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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: kendra

okay i read last two parts again and it sent my head spinning 😉😆

rishab and rk !! 😲 i am already falling for rk though he still doesn't knows how grave madhu's problems are.
me too. I like the fact that he confronted her about the wounds when most men would have chosen to shut up. I just love him no matter how mysterious. I have this habit of loving non existent men. Augustus Waters from TFIOS was my first fictional crush. Flynn Rider from Tangled, SRK from pretty much any KJo movie. The list goes on...
waiting for rk's reaction at the portrait. and rishab is shameless !!🤢 will this ss have a happy ending ??
RK appreciates art as far as I can tell. I don't know if he could maintain objectivity given the context now. I never tell what the ending is cause Kendra, I don't know. I just wake up one day and write whatever is clogged in the neurons from last night. I have no idea.

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: adeeba21


he is behaving as a mental patient, shock!! i would be hell scared after such thing.
i just don't like the so called tradition of ladki dikhana people behave as is they r buying a furniture, and after that they make a long list of faults in a girl, she is short, fat, dark, wears spectacles, talk much, no morals, as if their son is a god with no faults.
whenever u see a matrimonial column with "want bride" they want tall, gorgeous, literate, rich and working girl. such a hypocrisy of society. i also have many such people in my so called khadan.
whenever i say this thing to my mom she says beta society se bahar ho to nahi soch sakte na.
therefore, i prefer not to talk about it with anyone.
I have some Korean friends and one of them is planning to go back Seoul this summer, her parents want her to get plastic surgery. Apparently it is the culture. Girls and guys' families saving up to correct what God did wrong with their faces. with a fresh perspective, she is armed to fight it but I am scared for her. As far as the matrimony business goes, it is precisely that: business exchange. there is no way around it unless you choose rebel. easier said than done.
this first night will be a nightmare of her life. yes he.
No, as you will see, he has many more scares & scars to give her.
yes i got it.
i typed such a big comment, all will probably think i am nuts.
screw anyone who thinks that way. I love your long comments 😊

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: iiDona



I remember my cousins telling me it was never a good experience at those parties. People judging for your clothes & what not. I say make a statement but what can you do when nature herself conspires against you. I feel your pain, don't worry. So, you are just preping for entrance or in college now?
my experience was nice, i got 2 farewells till now, one was in 10 other was in 12.
i couldn't tell u, i was the one who was judging all the girls, [it was only girls school], all girls transformed from salwar suit to hot saries, many in red, a lot in net one, and kuch ke toh sari bhi match kar gayi, 😆 i was scared seeing them in make up, my mom told me in home, let me allow to put that mascara, and i said mom its just school's farewell and literally my jaws dropped seeing all girls, aisa laga jaise sabhi aachnak se 7 years badhi ho gayi, and i was feeling like a kiddo.
uff my first sari experience.
i told u about my medical entrance, exam is in 1 month, tabhi to gayab ho jati hu😆
i am still not sure that i have to do it or not. i don't have any other career plan right now, can u suggest something remember i am a bio one.

I am sure you have learned not to trust me by now. Bahut se chure bhokoongi throughtout this story😆
then i will be officially dead after this FF😆

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Posted: 12 years ago
i too like flynn rider aka eugene from tangled 😉

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: iiDona


I have some Korean friends and one of them is planning to go back Seoul this summer, her parents want her to get plastic surgery. Apparently it is the culture. Girls and guys' families saving up to correct what God did wrong with their faces. with a fresh perspective, she is armed to fight it but I am scared for her. As far as the matrimony business goes, it is precisely that: business exchange. there is no way around it unless you choose rebel. easier said than done.

why don't people understand it, it's all things that is given by god, if a person can't accept u as u r, how he will live his/her whole life with u, if something happens to u and u lose ur appearance then,
yes i agree there is a big difference between saying and doing, it needs a lot of courage to go against the society. majority of people get a defeat.
pray for ur friend and support her.

No, as you will see, he has many more scares & scars to give her.
karo karo darao mujhe, bahut maza aata hai na tumhe.

screw anyone who thinks that way. I love your long comments 😊
😳😳

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: kendra

i too like flynn rider aka eugene from tangled 😉


I remember when the movie first came out on DVD, I wanted it with a group friends and I have this very cynical friend who shall remain nameless. Anyway, he says, "I don't know what these girls see in Flynn Rider. The guy is a cartoon". Just then, Flynn does his shmoulder and my friend is in awe. "I think I just melted", he says and we all laugh until we are out of breath. I vividly remember that night. It just fueled my love for Flynn😆
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: adeeba21

my experience was nice, i got 2 farewells till now, one was in 10 other was in 12. i couldn't tell u, i was the one who was judging all the girls, [it was only girls school], all girls transformed from salwar suit to hot saries, many in red, a lot in net one, and kuch ke toh sari bhi match kar gayi, 😆 i was scared seeing them in make up, my mom told me in home, let me allow to put that mascara, and i said mom its just school's farewell and literally my jaws dropped seeing all girls, aisa laga jaise sabhi aachnak se 7 years badhi ho gayi, and i was feeling like a kiddo.

uff my first sari experience.
I have never worn one. No one in my family owns one. I have only ever seen them on manikins or in on other people at a distance. You were young, that is okay. You live and you learn.
i told u about my medical entrance, exam is in 1 month, tabhi to gayab ho jati hu😆
i am still not sure that i have to do it or not. i don't have any other career plan right now, can u suggest something remember i am a bio one.

Good luck. We all have second thoughts but, I want you to know you are young and you have the whole life ahead of you. I study Biochemistry & Biomedical research, Epidemeology & Biostatistics. I am interested in mental health and the social determinants of health. In short, I am all over the place. I do not want to be pigeon holed & so I carry on keeping my options open. If you are very geared toward medicine, take a stab at it and follow through. You will succeed. If you are looking at other things, there are plenty. Especially in global health in India, it is a growing field. We have literally herds of graduate students coming to India for their MPH. (masters in public health). do what you want because you know what is best for YOU
then i will be officially dead after this FF😆
I am counting on that😉

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: adeeba21

why don't people understand it, it's all things that is given by god, if a person can't accept u as u r, how he will live his/her whole life with u, if something happens to u and u lose ur appearance then,

yes i agree there is a big difference between saying and doing, it needs a lot of courage to go against the society. majority of people get a defeat.
pray for ur friend and support her.
Thank you. I agree😊
karo karo darao mujhe, bahut maza aata hai na tumhe.
That is what I am here for love, to scare you😆

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: iiDona


I have never worn one. No one in my family owns one. I have only ever seen them on manikins or in on other people at a distance. You were young, that is okay. You live and you learn.
it was my aunt's sari and she helped he with a lot of pins and those were too big.
my mom have a lot of saris but she doesn't wear it, how will she wear it in office.

Good luck. We all have second thoughts but, I want you to know you are young and you have the whole life ahead of you. I study Biochemistry & Biomedical research, Epidemeology & Biostatistics. I am interested in mental health and the social determinants of health. In short, I am all over the place. I do not want to be pigeon holed & so I carry on keeping my options open. If you are very geared toward medicine, take a stab at it and follow through. You will succeed. If you are looking at other things, there are plenty. Especially in global health in India, it is a growing field. We have literally herds of graduate students coming to India for their MPH. (masters in public health). do what you want because you know what is best for YOU
biochem, my dad is a scientist ,did his P.hd. in biochem.

i am not sure about about medical, i can work hard and study a lot, but it gives such a big responsibility of another person's life, i am not sure will i be able to handle it, also if u do ur mbbs there are only 10% seats for ur MS or MD.

i thought about toxicology some time ago but i am not sure.

i am telling about the situation of this profession in india, all people want their girl to be a doctor and then marry a doctor and sit with him in their nursing home. i don't like it, i never want to work in a nursing home, which is opened just for money, they choose this professional just for money, and i am not interested in money, i think if u will do the thing what u like, u will surely succeed and will get money as well as satisfaction.

i don't want that i will join the medical college than after 1 yr i feel that i had taken wrong decision, just sacred what to choose.

I am counting on that😉
😆😆

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: adeeba21

it was my aunt's sari and she helped he with a lot of pins and those were too big. my mom have a lot of saris but she doesn't wear it, how will she wear it in office.


biochem, my dad is a scientist ,did his P.hd. in biochem.
very cool.
i am not sure about about medical, i can work hard and study a lot, but it gives such a big responsibility of another person's life, i am not sure will i be able to handle it, also if u do ur mbbs there are only 10% seats for ur MS or MD.

i thought about toxicology some time ago but i am not sure.
i am telling about the situation of this profession in india, all people want their girl to be a doctor and then marry a doctor and sit with him in their nursing home. i don't like it, i never want to work in a nursing home, which is opened just for money, they choose this professional just for money, and i am not interested in money, i think if u will do the thing what u like, u will surely succeed and will get money as well as satisfaction.
i don't want that i will join the medical college than after 1 yr i feel that i had taken wrong decision, just sacred what to choose.
Decisions such as this are difficult to make. It is YOUR call. Hear what everyone has to say, do your research and make a decision. Pursue what you love and you will make a career out of it. Money is important but, money without happiness is not money well earned. Your are responsible for your growth choices; failure is also an option and you should keep that in your conscious. Having said that, don't be afraid to fail. Good luck in whatever you do.
Is your father practicing in academics & publishing? or industry? I read papers so I ask😊

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