Too strong a step.. What are you telling us CVs?

Originally posted by: enigmatic_zephy

Balraj Choudhary... mostly everyone would agree he is far from an easy person to live with..

Padmini detests him, Trish and MB had no love lost.. afterall he tried to kill all three of them..

And yet, Padmini kept wearing the mangalsutra, she kept all the fasts.. she never demeaned the sanctity of all rituals and all symbols of being a married woman..

Did she do it to uphold the image in the public..NO.. far from it.. she did it only because that's her belief.. she is married to balraj, she may like it or not but he is her husband.. and she kept karvachauth for him.. she prayed for his long life.. because she still considered herself his wife..and there are duties of a wife she must see through.. When she did finally lose it??? When the mother in her had to take a stand..

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Now talk about Madhu,

This woman is actually in love with her husband ( ok, for sake of this post we are assuming they are husband and wife due to lack of evidence)...or atleast was..

Going by her actions in past, she was hurt..but she still cared.. she cared till holi episode..

ANd apprently, she knew she loves him when he forced her to come to his house..( she screamed at him didnt she?)... so you can be really really angry at someone .. but if you know you love the person you do care..at the end of the day..right?

..cool

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Now this woman who is hurt wants her self respect back and will fight for it..

I am with the CVs till here.. .. But what confuses me is the precap..

Madhubala malik on purpose spoils the puja.. which is supposedly 'Suhaagano' wali puja???

Knowing radhaji, the puja cna have only 2 purpose

1. Well being of RK

2. Or, Well being of RK mansion

Isn't this spoiling the puja , too strong a step for Madhubala..???

If she is capable of doing this then mentally, subconsciously also she has lost all love for RK.. else a god believer as hers, a woman who may go through ups and down of life.. fight them face them but will not demean her belief of being a married woman because things are not right!

Do I have a problem with that.. No, if that is what CVs are showing! But there is a HUGE disconnect...

If she takes this step, its the final break.. then I can not believe she feels anything for him.. and this is a clean break...you can't just fix it in future...and all the crap about her loving him deep down there will not be valid anymore...

CVs.. are you really trying to tell us that?? This means, if tomorrow, RK is on deathbed MB will not care!!!!...

Go either way with your story.. but be sure of the woman's character...and understand the subtle / nuances of each action of hers and the meaning you are sending across to us...

Originally posted by: _charu_

awesome post..👏

fully agree with you, but this is ominous since Madhu didn't put the water deliberately..she mistook water for ghee... must be the writers way of showing that God is supporting her OR it's a bad omen...anyhow, she should be smart enough to escape from these tricks of Dipali , as she must be aware that more of it is coming in future and she will have to crush Radha's emotions too if she has to tread this path...

Oh!.. I thought she did that purposely and the sad face because she will but obviously say it happened by mistake.. she cant let anyone have a doubt on her.. but guess will have to wait for the actual events..

As for married women holding the sanctity of marriage, i won't blame her since RK never respected their marriage..

Neither am I saying she should, but whatever I have understood of her character and Padmini's ( thank god, she is one stable character till now).. she considers herself a married woman and will uphold the sanctity of rituals no matter what.. If I have read the character wrong then yes my entire argument goes for a toss..

.if Padmini wore mangalsutra etc. and kept fasts, it was her belief, if Madhu doesn't want to do it, it's her belief...every pooja, karvachauth, if they're not done dil se , they hold no meaning..and mangalsutra etc. etc. are mere symbols...mujhe toh ye confusion hai Madhu considers herserlf as suhagan or no..😕

Hehe.. yeah. I agree.. she has her free will to choose and neither would I bash her if she chooses to forego of all of this.. but then like I said, what I have understood of her character.. ( and Padmini is stronger woman than MB ever has been).. I do not think she would on purpose do anything to ridicule these rituals..

I did some research on the legality of marriage and I found out that since the marriage was not done with proper rituals etc. , then it's not considered marriage under the Hindu marriage act..so theirs is a kind of live in relationship but for that , recently, in 2012, the SC passed a law that if the two people mutually stay together for a period of time and they declare themselves as husband wife and society sees them as a couple, then legally, the marriage laws will apply..as in, the wife can claim property rights , divorce, and their children will not be illegitimate...this is just for GK and far related from MB bec. they never took the legal route...they r running their own story...

tfs... ya.. and if I am not mistaken that time is a considerable time .. some 2 yrs or more.. yahan to 6 mahine mein shaadi toot gayi 😆.. but at one point in time MB considered herself his wife rt?...

and my perception is she still did.. if she doesn't I am still fine but would be nice if CVs clear that for us..😆... Chote se mere dimaag par bahut zor padta hai 😛.. phat jayega ek din 😆😆😆

Originally posted by: Cutieee1992

:Agree with your beginning post until Madhu "purposely" spoiling Puja. If you watch the precap, she doesn't do it on purpose. And anyways, let's not jump to conclusion before the episode airs.

Originally posted by: lakshmi_pai

my view is

madhu loved and is loving rk for sure...😊..now her intention is to teach rk a lesson and she is not staying in the mansion as his wife but just to make rk realise his mistakes...😊

as the episode is not on air we dont know the circumstance in which she extinguishes the fire, probably the panditji might had told her to perform the pooja with good heart...if it is for well being of her husband, then rk wont be alive and die for sure...😡...its madhu who saved him if she too wants him to die better that happen so that we could stop watching the show...

btw yesterday rk too promise from madhu for what reason??...may be if he is dead then also madhu cannot jump from the building ...yup......😡