RK and Madhu - Infinite Shades of Grey

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think too much is made of RK's traumatic childhood and the 3 betrayals. Many people lose one of their parents in childhood, lots get step parents too. Yes it does hurt a lot but if you hold on to your hurt for years and years, then you yourself are to blame.

RK got a wholesome childhood for the first 12 years of his life. He was pampered by both his parents. And when he lost his father to death, he wanted his mother to be there for him. She was too. I do feel she was wrong to remarry without first making sure that her son was okay with it or not but that doesn't change that fact that he was always her first priority. RK knows that too and that is why he was able to punish her for 16 years. He cared for her enough to take care of her materially and putting up with her husband's family but he never let her feel good about herself or their relationship.

So he got his heart broken by Deepali. Big deal. Nobody gets everything in life. He has had his share of luck too. He is a superstar. Adored and loved by millions. He wholeheartedly enjoys his stardom and the perks that come with it.

Coming to Madhu, she was the one who poked the sleeping tiger and got her family into trouble. She is quite selfish in her self-righteousness - so much so that she never stopped to think that her whole family earns its living from the film industry and RK is quite capable of ensuring that none of them ever find work again. She swept away Trishna's dreams as unimportant in front of her righteous tirade. In Sultan's case too she brought a gangster involved in a raging gangwar to her chawl, never thinking for a minute that she was endangering the lives of all the people there.

Coming back to her earlier mistake, she had to pay for her foolishness by marrying RK. In fact she got away quite lightly. The worst RK did to her was make her work as his spot and dance with her at the party. After that it was smooth sailing for her till the heartbreak. RK feels justified in his unwedding drama because breaking her was the reason he had married her. Yeah she did a lot for him during those few months but RK being RK kept a record of all her favours and carried out the unwedding only after he felt that he had returned all her favours. She saved his life so he saved her life back. She helped him with Bappa, his father's death and mother, so he forgave Mallik, got Padmini and Mallik married and tried to launch Trishna's career. RK's brand of justice! Tit for Tat - for negative as well as positive.

RK is emotionally abusive in his relationships. Madhu is extremely selfish but likes to think what she does is for the greater good. Both have huge egos. Both are crazy. And when they are together, sparks fly. We love them for what they are. Now if only the CVs will stop trying to paint RK all black and Madhu all white, it will be much more fun watching their cat and mouse games. Madhu is no angel (here's looking at you Mr. Tewari). Please let her accept it and drop all the sanskaar nonsense. Let her be a strong woman who gives it back as good as she gets and doesn't cloak her anger/ego/revenge under the veil of Ms. goody-two-shoes. We like grey. Give us grey.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I AGREE LET HER ACCEPT IT WE ARE LOVING HER LIKE THIS
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Hey Fabulous Post !!!!! 👏
Really loved it.. 😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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this is definitely my favorite post about them; you didn't excuse away all his personality flaws as some side effect to past events and you didn't let Madhubala off the hook for being equally, if not more, selfish and egotistic. Very apt; although i have to say, being from a broken family i had a lot of issues with relating to people, and none of my parents are even dead so maybe him having lost his father has more of an effect then we give it credit for. but i love your post and agree: GIVE US GREY !
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I loved it.. specially the madhu part.. I have always said that.. The way she went about the in the Mukund episode.. for whatever miseries befell on her and her family she is responsible for that..

Good piece...

The only thing in favor of all this is.. that it is seriously hatke..our leads are full of weakness.. unlike other serials..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ClosetRomantic

I think too much is made of RK's traumatic childhood and the 3 betrayals. Many people lose one of their parents in childhood, lots get step parents too. Yes it does hurt a lot but if you hold on to your hurt for years and years, then you yourself are to blame.



loved you post 👏

however, i slightly disagree here.. 3 betrayals are not an "excuse" to his current behavior but it does help us in understanding his psyche..just as Madhu's current stand can be justified with the bitterness of her past...afterall our experiences in past and present help in shaping up our personalities...again, understanding and acceptance are two different things...Madhu might have understood his pain now , as she went through the same or more than that and it must be clear to her that "accepting" a person, his past and forgive , forget and move on is easier said than done..😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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If cvs could just stop putting Malik's on pedestal and stop illogical explanations with mein pagalpan hu and and Sanskari lecture, it would be much more entertaining to watch
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thanks a lot to everybody for your encouraging words 😊

Dushtdanaf., Charu, Yes it is not easy for children from broken families. RK's past helps us understand why he is the way he is. My problem is when some people use that as an excuse for every wrong he does.

enigmatic_zephy, armummy, That is what attracted me towards MEIEJ too that the leads are highly flawed. Now if only the CVs accept Madhu's flaws we could have a Scarlett O'Hara-Rhett Butler kind of unusual love story.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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superb post 👏 love it 😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
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yes,her angel avtar is to impress mommy dearest,just so that she can trust her jhoothi beti 🤣 🤣 🤣
i dont get it,why she needs to hide her intentions?be like RK. 😆

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