Originally posted by: Oh_No_Soaps
I feel for you. And am putting below a topic i posted earlier. When you consider how most of the members here are girls and how many are supporting what rk is doing or excusing it and even worse expecting madhu to be happy ever after with him, it just goes to show how much they have already been influenced by society and what they have watched on tv day in day out since they were kids. What you want and are saying and what I want and am saying are all tied up togather. Respect lady for you as a woman and a mother. Not coz you are still with your husband but because you KNOW he is wrong and it should not be tolerated but your circumstances do not allow you to move on. You have self respect which so many on this forum don't even know the meaning of unfortunately.
...a great number of naive viewers, just because he is sexy and sarcastic stupidly think that its because of his terrible past, its just his ego...once he realises he loves her blah blah blah!!
1. Yes it makes good viewing. For a while. For some people, it seems all the time!!
2. Yes I will continue to watch so long as the show has more than bullying, abuse and control of Madhu by Rk and eye locks between the two.
3. Its good that romantic heroes are being shown that are not, as Gautam Hegde (one of the writers of the show) has said in the past, just Sri Ramchandra types. But now having taken the step with IPKKND, of showing abusive, controlling boyfriend/husband the next step needs to be taken:
RK is no Sri Ramchandra and Madubala is no Sita. Infact even Sita left permanently the 2nd time round!! And it wasn't even her husband who was pointing fingers at her!!
SHOW THAT MADHU REJECTS RK, IF NOT MID WAY THEN DEFINITELY AT THE END.
No matter what twists and turns the show takes...
No matter whether Madhu ends up with Sultan temporarily or permanently...
No matter if Madhu ends up with RK temporarily
So far as everything that has been shown about him, even a student psychologist or psychiatrist would recognize him as a psychopath. Psychopathy is not a curable disorder. CVs do not end this show by sending out the msg that guys like this CHANGE. In real life they do not.
No wonder Indian women and girls are treated the worst in the world!! You watch abuse like this EVERY evening on TV from childhood onwards and it ends with the guy saying "sorry, I love you" and its all ok and they live happily ever after???!!! THAT DOES NOT HAPPEN IN REAL LIFE. The countless number of girls and women, who think that her boyfriend/man/husband will change only if she loves him enough, or does what he wants etc etc, is SHOCKING!
Oh and for all those who think it doesn't influence you, and you know the difference between your real life and what you enjoy watching??? If ALL of us were not being influenced, advertising which is a mulit-billion dollar industry would not exist.
Serials, not just adverts, what we watch and come across everyday influences ALL of us, whether we realise it or not!! Its a proven fact.
HAVE MADHUBALA SHOW SELF RESPECT AT LEAST AT THE END!!!
Link below to my original post so you can see the replies if you want
https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/madhubala-ek-ishq-ek-junoon/3525939/rk-systematically-victimizing-madhu-while
Thanks dear for getting me...but I feel that right now show is heading towards what I want to see😊