I have just gone through 20 pages so if my reply seems a little out of place or irrelevant then my sincere apologies in advance 😆
Learning to differentiate between real and reel is something which ALL fan groups need to do. I don't think this is exclusive to the MB forum alone. Take a look at any popular forum with popular celebs/jodis and you will see it - fanatic fans, sane fans...the lot of them. But you will hardly find neutral fans because our likes and dislikes always cloud our judgement. It's fact.
The problem with this forum is that we thrive on drama 😆 and we simply cannot accept the fact that there is a serious divide between the main leads fan groups. And you know what? It's not such a big deal providing we don't make lives difficult for others. We need to be more sensitive towards the feelings of other members but that doesn't mean having to silence our views. We can and should still be able to express our thoughts freely.
Now I'm a DD fan and have no issues with some criticising Madhu. But if others want to counter argue and defend her actions then what is wrong in that? I have seen some members being ridiculed on this basis and it's absurd. And criticism should be kept clean. Sometimes I have seen certain members go over board and pass snide remarks which do lead to unrequired fights. One must be responsible enough to draw the line.
Edited by Zinnia.TaaRey - 12 years ago