Episode 290 Discussion: 5th June 2013 - Page 2

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Posted: 12 years ago
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An awesome episode. DVD were just perfect. The episode was so good that I sat through Sultan scenes (ok, I admit I cheated, I did forward a teensy bit)
  • RK dialogues. Absolutely loved:
    • RK's question to Madhu on what the man he hated was doing in his house, his bedroom, with his bride, on his wedding day.
    • How he asked her when exactly she intended to tell him the truth. Today, tomorrow, never?
    • And his response - when Madhu said that she feared losing him - implying that she had lost him anyway as a result of her deception.
  • A disillusioned RK is feeling betrayed, and struggling to come to terms with the reality of his new Madhu, vs. the mirage of a selfless forgiving angel he had in his mind.
  • When things cool down, he will figure out, if she could have forgiven him for what he did to her (which was exponentially worse than what she was planning), he could presumably do the same. And, that he is as desperately in love with the new Madhu, warts and all - as with the old. But that's going to be the material that makes up the next few weeks.
  • Madhu's begging him to forgive her was understandable - this is a woman who is desperately trying to save her most precious relationship.
  • Loved the body language between the two of them as they were talking. Both talking, both listening.
  • The entire package: the sets, Madhu and RK combined to make the episode absolutely visually stunning.
  • Sultan gives the orders to pack bags, after having received the message loud and clear that Madhu has not a drop of romantic interest in him. But wait, Papa Sultan had made his drunken entry. Rats. Kaka – unpack those bags!

The precap:
  • RK's going to go through with the wedding, but what's going on in his mind? That volte-face seems way too sudden.
  • Padmini sighting!!! Never a dull moment.
Well, I'll certainly be watching tomorrow.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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all this while, Madhu didn't know that she loves RK , after the unwedding and whenever they hurted each other...same case with RK...ab they're discussing the issue ?? 😆 it's not fair to either of them...i hope they continue the discussion after marriage
Charu - Definitely discuss karenge, only discussion hoga..itna ki no wonder there will be no SR.
Yeh couple to pagal hai hi!. Duffer bhi hain. Now I just want those 7 pheras to be done with. I'm going to be tense after the 4th phera...😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice episode . What I felt today is Rk ia victimising himself. He totally fogot the fact that once upon a time he did some thing worse than this to her. Guess the unwedding saree and mangalsutra play its part only after the wedding. It may help Rk to rewind his memory and realise what he did to her. Obviously he is marrying her in anger but I am sure time will heal this wound also like it healed madhu's. I still believe that Rk still loves Madhu like Madhu kept loving him even after the betrayal. He can'tt hate her he is just angry. Madhu is a total match and equal to rk only now previously she was an angel and he was a human being . Now both are equally flawed characters.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Soundarya22

I'm going to be tense after the 4th phera...😆

You and me both, my friend! 😆 I think I'm going to have to keep a bag of popcorn and other snacks next to me while I'm watching that episode. Stress eating and all.
Edited by river123 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: minu_8

Angeena.. He said nazia I think..

I agree with your review.. I too wanted rk to acknowledge that he pushed her to do what she did.. Yesterday's flashbacks indicated he understood it but today he didn't voiceit.. Why was he saying dhoka so many times when he did it first?
I couldn't understand him today? Sometimes I felt he felt betrayed not because of what madhu planned to do to him but that MADHU the angel decided to do such things.. Like he couldn't cone to terms with the idea that she could plan to hurt someone so badly much less him inspite of what he did.. he is holding her to too high standards..
But why was he saying ab tumne mujhe kaunsa paa liya.. And then suddenly tmr he announces their wedding? I hope he doesnt have any kameena thoughts in his mind again
I am not sure.. I will wait to read others reviews especially shri's 😕


Wedding is an action, a business to take care of. That can be easily done. You go and get married.

But emotion is not an action, it is a feeling. The two of them deeply in love couple had a disastrous moment right before the wedding event. How can love just blaze out amidst so many other emotions that RK is going through.

One simple stressing fact may drive away the loving emotion, and here RK's apple cart is toppled. What is left with him ?! Nothing. He has shattered dream. And he is not wasting any time just sitting there. He is still in action. Controlled himself, took her out to talk to her...

While Madhu's only emotion at this time is damage control and determination of her unified purpose of not to lose RK, she will not feel the stress to decide. She will say anything, do anything that will help RK stay with her, even if he says hurting words to her or is unreasonable, as her work at this time is to keep him calm, take care of him. She is in a better position to nurse him.

But RK is going through range of emotions where breaking and doing away with things is the easiest thing he can think of. He is not having a focus like Madhu to decide what he has to do. He has the rationality now to understand that his dream is gone and so wedding holds no meaning. But then he also has the emotionality to understand that there is Madhu who is holding him, trying to convince him, talking to him. Being a man, he needs to think about himself, Madhu and also the wedding that is announced to the world. There is lot at stake here. When it comes to being ruthless, he can still hold the guts and call off the wedding as it is totally meaningless to marry with heavy heart. But then, he cannot deny that underneath his disappointment, his anger for Madhu becoming like him, which is the reason for his tears, so much that he might want to cry some more if Madhu and all the wedding paraphernalia was not there, that he cannot be ruthless, that he will not find it within him to be ruthless. But then there is his RK personality which he needs to preserve now. He needs to do justice to himself and Madhu. So punish he will Madhu for whatever she did to shatter his dream on his wedding day, but reward also he will by marrying her. And he is drama king. So who knows what drama he has planned.

When you love deeply, it becomes crazy and unreasonable. That is the problem with RK and Madhu. One wrong on principle basis , will make them go whack. Now RK has gone whack emotionally (not egoistically like during 4 slaps). I don't know what he will do. But I just know from personal experience that if I or my sibs have been angry at anything with each other, we used to abstain from talking for days. My sister took it to years. Every hurt used to change our relationship for better or worse, but the bond only strengthened across the years. We never let parents get involved in our fights. That was off-limits for them. Most times, they never knew that we are not on talking terms. So all semblance of family and regular business goes on, but coming back to talking happened only after a period of time when anger subsided. That way we can be called hard-hearted. Ego and Love barabar. There never used to be sorry or anything. There used to be just silence and actions that would let the other see how far one was truthful to his thought or is regretting that things happened as it should not have. Inspite of all that, we are not sure, if we will not hurt each other. Thing is we still are only people we feel comfortable with and can trust our lives with. To yeh sab chalta hai, even as it hurts.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: archiesview

I was disappointed with RK today. Why isn't he able to forgive Madhu when she forgave him for a much worse sin. He is hurt very much. He could not believe that Madhu could think of hurting him since he knows how much she loves him at the same time. She was the only person he trusted with his eyes closed ( because if he had observed her he could easily find that she was faking). May be he needs some time for letting everything sink in.

Saw Paddo in the precap, wonder what plans she has for ruining the wedding? Looks like RK is still angry.
As usual, superb performances by the leads 👏 . The suspense about the wedding still on though there are too many promos which says that wedding will happen


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Did she forgive him in matter of minutes, hours or days or months ? Thoda toh timing ka khayal karo yaar !
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: taniyaharshu



@bold: why he failed to see that is, his anger and hurt is more because his "ANGEL" madhu can think of hurting him... He has set some high standards for her and thought she would never do anything which hurts him... that is what bothering him more than her plan... He is not able to accept that she is not an "ANGEL" but a human... that's what i understood


Agree.

He clearly states that. We can see the videos again and catch it.

He was not crying because of the hurt. He was crying today for the anger and disappointment, that is still in swell size in his heart. Woh hota hai na...gusse zyaada ho jaaye to hum ro padte hain. RK really needs a venting session, just that timing is not sitting well.😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Quiet in the examination room please!!!. Studen RK is taking the test of love. Examiner Madhu and Student RK are at the dream house to get thru this test without 3rd party interference. This test is a unique one wherein the student gets to ask all the questions and examiner is supposed to answer it and to top it all, student gets to decide when the exam is over.

At the end of this question/answer session, the student needs to deduce what is the subject of the exam that he just took. He needs to tell that to the examiner on her face and BOTH MUST get to decide whether student passed or failed. So far I think student is doing ok. Most of his questions are right but he needs to ask exactly those questions which will hopefully lead him to the correct answers from the examiner. Meanwhile, I don't want the examiner to give the student any hints on her own or reveal more than what is asked. That would be cheating, no?

By the way exam is not over yet, and I am not sure if it will end tomorrow or will student RK take his own sweet time to let the examiner off the hook. I don't think even examiner knows that or cares. I bet examiner is just happy that student is at least asking questions. 😆😆😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Loved the episode. DVD nail it when they're given good scenes, backed with good direction.
I loved:
  • the way RK makes Madhu sit on the bed , sits down, and stares at her with so much hurt
  • RK's dialogues...his main source of hurt...why couldn't she have told him, why did she have to share everything about her love with the one person her lover detests. Very valid point.
  • What was the so called friend doing in his bedroom on his wedding evening with the bride?? Valid...Madhu is struck dumb, pun intended because she has no answers. Why was he there, and she must be wondering, what had happened to her that she encouraged him to stay in the room??
  • SO her friend knew her 'faisla' and was trying to tell her that she should not weaken her resolve. madhu looks shamefaced, again no answer.
  • Sultan related questions were too good, for once Madhu had no answers, she could not justify any of her actions or Sultan's.
  • Loved the way she kept hugging him, touching his face, trying to calm him, and convince him that she cannot live without him. This time, he did find it difficult to pull her hands away. Lat lag gayi😆
  • loved the fact that finally RK has realised what all of us always say...Madhu is no angel, so do not put her up on a pedestal. That doesn't mean we don't love her, just that she is no archetypal heroine, she has shades of grey, accept it.

Did not like:

  • Madhu apologising so much, without giving any solid explanations, especially to Sultan related questions. Will anyone ever try to find out how SUltan entered RK mansion with so much security in place??
  • Dhoka related questioning was valid, but carried any further would reek of double standards. SO please can we have a dignified closure to this revenge game between these two??? Hopefully, the story will shift focus a bit, so it is possible, that these two can stop playing badla badla, tu tu, main main??

Please note: I'm ignoring GHG. Not interested in his story at all, not a twit. Except that I know it will find a circuitous route to my fav couple. And of course, it gives DD time to practice. so theek hai, will grudgingly accept the introduction of the gangster family. I don't have to watch it though.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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RK got a taste of his own medicine and he did not like it, did he? He said that every time he sees her he will remember her betrayal. This for a betrayal which did not materialise. Yes, he felt betrayed that she had fallen off her pedestal but then the plan she contemplated was a retaliation for the abominable treatment meted out to her. She did not set out on this prem game after the unwedding. She was heart broken but picked up the pieces of her life and forged on. It is when he decided that he wants her back, with not so much as an apology or confession of love that she decided to teach him a hard lesson, a lesson she did not have the heart to complete, thanks to her fragile, tender and loving heart and his realisation and rendition of love.



So if I were Madhu today, I would have asked him, how come he sees only her dhoka everytime he sees her face and not his own which prompted it in the first place. But then Madhu being Madhu could only think of his hurt for she knows that his emotional death is hers too.



I want a proper closure for that fateful night when he shattered a young girl's dream. I want him to correlate his pain with hers and go that extra mile to show her he is deeply ashamed of what he did to her. I wouldn't mind seeing another emotional breakdown when their combined pain at what they inflicted on each other is washed and they accept each other for who they really are, two flawed human beings madly in love with each other, despite all odds against them. I think that healing will culminate in a passionate consummation. Now how many weeks/months we will have to wait for it, I do not know.


P.S. RK promises to give his Madhu all the happiness in the world in the wedding promo. So is this just a bait or are these two starting their relationship on a clean slate?
Edited by Opti - 12 years ago

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