become aloof to what's happening back home? .From where will she draw the strength/passion to leave her crying MIL or sulking Pabho, running down for shooting? 😆..Its not easy job to enact other role when ur pulled somewhere else emotionally! She isint getting assurance from Radha and RK is not letting her breathe to adjust as per his expectations! she doesnt understand how to switch from one role to another with finesse !...about KC, it was her right which RK disapproves ...its like how dare u stop me from keeping the fast ?😆...I will do it and u will break it ! Bas! 😆.Rest, doesnt matter !😆...

..I know they are kiddish but he has to understand that what he is doing is driven by his passion for his work, ofcourse, career is at stake, and Madhu help is more like a wife extending her support ! The more he will put her in strain, it will become difficult for both of them !


PS: I am not supporting Madhu, apparently quite mad at her for not cold shouldering him post KC ! 😆..but its my emotional reaction, not a rational response !
Edited by Manonids - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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amazing analysis i must say it made me think differently about that scene
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_


RK is not asking her to develop a passion for films & forget her personal life , that's an unreasonable demand...he may want her to learn to keep her professional and personal life separate & to develop a professional attitude...and, not to bring the personal issues on the set..like today was KC so she got a scene changed , the first day she was zoned out bec. of her personal problems, she ended up with a bruised feet bec. she performed a pooja and then she stomped off the set to explain Radha...once the film is over, she can go back to her life, what is it that she's gonna miss? bache, paranthe, saas, pooja, ghar, she has to take care of them life long..

it's a tough job being an actor & despite of health issues, family issues, personal issues with co stars or the team etc. etc., they have to continue working...However, both were being kiddish as far as the KC day is concerned ...just bec. Madhu was acting stubborn, RK wanted to be one up and vice versa 😆


But thats the thing right; bache, paranthe , saas pooj , ghar are as important to Madhu as his career is to RK. May not sound worthy to RK or us but for her it is.
Just like acting is RK's passion and dream; being a housewife is Madhu's. So yeah she is going to miss beeing a housewife for the time the movie is being shot even when she knows she has alife time to do the same because thats where her heart is.
Yes Madhu having to give it up temporarily may or may not turn out to be a big deal in the end but it sure is daunting initially. It takes time to transit from what one has been doing all the while to something new be it anything She cant switch off thinking about home and other related things and stop caring about them one fine day and act professionally and then switch back to being a house wife once the movie is over. Not as easy as it sounds. Achieving the balance between the two always takes time and support and that is what she is not getting from any quater.
the more he is insisting to give up her housewife form, the more she is resisting and the more she is resisting, the more he is insisting

Edited by unlimited_craze - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Loved ur post. U made us understand what MB directors can't. But Question is can't RK just leave his ego for some time.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manonids

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@ Charu ...RK demand from Madhu to put her personal life on backburner completely is unreasonable knowing how involved she has been in family from the beginning ...its deeply rooted in her upbringing ...Madhu is coming with baggage on shoots since it comes naturally to her ..how can she suddenly become aloof to what's happening back home? .From where will she draw the strength/passion to leave her crying MIL or sulking Pabho, running down for shooting? 😆..Its not easy job to enact other role when ur pulled somewhere else emotionally! She isint getting assurance from Radha and RK is not letting her breathe to adjust as per his expectations! she doesnt understand how to switch from one role to another with finesse !...about KC, it was her right which RK disapproves ...its like how dare u stop me from keeping the fast ?😆...I will do it and u will break it ! Bas! 😆.Rest, doesnt matter !😆...


Nids, before her marriage, she was working..she has seen her mother & family working...then why this sudden obsession for paranthe & bache ? 😆 Now she doesn't need THIS much of training, she must be well aware of the dynamics of the industry, the hectic schedules & what all compromises which have to be made in personal life, the role of media etc. etc. ...she's worrying for all the wrong reasons, that's the problem..or may be it's clunk..or may be it's just my POV...if she was worried for the bhavishyavani & nivaran, it was understandable..but it was shown that she doesn't believe in it but she's doing it for Pabo's satisfaction, and out of love for RK, bec. any kind of pooja doesn't go waste..it was for RK's unwell being so it was answered...whatever it was, i'm glad it's brushed aside..


@bold 🤣


this is exactly what she needs to learn..to shut her off emotionally from one role and play the other, of course, she can take her own sweet time...but this is the need of the hour...Initially , she had Radha's support but Radha put her in a tight spot which led to all these problems on the KC ..and uptil now, she had RK's support, he was very patient with her , this, when every alternate day, the shooting was halted bec. of Madhu...but it changed when MC threatened him to quit & reminded him that movie making is a serious business and Madhu cannot continue with this attitude..If RK didn't support her, she wouldn't get away with what she had been doing all this while 😆

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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Charu , The whole thing is Madhu listens to her heart & RK listens to his mind . Madhu said this before too she listens to her heart & always will listen to her heart only . RK only listens to his mind so emotions are nothing for him .

Both Madhu & RK are different & also extreme . So it will take huge thing in their life to understand this & then come to some solution .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: unlimited_craze


But thats the thing right; bache, paranthe , saas pooj , ghar are as important to Madhu as his career is to RK. May not sound worthy to RK or us but for her it is.
Just like acting is RK's passion and dream; being a housewife is Madhu's. So yeah she is going to miss beeing a housewife for the time the movie is being shot even when she knows she has alife time to do the same because thats where her heart is.
Yes Madhu having to give it up temporarily may or may not turn out to be a big deal in the end but it sure is daunting initially. It takes time to transit from what one has been doing all the while to something new be it anything She cant switch off thinking about home and other related things and stop caring about them one fine day and act professionally and then switch back to being a house wife once the movie is over. Not as easy as it sounds. Achieving the balance between the two always takes time and support and that is what she is not getting from any quater.
the more he is insisting to give up her housewife form, the more she is resisting and the more she is resisting, the more he is insisting


this was never the point of discussion as I said already that RK may NOT be expecting this from Madhu, but expect her to develop a professional attitude whereby personal issues are not brought on the sets ...which makes perfect sense to me...similarly , the professional issues must not be brought home...

I think at the workplace, irrespective of the profession, one HAS to leave their ghar ke issues at home and not let their work get affected by it...and Madhu was working before she got married so she must be knowing this...now this is not AS difficult as it seems to be...

@bold this is the bone of contention...to play bahu's role perfectly, it's not possible without Radha's support, to play the heroine's role perfectly, it's not possible without RK's support , to play bahu, wife and heroine TOGETHER, she should have Radha AND RK's support , which is impossible , given that RK is not on talking terms with Radha and this is what Madhu is aiming at...not only this, RK and Radha are expecting 2 completely different things from Madhu...but where did the problem crop up ? when Madhu said she will perform ALL the roles perfectly...n RK is trying to show it to her that she cannot...and practically speaking, it's impossible...no matter how much you try, kahin na kahin kuch choot hi jayega..compromises have to be made then personally or professionally...firstly , Madhu should stop being over critical about herself...it's all in her mind...ke Radha naraz hai ya RK naraz hai..c'mon it's impossible to keep everyone happy at the same time..
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