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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think RK is planning something. Like he said to Radhaji he will never let Madhu go even if she cheated. He said this night of the party. So I think it is going to be a hatred filled marriage because Rk doesn't forgive and forget easily either. Maybe than Madhu will realize once an idiot always an idiot.

P.s. you can call me Sona. It's weird how many ppl on the forum do and you don't even though you have known me longer! Lol!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sector

👏 @ Abby-Jeran already said what i had to say.

Besides that what Charishma said - 👏

" I've known many women who've been raised to be strong and independent. But nothing in life prepares you for dishonesty that results from abuse of trust. "


First time in all these years a post has bought me to my knees and to ask you Charishma - who are you...? if you can analyse in such depth, surely you can help some of such women take important decisions in real life. Peolple like you are hard to find.
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😆 you're so funny. I'm so glad people understood me despite my complete inability to write sense. Its not necessarily about getting lost in love. Its about letting an undeserving person know you so well, that they can make you do anything they want. Knowledge is key. I've seen it happen. People are very simple. And it takes real great pieces of work to manipulate with no conscience, and to the detriment of the other. I just pray to all and above that the cv's know that this is what they're writing. I mean, RK's reaction today was very telling. The tantrum, despite knowing the truth. All of which, I am sure, was done just to get Madhu to throw Sultan out of her life. I keep on saying this lol, but really, please let there be a purpose to this.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Gurtiluv

@charishma
I think RK is planning something. Like he said to Radhaji he will never let Madhu go even if she cheated. He said this night of the party. So I think it is going to be a hatred filled marriage because Rk doesn't forgive and forget easily either. Maybe than Madhu will realize once an idiot always an idiot.

P.s. you can call me Sona. It's weird how many ppl on the forum do and you don't even though you have known me longer! Lol!



😆😆 for sure. Sona it is. I'm so sorry, I'm always unsure about using someone's name online. Some people don't like to. I don't remember calling you by your name before though. I didn't right?

But yeah, fingers crossed. I feel bad for wanting RK to hurt Madhu again. But it would be so unrealistic if he didn't. And completely disconnected from what I've been seeing.

Do you remember that scene at the restaurant? I don't know if this is how it happened exactly, but RK saw Sultan and purposefully did a move then that would put his back to Sultan and Madhu's front to him. And then he stayed like that for about what seemed like forever and smirked to himself. Even if Madhu doesn't know it, RK knows he's stopping something from happening. It is a game.
Edited by Charishma - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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No worries dear! Ppl on the other forum called me Sonika and here ppl go by my nickname so you might have been confused. But it's been a long time so even I don't remember.

Yeah there could have been symbolism in that scene! With RK you never know what is genuine and what is fake. Maybe he realized he had failed in breaking Madhu so wants to keep her trapped from moving on.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i still remember when mbsaid .to her didu..that didu me kaise jiyungi..i hope she will use her brain..atleast for her
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with your post. You bring up a LOT of valid points that needed to be brought up.

Here's the thing with emotionally abusive relationships. They don't work via physical force. The person manipulates you emotionally and mentally. They get to know all your little insecurities and buttons. But instead of respecting that knowledge (like loved ones do) abusers use it to their advantage. Literally everything is a lie. But they get to know you so well, know what makes you tick, that you dance to their tune. Quite how Madhu dances to RK's. They make you cry because they can. They wipe your tears because they can. They abuse you because they can. And then they laugh with you because they can. Every single horrible thing RK has done to Madhu has been consciously done.

Yup, yup, yup. This is why I keep saying that the episode where he takes her to the house and goes on about how he doesn't want to dress his wound, that episode is a prime example of his emotional manipulation.

And so true, Deepali is in many ways the sanest. She at least sees much of it for what it really is.


But the biggest thing I want to say WORD to is this right here:

Most are ridiculing Sultan's shock. But see here's the thing. He wasn't heartbroken. He was taken aback and shocked. Here's an honest reaction to Madhu's decision. And its not based on a selfish desire to have her for himself. He thinks she's lost her mind. And she has.

Thank you, Thank you, Thank you. I don't know where this whole "Sultan's heartbreak" is coming from. What I saw wasn't heartbreak, but as you said, an honest reaction to Madhu's reaction. He's reacting honestly with all the information he has, and after all that both Madhu and her mother had told him. And his reaction wasn't from any kind of selfish disappointment.


Edited by likarsh - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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^Yeah man. With Sultan and Madhu, I thought for a moment that I had been watching a different scene from everyone altogether, based on what most (you know whos) have been saying lol. The whole reaction to Sultan's behaviour has be puzzled. He wasn't sad, he was completely dumfounded and plain shocked. like what does that tell you? 😆 Madhu has gone nutso.

Edited by Charishma - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Superb Post Charishma,

Most of the people who abuse are charming, their charm is the one makes abused person attracted to them. Abused girls in general can't live with the the abuser and can't leave the abuser, they are emotionally confused, that is theory behind the Stockholm syndrome.

I hope Chikni is right but I doubt it, lets see what is on the writers mind, will wait.
Edited by paljay - 12 years ago

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