Originally posted by: swapna555
yep me too done with this serial!! :-)
I actually appreciated the makers point of view. They know to how to do drama. :-) Impartially I love the way, they gave something to all the groups, something to love and some thing to hate and keep them wanting. :-) They really know what they r doing and to get TRPs. :-)
But, as for me, for whatever reason if Madhu goes back to him now, even if it is to teach him a lesson or for revenge or for love, Madhu's char is destroyed beyond pale.
Because that it not who she is. She cannot go for revenge or for love without self respect.
I realized today, some of us, me included, who call our selves sulbala fans r not really that.
We r the ones, who r actually on Bala's side, identifying with her humiliation and self respect as a woman and wanting her to show to herself and to her abuser and to the world that she can move forward from her humilation and degradation and betrayal and show she too can move on, that this hurt he has given her is not for life and that she does have the courage to not look back and go forward, love again , trust again and lead a complete life erasing the memory of such a man from her life and proving to herself and him that he is of no consequence.
That his betrayal did not matter. She did not break and she is not weak to cling to a mirage.
But, I guess it was too much to expect from a tv serial for that. :-)