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BreezillusionS

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Posted: 12 years ago

Hey people. So, I guess you can say this is one of my acting out posts cause I'm sorta, kinda annoyed yet Gross with their so called *creative minds*(cvs) and after today episode , if i could say in one lines to them, PLEASE SAVE SULBALA and SPARE ME THE HORROR! Perhaps the most bizzare episode ever aired!. Anyway, so please bear with me if I ramble. 😆😛 Personally, I feel our society is one where certain actions, phrases and words have been bas***dized to levels where they mean little or nothing. I could go over a few of them but today, I'll just go with the most annoying one. "LOVE" "ISHQ" Yes!! The world's favourite four-letter word (no, it's not food).

Now, my opinion on this is very simple. I'll leave religion out of it and just talk from the "worldly" perspective. Call me white or whatever but growing up, I read a lot of books and saw all kinds of movies and by the time I was 12, I knew there was more to professing love than the way it was carelessly done here.(eg: RKBala) Also, I couldn't help but notice how a lot of people tried to justify things such as staying in abusive relationships with that same four-letter word ' LOVE. A lot of us say it, use it recklessly, just another word ' right? Trouble begins when you ask an average black man to define the word "love" in a "non-religious" context. (Yes, we'll get to you so hold that thought.)

Before I go on, let me state clearly that in my opinion, the under listed, are VERY VERY different.

Admire ,Infatuate ,Lust ,Like ,Be "in Like" ,Love ,Be "in love"

Also, I'd like to state that when it comes to love, I have the following opinions:

1. You can love more than one person at once but you CANNOT be IN LOVE with

more than one person at the same time.

2.Once you fall IN LOVE with someone, you can fall OUT OF LOVE with the person but

it would take a grave sin for you to completely stop loving the person.

3.Merely LOVING someone can NEVER justify certain things (e.g. staying in an

abusive relationship) however, being IN LOVE with someone "might".

From this, you can clearly see that in my opinion, being "in love" with someone carries a whole lot more weight that just loving someone. Your parents, siblings, friends can love you. You can love a girlfriend/boyfriend after being "in like" for so long but falling "in love"? That's not something you just do. I've loved and still do but falling "in love"? I'm still waiting to experience it.

Having said all of this, If you are truly in love, you will actually take that bullet(sacrifice your life) for him or her, then you, my friend, are IN LOVE. Similarly happened with Madhubala today. She's willing to die for RK but not because she is or 'was' in love with him but rather than feel disgusted ,crying her heart out for a FREEDOM and JUSTICE! It shows and today Madhu has proven infinitely unworthy of RK's so called love for her. To Rk is like I love her(Really?) but i doubt it! Madhu would go to any lenght just to make RK realizes the same emotions she had gone through of Being in love. The only way to " make" him realize well, if she left! Otherwise, it is just all talk... I feel immense sympathy for Mr.Rishabh Kundra thinking he will be alone forever if he doesn't have madhubala, so she can't walk away without a good closure or vice versa.

Coming back to the main topic- LOVE. I think complete selflessness is the perfect expression of being in love, when the happiness of the person you're in love with matters as much as (or even more than) yours. When you'd rather be hurt than see the person get hurt! Before I get too mushy, I just think it's putting the person's well-being and happiness ahead of yours, if need be. Love is a feeling you feel when you feel you've never felt the feeling that you are feeling before.However love is more than a feeling and its a shame that most people confuse infatuation/lust with love.A wise preacher once said "You don't fall in love,you grow in love". Ever since I heard those words,i've begun to see the truth in it and I've also observed most of the couples I admire and noticed that love for them was a process which grew overtime as their friendship evolved. (eg: Sulbala)..Love, an emotion that grows and builds on other emotions. Its the most misunderstood and yet the most real emotion of them all, as u mentioned bollywood has painted a rather shallow image of love. It is deep, very deep,to me, most relationships flow from lust to like to plenty more like to love and gradually fall in love. Its not something that happens overnight, coz true love never dies, never!! So if one minute u love someone and the next u don't, u never loved them. I'm guilty of its misuse though,coz sometimes like doesn't convey how much the person means to u at that time..

That's my definition, time for yours. Before you share your comments, please share your definition of "being IN LOVE". If you don't have one, no problem, use the comment box and speak your mind in a good way and stay classy!. Cheers.😳😆

NOTE : Mature fun loving people , most than welcome! Others who are not part of all that, please kindly keep your distance.😃

Edited by LuxXxiousArtz - 12 years ago

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Samridhi

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Posted: 12 years ago

I do not want to define love, because I believe it can't be defined. Defining it would only mean restricting it, just the way RK does, by constantly demanding MB for proof. However, I am not implying here that he doesn't love her.

All I want to say is that RK-MB's relationship is beyond just love & today's episode reflected that. It is definitely their story, not their love story.

And, it's a rather sad story. After today's episode, I am sure MB is not going to be able to love RK the way she once did, and probably RK is going to start to realize MB's value in his life. Sigh. It is too late. What's done cannot be undone.

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tanvismile

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Posted: 12 years ago

I believe being in love is putting the needs of loved one first,it about not letting your loved one gets hurt ,its about being happy.Actuaaly RK love is lovely to imagine for teenagers ,his obsessiveness but when two people arent happy together (rishibala)its not love.Actualy holi sequence brought me back to show ,his overflowing love,his foecefully touching her and she melting down ,but then realised its not love .So opted for sulbala.

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Barbiedoll_sona

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Posted: 12 years ago

missed sultan today..wasting the tallent of AR for me today's episode was just for dd only coz i love dd .. I hate cvs no sultan today 😭

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bidz

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Posted: 12 years ago

I finally read through your entire essay😆

jokes apart, well said. my philosophy on love is simple. once you fall in love, you have to keep growing in love. You have to keep working on it. Else, what will be left of the love is what you experienced of it in the past.

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ninand

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Posted: 12 years ago

I agree with all of your post Tm.. and I admire your patience for listing it all out so elaborately once again.. it was a pleasurable read:)

but, I have come to realize that debate, the nature of which in an interchange of logic and reasoning to understand opposing views, with some semblance of integrity on the part of the debators , and not just blind belief , is not the norm on this forum.sad.

Anyway, I do not see this story devoid of RK either. But he by no means, forms the other half or even any consequential fraction in any relationship whatsoever. Mb is not an exception for him .She again is the norm.

Like with Deepali, with his mother.. he has never been able to cut them out of his life, but kept them around , just to stroke his ego by constantly belittling them . We may know that deepali deserves it and his mother didn't, but for RK , there is not difference.

No difference because even after reconciling with her, her emotions, her pleas hold nothing for him. He can easily trample over them roughshod, and uncaring.

Both Radha, and Deepali didnt leave him , instead stuck around despite his venom.. and that is only what sets MB apart. That she wanted to move on. so his obsession comes into the picture. No one leaves him. No one leaves him, intact.

and that was what today was all about too. so it doesn't matter to his fans that he was the one who wanted Mb to prove her love yet again.. drove her to the point of jumping off that terrace.. nah.. they want to glorify that he 'saved' her.

its totally incomprehensible. Not Rk. RK is so plainly understandable that its boring.

incomprehensible is the fact that he is called a 'lover' , a true great(!) lover even after everything he has done , and is still doing.

He was sickening today, as always. and there is no pronoun other than 'me , my , I and mine' in his dictionary.

SO yes, this story may need a shallow superficial character to drive some of its aspects forward, but he definitely isn't a part of 'love', of any kind, in this story.

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Barbiedoll_sona

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Posted: 12 years ago

cvs have lots of trust on deeps than sultan that's why she share more screen space.. 🤪

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DushtDanaf.

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Posted: 12 years ago

have you read the new mods note? word of advice: you should take your ps down. 👍🏼

RISHBALA TOGETHER - ALWAYS & FOREVER <3 .

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saudade

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Posted: 12 years ago

"You didn't love her. You just didn't want to be alone. Or maybe, maybe she was good for your ego. Or maybe she made you feel better about your miserable life, but you didn't love her, because you don't destroy the person that you love."

There is a very thin line between love and obsession. And I guess some people love blurring those lines.

All I can say is I am rooting for Madhubala. 😊

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BreezillusionS

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: saudade

"You didn't love her. You just didn't want to be alone. Or maybe, maybe she was good for your ego. Or maybe she made you feel better about your miserable life, but you didn't love her, because you don't destroy the person that you love."

There is a very thin line between love and obsession. And I guess some people love blurring those lines.

All I can say is I am rooting for Madhubala. 😊

I got excited seeing the new Madhubala Shamser Malik! She has becomes fearless, sound familiar!😳😉